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BADdies
April 21st, 2014, 03:20 PM
I met one guy on Facebook about 2 years ago. At first we didn't talk much but since last year we talk almost every day for few hours :) We have so much in common, and we understand each other so well. He is so nice to me and he really cares about our friendship, the most sweetest thing that he made for me was when he wished happy New Year exactly at midnight in my language (he is not from my country and it was 3 am at his place) once he talked to me all night 'til 6am (his time)
so okay, I could do this all day...the question is, is it possible to fall in love with "stranger" because last few months I talk about him every day, he even appears in my dreams and everything reminds me on him. I just don't know what to do now. he said he'll come to my city when he finishes collage and he said he would love to spend summer with me and since then I can't stop thinking what should we do together. I'm just not sure should I tell him that or not, I have never met person like him before...:wub:

ChrisTJ
April 21st, 2014, 06:02 PM
I think it's totally possible to have strong feelings for someone you have never met, I don't know about 'love' as everyone has different definitions of that word. I mean if you talk to him a lot and he's done cute things for you then you are going to get to know his personality and the kind of guy he is quite well so you could always develop feelings. I think it's totally OK to let him know you have feelings if that's honestly the way you feel.

DiamondsGirl
April 21st, 2014, 11:55 PM
I am very, very skeptical about online romance. You already got your optimistic-colored answer there, so here's the other side of the coin:

I know some couples who only discovered the ugly truth about their partner after they got married. They've been together for 5+ years IRL. If even dating in real life for five years couldn't reveal each and every side of an individual, how many bad sides of a person can you find through social media? Plus, he is in a different country. What are the odds of you two ever being in the same city? If you have a job, make your own money, live in your own house and drive your own car, certainly it's not a big deal to suddenly pack all your stuffs and fly across oceans. But what if you're only a teen? What are the odds, sweetheart? It's not worth the heartache.