Too large?

[mentsi21]

Hello Girls!

I'm new to this forum, but I like the open-minden people here. Could you help me, advice me? I'm 16yo and virgin, with my bf we are almost there, but his cock seems to be so big, I think its longer than 8", and a bit thick too. What can I do to avoid huge pain? Is it true that with this size he can reach my cervix? Is it really painful, or pleasure?

Dora

[sallyfunshine]

I think it also depends on your depth but most likely with a penis that size he will be bigger than your vaginia. The average penis is 5-7 so is the average vaginia(in). If it is your first time it will hurtjust because it is ur first. Ask to go slow and ull be fine. ;)

[mentsi21]

Thanks! I hope it'll be fine. Have you ever experienced a size like this?

[biancachica]

Hello Girls!

I'm new to this forum, but I like the open-minden people here. Could you help me, advice me? I'm 16yo and virgin, with my bf we are almost there, but his cock seems to be so big, I think its longer than 8", and a bit thick too. What can I do to avoid huge pain? Is it true that with this size he can reach my cervix? Is it really painful, or pleasure?

Dora

The length should be the less of your worries. My bf is only 6 inches and he can usually reach my cervix but this can be controlled by him going less deep or with the position. Girth should be your main concern. Can you tell me or estimate how thick he is? My bf has an average girth of about 5" inches (i measured) and i am quite tight from what ive been told. His penis was very thick for me and it took many tries to actually get it in. Im not going to lie, but it was really painful. The advantage of having a thick partner is that when you start getting used to it, like i am now, it hurts much less (just a bit when starting but it goes away) and the thickness pushes against the inside of the vagina with a lot of friction and feels really good. To avoid as much pain as possible, always be sure to warm up and spend lots of time on foreplay. Use some lube and make sure you are relaxed. Also communication is key and tell him to stop when it hurts to much. Also try positions with your legs spread or maybe positions that youre in control. I hope this helps :)

[ChrisTJ]

Yeah if you are a virgin then having sex with someone who has a penis that size will likely hurt. The only advice I can give is to go slow, use a bit of lube as well to help things along and don't be afraid to tell him to stop if it's hurting too much. You need to be able to communicate about how things feel. Your body will after a few tries start getting used to his size and the pain should go away eventually. Just be very slow and careful the first few times!

[Taryn98]

Having sex for the first time generally hurts most people. Go slowly and make sure you're wet or use lube. Your body is designed for a baby to come out of it. I seriously doubt his penis is larger than that.

[ImAurora]

Go slow and gentle and use lube, you should be good :)

[Brenda1997]

Make sure you're wet enough, and use lube.
Also take it slow and ask him to don't go to deep. :)

The 1st time will probably hurt a bit anyway, just because it's the 1st time

[Fran-Hot]

Hi :)
all written is ok - use maybe lube, get much foreplay and be relaxed
but i think for the first time it is better to "use" a big girth ;)
because in the first time you break your hymen, a big one do it better than a small one and the pain at the first time is maybe the same ;)
sorry for my bad english

[shaune]

I only had sex twice and it went in easily but I was wet.

[mentsi21]

Thanks for your replies and advices. You're great. We're doing it tonight, in a few hours actually, Are you curious? :) Shall I share the experience?

[biancachica]

Thanks for your replies and advices. You're great. We're doing it tonight, in a few hours actually, Are you curious? :) Shall I share the experience?

Sure why not :p

[NotShortButFunsized]

hows that for confidence? :p

[mentsi21]

Hi Girls!

It happened last night :) I'm not a virgin any more. He was really gentle, soft and slow. We had a really long foreplay. There was some pain and a little bit of blood, but it was okay :) Of course I couldn't take the whole lenght, but about 2/3 of it. For the first time it wasn't a great pleasure, but we tried it for the second time as well, without using condom, because i wanted to feel skin-to-skin, it was a bit better, but no vaginal orgasm yet. My next goal is deepthroating him, or is it too hard to learn?

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[Amber98]

congratz! :) btw deepthroating is all about gag reflex tho. also it defends on your size, if your too tiny it may not pass through your throat and u won't be able.

[mentsi21]

congratz! :) btw deepthroating is all about gag reflex tho. also it defends on your size, if your too tiny it may not pass through your throat and u won't be able.

Do you have experience in deepthroating?

[ShelleyCA]

Go slow and gentle and use lube, you should be good :)

exactly! make sure he is gentle!

[Amber98]

Do you have experience in deepthroating?

i've been practicing on my bf and he's 7'5 inches big and at first i could only give him normal bj and now i can deepthroat :metal: but i still choke sometimes :whoops:

[biancachica]

Im glad your first time went quite well! for deepthroating it all depends on your gag reflex.also it might be hard to do since he is 8 inches and quite thick

[Juana]

I only had one experience with that man who had a 5.5" long cock, so that's not as long is your boyfriend's and it only hurt in the beginning, but later it was quite nice!!! When there are coming next times, I have to get used to it!!! O yeah his cock had a girth of 5.3 ", quite thick I guess!!!