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kittyprydexo
April 25th, 2014, 03:36 AM
so me and my ex broke up and i got really close to his best friend cause he comforted me and made me happier.
i think i am falling for him, like really badly.
me and him went to a party and ended up waking up cuddling each other, to which my ex was not impressed with. but i think i am in love with him, he's perfect and makes me so very happy.
what do i do? i want to be with him and be his girlfriend..
help!!:what:

DiamondsGirl
April 25th, 2014, 04:09 AM
Go on then. I don't see why you need to hesitate really that boy is now your ex. "Ex" means it's over. Done. Ended. You can now start anew.

marasms
April 25th, 2014, 08:26 AM
It's up to you but your ex doesn't have a say in anything, youre both done

Pensive
April 26th, 2014, 08:01 PM
I will only caution here about the potential of him being the 'rebound' guy. This is someone who provided comfort when you were vulnerable, this may have influenced stronger feelings of gratitude and affection toward him than he deserves, i.e. They may not last.

My advice is to give it time, if he geniinely loves you back then he'll wait for you. If you feel the same for him and the feelings don't fade, then you'll have a solid answer.

Generally if you have to ask for advice like this, you aren't ready to make a decision soon.

Good luck (:

kittyprydexo
May 10th, 2014, 04:40 PM
thank you guys :)))

plebble
May 11th, 2014, 01:49 PM
Ask him out, that's all I'd say