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Pulp501
April 23rd, 2014, 11:23 PM
By wrong sex, I mean not the one you are attracted you, like if you are a straight guy has another guy ever asked you out? If yes, how did you react, did you care? If no, how do you think you would react?

PinkFloyd
April 23rd, 2014, 11:36 PM
I wasn't actually asked out, but this guy went up to me and started flirting with me.

DiamondsGirl
April 24th, 2014, 02:09 AM
I think that's rather disrespectful... Surely there's a nicer way to put it? =\ anyways I've never met a lesbian before. But I've spoken to some and they're all wonderful people. By any chance they asked me out, then there's nothing I can do but tell them "I'm sorry". I sorta believe that's how the majority of us would "react" in this day and age.

CharlieHorse
April 24th, 2014, 02:12 AM
nobody has ever asked me out period
ha

plebble
April 24th, 2014, 02:14 AM
Hasn't happened to me, but I think I'd just laugh it off somehow and make the awkward situation less awkward.

Also, sorry about your mom :(

Karkat
April 24th, 2014, 02:37 AM
I don't think that's possible :P

If we replaced that with "someone you aren't attracted to", all the time. (Well not ALL the time- I'm not trying to sound arrogant or anything, I just mean that 95% of them I wasn't attracted to, and either let 'em off gently, or said 'what the hell'.)

Or on the other hand, is it all too possible? Onhonhon?

Technically, both yes and no, as I like all sexes, but at the same time, I don't.

This is why I avoid answering questions like this.

Melodic
April 24th, 2014, 11:25 AM
No girl has ever hit on me..

phuckphace
April 24th, 2014, 12:04 PM
I've had a few girls hit on me before, who were unaware that I'm gay. I'm glad that they were all white trash/ratchet and not the least bit cute, or otherwise my rejection might have given me away to my friends. D:

Body odah Man
April 24th, 2014, 12:43 PM
Never happened to me but I hope I'll react impartially to it

sqishy
April 24th, 2014, 12:52 PM
Almost got flirted with by a girl when I was in a science competition in 2011, she left when sme interviewer came, end of that.

backjruton
April 24th, 2014, 12:55 PM
It'd be harder with me because I'm either biromantic or just to nothing but even though I say this I'd definitely be happier if a guy asked me out than a girl. Luckily I've never been asked by anyone except for a joke and I don't like the thought of relationships because I don't want to be tied down to anyone and be the first person someone turns to when they're upset because I can hardly handle my own emotions so I shouldn't be expected to help other people handle theirs. At least by giving people the impression I'm friendly but unreliable I can do what I want when I want to and won't be expected to talk to people when they're in the mood to and I'm not :lol: (haven't seen anyone from college for 2 weeks. on facebook today 3 lines is all I've said to 2 of them and I don't want to speak to them until Monday)

My best friend hasn't asked me out, luckily, because she's the same as me but more towards girls than to guys as opposed to my other way round :lol::D:what:

Synyster Shadows
April 24th, 2014, 01:17 PM
Never been hit on by a guy nope

Chrisscotland
April 24th, 2014, 04:30 PM
a girl asked me out about a month ago and im gay but I just said I didn't want a gf just now, no one knows about me yet so it was the easiest thing to say.

Miri
April 24th, 2014, 07:12 PM
Never been asked out buy a girl, but I've been hit on by one, once.
Or at least I'm 99% sure that I was, and it didn't bother me at all. Nothing ever became of it, but it didn't make me uncomfortable or anything, if that's what you're getting at.

Alex_3869
April 24th, 2014, 08:19 PM
I've never been asked out by a girl... But I've been hit on.

Cygnus
April 24th, 2014, 08:55 PM
I was hit on by a guy, not asked out, but hit on, it was very weird, and I explained that I do not like guys in that way so he was going nowhere, and he left me alone, thankfully.

Elysium
April 24th, 2014, 08:59 PM
I've never been asked out by a girl... But I've been hit on.

And the title of this thread is mildly offensive btw
How on earth is it offensive? :confused:

I was sort of asked out in a roundabout way by a guy over the summer, and I'm starting to think the fact that he's a guy might've been an issue, but I'm unsure.

Alex_3869
April 24th, 2014, 09:03 PM
How on earth is it offensive? :confused:

I was sort of asked out in a roundabout way by a guy over the summer, and I'm starting to think the fact that he's a guy might've been an issue, but I'm unsure.

I edited (is that a word??:what:) it. It's stupid re reading it. I've just been hypersensitive lately. :lol:

Elysium
April 24th, 2014, 09:08 PM
I edited (is that a word??:what:) it. It's stupid re reading it. I've just been hypersensitive lately. :lol:
Yes, edited is a word, and ah, I get you. I've done that before too :P

Srom
April 24th, 2014, 11:42 PM
No guy has tried asking me out or started flirting with me.

Abyssal Echo
April 25th, 2014, 12:02 AM
I've been asked by girls that didn't know I'm gay to go to school dances if that counts.

unknownuser
April 25th, 2014, 12:18 AM
No.
I'd find that super weird...

tundravortex
April 25th, 2014, 07:19 AM
unfortunately yes but i wanted to have some fun so to piss him off i asked his sister out :)

marasms
April 25th, 2014, 08:38 AM
you could have said "the opposite sex" and nope

NeuroTiger
April 25th, 2014, 08:40 AM
Maybe once...

jamiecl24
April 26th, 2014, 03:07 PM
Yeah iwas and i got quote embarrassed and blused and i kind of laughed it off and said sorry im not gay thanks for the compliment tho :)

everlong
April 26th, 2014, 03:12 PM
I've never been asked out in general

Menzis
April 26th, 2014, 04:25 PM
No never

Living For Love
April 27th, 2014, 04:38 PM
Before I knew I was gay one guy actually told me he was bi and wanted to go out with me, but I declined.

Gamma Male
April 27th, 2014, 05:48 PM
Before I knew I was gay I was hit on by a girl. Well, not really hit on(it was 7th grade) but more like given pokemon drawings and on Valentine's day a bigger card than everyone else. I wasn't really into her though.