View Full Version : I can't look girls in the eyes.
parzzival
April 21st, 2014, 09:18 PM
I don't know whats wrong with me. I don't know if it's because I have ADHD or if it's just because I am really awkward and shy. Every time I try to look a girl in the eyes that I think is cute or I really like, I became a studdring idiot and can't talk. So I need your help gals. Any suggestions on why I am turned into a bubering idiout by a beautiful gal?:what:
DiamondsGirl
April 21st, 2014, 11:47 PM
That is 100% normal. It happens to everyone. Just take a deep breath and relax :)
Saint
April 22nd, 2014, 04:53 AM
Being able to look into a girls eye and talk to her probably separates you from the majority of the guys who can't do that. Just keep that in mind the next time you're talking to a girl :P
And if you do go speechless with the girl,just pull out the "your eyes mesmerize me" line(into context),trust me,it'll work for the most part,lol.
ChrisTJ
April 22nd, 2014, 05:26 AM
Yeah I think it's quite normal to struggle to soak to girls you find attractive, a lot of it is just nerves. A few girls I know are the same with boys.
parzzival
April 22nd, 2014, 08:22 PM
Being able to look into a girls eye and talk to her probably separates you from the majority of the guys who can't do that. Just keep that in mind the next time you're talking to a girl :P
And if you do go speechless with the girl,just pull out the "your eyes mesmerize me" line(into context),trust me,it'll work for the most part,lol.
XD ya just run up to a girl and instantly say " your eyes memorize" :lol:
Menzis
April 22nd, 2014, 09:01 PM
I always look into a girl's eyes, and they are mostly the ones who look away for some reason, but I do look away sometimes though, but it's just a matter of talking and not thinking too much about it.
parzzival
April 22nd, 2014, 10:07 PM
I always look into a girl's eyes, and they are mostly the ones who look away for some reason, but I do look away sometimes though, but it's just a matter of talking and not thinking too much about it.
ok your a normal person. I'm a short pasty whit computer nerd who never leaves his room. XD
skiman
April 22nd, 2014, 10:10 PM
I don't know whats wrong with me. I don't know if it's because I have ADHD or if it's just because I am really awkward and shy. Every time I try to look a girl in the eyes that I think is cute or I really like, I became a studdring idiot and can't talk. So I need your help gals. Any suggestions on why I am turned into a bubering idiout by a beautiful gal?:what:
talk about how you can't look her in the eyes? maybe she'll laugh. I dunno. good luck tho, and remember, practice makes perfect.
parzzival
April 22nd, 2014, 10:13 PM
talk about how you can't look her in the eyes? maybe she'll laugh. I dunno. good luck tho, and remember, practice makes perfect.
Practice does make perfect. But I also believe that you shouldn't crap where you eat.
Saint
April 23rd, 2014, 02:22 AM
XD ya just run up to a girl and instantly say " your eyes memorize" :lol:
Hence why I said into context :P
Flirty lines like these usually work,because they're simple and straight to the point. (and appropriate of course).
Suave
April 24th, 2014, 06:44 PM
Yeah I had the same prob as you. I have a crush on a girl and sometime I didn't even want to look her way just to avoid eye contact. At a point I just said screw it and didn't even care if she looked back. If I make eye contact with someone I either nod my head saying what's up, or look at something else and play it off like your just looking at stuff. :P
Horatio Nelson
April 24th, 2014, 06:47 PM
I don't know whats wrong with me. I don't know if it's because I have ADHD or if it's just because I am really awkward and shy. Every time I try to look a girl in the eyes that I think is cute or I really like, I became a studdring idiot and can't talk. So I need your help gals. Any suggestions on why I am turned into a bubering idiout by a beautiful gal?:what:
Same thing happens to me. I would like to say it's completely normal.
Srom
April 24th, 2014, 11:43 PM
I do that sometimes as well. I'll stare at a girl for a long time especially if she is cute but once she turns and looks at me, my heart literally skips a beat and I start freaking out inside and my natural inclination is look down or somewhere else.
marasms
April 25th, 2014, 08:42 AM
you could practice with a mirror :P
Stronk Serb
April 25th, 2014, 05:53 PM
I was like that. Now I stare people down. They think I am a fool, but I'm a lot smarter then that. It's easier talking to people when you can guess their reaction.
parzzival
April 28th, 2014, 01:11 PM
you could practice with a mirror :P
XD I don't think that would be much heals :P
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