Experimenting?

[Paint]

Hey it's my first post so I don't know if this is in the right place...

Anyway... I have a friend coming over to stay the whole weekend at my house. He's my best friend and he always comes over. So we always talk about sex and porn and jerking off etc. but I can never seem to figure out whether he watches porn or jerks off. This weekend I kinda wanna figure it out and maybe watch porn together or jerk off together (not jerk eachother) but you know just wanna experiment. So I guess my questions are:

Does this make me gay
How do I bring it up to him without being so obvious
Have you done this, and how did you bring it up

PS he's my age (13) and has been my best friend since we were babies

[snowtrax]

No it does not make you gay (this is probably the most popular question on here)

If you're on your laptop when you're hanging out just bring up a porn video or something

Once with my friend we were sitting on the couch watching youtube and I was like "watch this" and I typed in a porn website which ultimately led to wanking together

p.s. if he says he watches porn then he's definitely jerking off....no one just watches it

[Fireangel]

Hi, Don´t worry it's pretty normal and common, most kids do the same, It does not make you gay. Just tell him you would like to experiment, and possibly also he want to but not know how to tell you. Yes, I did a lot of times with my best friend it's awesome, I just told him I wanted to experiment and said yes, let's do it. I love doing it.

[GoWA_Vet]

it does NOT make you gay

[Wyatt 13]

Is not a gay stuff BUT be careful not to ruin your friendship

[ComfortableInChaos]

Does this make me gay?
No, not at all.

How do I bring it up to him without being so obvious?
You could just ask him if he's ever watched porn and what kind it was or you could him if he wants to make each other quizzes where it's just kind of "funny" questions but you have to be honest and answer them and it could build your relationship.

Have you done this, and how did you bring it up? Sadly, no, but I feel like this is probably easy to do.

[lambo420]

It doesn't make you gay. and just be like I'm gonna jerk off if you don't mind you can stay and join

[Darth Vader]

Idk he could sue for sexual harassment if he takes it the wrong way

[Living For Love]

Asking for tips on how to experiment with your friends is not allowed. :locked: