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Emmaxxoo
April 22nd, 2014, 04:20 PM
My best mate who is a guy a year older than me openly talk about masturbation on whatsapp, and when we are horny we just say we are going for private time but this always leads to us sexting and masturbating simultaneously and i really like it but is this right or wrong?

Coolguy13
April 22nd, 2014, 04:23 PM
If you like it then yeah

Brenda1997
April 22nd, 2014, 04:30 PM
Why would it be wrong?
If you both enjoy it, it's okay right?

ChrisTJ
April 22nd, 2014, 04:31 PM
Nothing wrong with this, I have sexted a few guys frineds from time to time.

Emmaxxoo
April 22nd, 2014, 04:35 PM
but what if it gets awkward? we share pics too

CassnovA
April 22nd, 2014, 04:39 PM
if youre sending pics you obviously trust him so i dont see how it would be awkward. youre either ok with it or youre not.

Emmaxxoo
April 22nd, 2014, 04:50 PM
he really turns me on but when i cum i feel guilty

ChrisTJ
April 22nd, 2014, 04:52 PM
No need to feel guilty :)

deregisterme
April 22nd, 2014, 04:54 PM
As long as you're happy and enjoy it, there's nothing wrong with it.

Pensive
April 22nd, 2014, 05:30 PM
You are 16 and 17, in most States that counts as child porn.

Also one fall out and suddenly your pics are being shown around school (maybe already are to his mates) or online forever.

It's wrong to trade pics, keep it to sexting only.

ImAurora
April 22nd, 2014, 05:46 PM
If you two both like it and are both comfortable with it, I don't see any problem :)

Tyler97
April 22nd, 2014, 06:15 PM
but what if it gets awkward? we share pics too

you shouldn't be sending pics, that's when it can become awkward and dangerous.

Pulp501
April 22nd, 2014, 07:57 PM
There's nothing wrong with it, but he careful. If for some reason he sent it to other people or you kept pics on your phone and the wrong person saw, you could get in a lot of trouble because that is considered to be distributing child porn.

Menzis
April 22nd, 2014, 08:55 PM
I wouldn't share pics if I was you, there have been people who did suicide, because their whole life got screwed up, because of nude pictures/films spreaded around the school/internet.

biancachica
April 23rd, 2014, 02:21 PM
If both of you guys are coll with it i dont see anything wrong

Hermes
April 24th, 2014, 07:26 AM
On the subject of sending pics and what could technically count as child pornogrpahy in the UK we have something called the public interest test. That means if something is technically illegal it the CPS (the body that takes cases to court after police investigation) has to consider it to be in the public interest to prosecute. A lawyer from the CPS was interviewed and explained that is why they do not generally procecute cases which would technically be statutory rape because one party was just over the age of consent and the other under. As long as there seemed to be genuine consent this is not judged in the public interest to prosecute. The same may apply to the pictures. It is pretty much where you inject a bit of common sense into the legal process.

Obviously there is a risk of the pictures getting published, though if that hapenned whoever published them would almost certainly not avoid prosecution if court. Only you know how much you trust him.

Other than that what is to feel guilty about? There is nothing wrong with two people getting off together. At some point if you haven't already done it you will expect to get off with a guy in person and maybe your best mate may become your boyfriend. Or is it that is this in addition to a relationship with a boyfriend?

Synyster Shadows
April 24th, 2014, 07:41 AM
Cut the pictures out of it. You never know what may happen to them. But if you keep it to texts and you guys trust each other and know the limits, go ahead. Just be careful. If you get caught you're screwed

Swagging god
April 25th, 2014, 11:20 AM
My best mate who is a guy a year older than me openly talk about masturbation on whatsapp, and when we are horny we just say we are going for private time but this always leads to us sexting and masturbating simultaneously and i really like it but is this right or wrong?

I do this too, I say as long as it is between two consenting individuals it's acceptable. Once adulthood is reach obviously just keep it between you and the other adult.

eitan1922
April 26th, 2014, 02:34 AM
this isnt wrong. it's just for fun, especially if you know him..

Pretty_Girl
April 26th, 2014, 05:02 AM
All about the experience I guess. Just don't let it go further than you feel comfortable with.

Leon03
April 26th, 2014, 05:44 AM
he really turns me on but when i cum i feel guilty
Is it a complicated situation around or with him?
Your are best mates, you trust him a lot obviously.
I wonder that you two are not together then :what:

Bobby_
May 12th, 2014, 08:30 PM
Dont feel guilty. If you enjoy it go for it

Eurasian guy
May 15th, 2014, 11:30 PM
My best mate who is a guy a year older than me openly talk about masturbation on whatsapp, and when we are horny we just say we are going for private time but this always leads to us sexting and masturbating simultaneously and i really like it but is this right or wrong?

OH wow aha. I did the exact same with a really close girl in highschool last year. We'd end up sharing photos and getting off. It was fun. But when i had to go to school and i saw her, it got a bit awkward. Because i knew she was thinking of it and so was I. I don't think it's wrong or right, but it's definitely awkward at first when you see them!

kaydencorey
May 16th, 2014, 06:15 AM
If you both like it, go for it, your not upsetting anyone and your enjoying yourself!

JustAnotherTeen
May 16th, 2014, 08:46 AM
Are you both enjoying it?
Do you both trust each other?
If yes to both then there's nothing wrong surely.

ComfortableInChaos
May 18th, 2014, 11:36 PM
I don't find it as a bad thing, I find it as a good thing, actually.

willy100
May 19th, 2014, 02:12 AM
i think its really ok

joshylandon
May 19th, 2014, 12:37 PM
I don't see a problem with it. I do it with my friends sometimes.

Body odah Man
May 19th, 2014, 01:28 PM
If it makes you happy

Forsakenbymyself
May 20th, 2014, 08:33 AM
All right.