how do I ask someone out if

[ValentinClarke]

I dont know whether they are gay or not

[phuckphace]

well, first find out if he's gay, that's kind of a critical detail :P otherwise you'd just be setting yourself up for a double rejection of sorts.

[Wyatt 13]

Dude why not ask to hang out just as a friends and take it from there?

[Cece14]

Ask to hang out, once you know them, then ask them out on a date or somthing, the worst they could say is no

[backjruton]

I would say to do what I did.

I told a friend I'm attracted to him when he asked me which guy in the group I had feelings for because it's always the people I have the feelings for that ask me these questions.

But I think he's straight so it didn't work so well for me although luckily he doesn't see me any differently because of it either ;) I personally would just say... don't... but that's out of personal opinion that no one should feel the need to tie themselves down. I'm not much help here :lol: