Alex_3869
April 23rd, 2014, 02:54 AM
Hey guys, I haven't really posted in relationships and dating, so if this would better suit teen sexuality mods, move it there :D
Anyways. This is a long and complicated story, but the basic question I'm asking is, should I keep going after him or just give up?
So this guy, we are going to call him E. Transferred into my science class when the semester started in January. He is really good looking funny etc. etc. all that stuff I look for in someone. The thing was I didn't know if he was gay or not, so being the nosy little mfer that I am I searched for him on instagram. And in his bio it said he was bi. So good sign.
He is really popular in my science class. We're mostly all misfits except for about 10. So all of us generally group up and talk, but I'm so misfired I guess that I don't really fit into that huge group, that or they just ignore me. Then in the class one of my best friends, we'll call her R. She is the only one I'm "really" out to. But that's a different story, different thread. And she knows I really like this guy.
Early in the semester I walked into the bathroom and saw him smoking an e cig. Don't know if that part is really relevant, but I felt like including it. I have always felt like he doesn't really like me as a person, which I'm beginning to think is true. He doesn't like talk to me unless I ask him a question or something. And I'm the only one in the class who doesn't have another class's with him. (yay me)
A couple of weeks ago he unfollowed me on instagram. And I may or may not have liked one of his ask.fms and now I can't really unlike it. And I went to the extent to take my account down, but my name is still attached to the like. So... Yeah that's going to be interesting. But it isn't like he will say anything to me about it because he doesn't either way. So that situation is going to be really awkward. Plus it happened at 3:00 am. I probably seem like the creepiest person to him.
He might be dating a girl now... I don't really know. But all of his previous relationships lasted less than a month.
So yeah tldr I feel like a stalker, and I think I should give up on this whole situation. The year is almost over, and it's not extremely likely I'll be in any classes with him next year. Should I just stop trying all together?
Anyways. This is a long and complicated story, but the basic question I'm asking is, should I keep going after him or just give up?
So this guy, we are going to call him E. Transferred into my science class when the semester started in January. He is really good looking funny etc. etc. all that stuff I look for in someone. The thing was I didn't know if he was gay or not, so being the nosy little mfer that I am I searched for him on instagram. And in his bio it said he was bi. So good sign.
He is really popular in my science class. We're mostly all misfits except for about 10. So all of us generally group up and talk, but I'm so misfired I guess that I don't really fit into that huge group, that or they just ignore me. Then in the class one of my best friends, we'll call her R. She is the only one I'm "really" out to. But that's a different story, different thread. And she knows I really like this guy.
Early in the semester I walked into the bathroom and saw him smoking an e cig. Don't know if that part is really relevant, but I felt like including it. I have always felt like he doesn't really like me as a person, which I'm beginning to think is true. He doesn't like talk to me unless I ask him a question or something. And I'm the only one in the class who doesn't have another class's with him. (yay me)
A couple of weeks ago he unfollowed me on instagram. And I may or may not have liked one of his ask.fms and now I can't really unlike it. And I went to the extent to take my account down, but my name is still attached to the like. So... Yeah that's going to be interesting. But it isn't like he will say anything to me about it because he doesn't either way. So that situation is going to be really awkward. Plus it happened at 3:00 am. I probably seem like the creepiest person to him.
He might be dating a girl now... I don't really know. But all of his previous relationships lasted less than a month.
So yeah tldr I feel like a stalker, and I think I should give up on this whole situation. The year is almost over, and it's not extremely likely I'll be in any classes with him next year. Should I just stop trying all together?