evil brother

[kristie_meadows]

apparently my brother thinks it is funny to pick on me all the time, and play pranks on me.
and our parents get mad at him but he doesnt stop

if you want to know some of the stuff i can tell
just looking for someone to vent to
thx

[Curious.kid]

I have a little brother and he can be annoying also. He's five so he always wants to play with his toys all the time. He picks on me and says I still wet the bed even though its actually a wet dream, since we share a room. What does your brother do? You parents dont get him in trouble?

[NeuroTiger]

It depends what he does to you...
Siblings used to pick on one another! ;)

[kristie_meadows]

I have a little brother and he can be annoying also. He's five so he always wants to play with his toys all the time. He picks on me and says I still wet the bed even though its actually a wet dream, since we share a room. What does your brother do? You parents dont get him in trouble?

the other day he locked me outside for 3 hours while our parents were gone, and hes done that more than once.

today he gave me a easter egg filled with dirt and when i opened it, it got all over me

and sometimes when im taking a shower he sneaks into the bathroom and takes all the towels

It depends what he does to you...
Siblings used to pick on one another! ;)

i just posted some of the stuff, i can tell more if you want

[ksdnfkfr]

i'm glad i don't have siblings. even if i did have one he prolly wouldn't do stuff to me cus it would just end up with me having a colossal meltdown. there are prolly youtube vids on how to teach someone like that a lesson

[kristie_meadows]

i'm glad i don't have siblings. even if i did have one he prolly wouldn't do stuff to me cus it would just end up with me having a colossal meltdown. there are prolly youtube vids on how to teach someone like that a lesson

yeah hes evil

[DiamondsGirl]

As annoying as it is, your brother is just being an immature little dork. He's not evil. If you want to hear about evil, there's a thread on this very subforum titled "just a story". Read through it, if you dare.

Brothers will always be annoying. No matter whether they're older or younger. But they do grow out of it so all you can do is just keep telling your parents making sure they punish your bro and wait until he hits mental maturity.

[Curious.kid]

the other day he locked me outside for 3 hours while our parents were gone, and hes done that more than once.

today he gave me a easter egg filled with dirt and when i opened it, it got all over me

and sometimes when im taking a shower he sneaks into the bathroom and takes all the towels



i just posted some of the stuff, i can tell more if you want

My parents would spank him with a belt if he was my little brother! That's really bad things and dangerous to lock you out even if there's an emergency. And ruining your clothes and stealing your towels in the shower is inupropriate. Tell your parents to get him in trouble.

[Pulp501]

How old is he? He sounds like he is just really immature. Does he insult you a lot and call you a bitch or something? That would be a bigger problem than just pranks. Does he ever act okay, or is your only interaction with him when he does this stuff?

[kristie_meadows]

How old is he? He sounds like he is just really immature. Does he insult you a lot and call you a bitch or something? That would be a bigger problem than just pranks. Does he ever act okay, or is your only interaction with him when he does this stuff?

he calls me a bunch of names, bitch, slut, whore, retard, stupid are some of them

[Curious.kid]

he calls me a bunch of names, bitch, slut, whore, retard, stupid are some of them

Oh my god, thats awful to say to you. And your pretty. my mom would wash his mouth with soap and spank his butt till it turns red.

[kristie_meadows]

Oh my god, thats awful to say to you. And your pretty. my mom would wash his mouth with soap and spank his butt till it turns red.

he gets in trouble alot but he doesnt care
one time i had a bottle of mountain dew in the fridge and he peed in it and put it back in the fridge

[DiamondsGirl]

In the odd chance that he still has a glimpse of maturity left in his thick skull, could you sit him down and speak to him about all this? He probably still thinks he's being funny. Your parents' punishments don't work because he was praised lavishly by his peers at school (people laughing is considered a reward). He needs to see the other side of the coin now. It's NOT funny and you mean it. Make sure you keep a straight face and a confident voice when talking. Look straight into his eyes. Add little intimidations like "I could bring this up to the authorities". I know you can't, but hey you can always do some research on Google and make loose connections between his behavior and a random law in your state/country.

If this doesn't work, find someplace else where you can spend a night or two (friend's house? grandparents' house?). Talk to your parents and tell them you need to get away from your brother because he makes you feel unsafe and unhappy. Tell them you "probably won't come back before he behaves better" or stuffs like that.

[kristie_meadows]

In the odd chance that he still has a glimpse of maturity left in his thick skull, could you sit him down and speak to him about all this? He probably still thinks he's being funny. Your parents' punishments don't work because he was praised lavishly by his peers at school (people laughing is considered a reward). He needs to see the other side of the coin now. It's NOT funny and you mean it. Make sure you keep a straight face and a confident voice when talking. Look straight into his eyes. Add little intimidations like "I could bring this up to the authorities". I know you can't, but hey you can always do some research on Google and make loose connections between his behavior and a random law in your state/country.

If this doesn't work, find someplace else where you can spend a night or two (friend's house? grandparents' house?). Talk to your parents and tell them you need to get away from your brother because he makes you feel unsafe and unhappy. Tell them you "probably won't come back before he behaves better" or stuffs like that.

maybe i could go to grandpas house
but it sucks there too :(

[Ttssman]

maybe i could go to grandpas house
but it sucks there too :(

How old is your brother?

[kristie_meadows]

How old is your brother?

hes 19

[Curious.kid]

hes 19

I thought he was little

[Body odah Man]

As annoying as it is, your brother is just being an immature little dork. He's not evil. If you want to hear about evil, there's a thread on this very subforum titled "just a story". Read through it, if you dare.

Brothers will always be annoying. No matter whether they're older or younger. But they do grow out of it so all you can do is just keep telling your parents making sure they punish your bro and wait until he hits mental maturity.

Remind me never to check that thread out. but yeah you're right, we boys do mature. Eventually :)

[Thatcarguy]

thats a good brother lol that what happens when you have an older brother i had most of those things happen to me but when i turned old enough to kick the shit out of him i did lol

[Body odah Man]

the other day he locked me outside for 3 hours while our parents were gone, and hes done that more than once.

today he gave me a easter egg filled with dirt and when i opened it, it got all over me

and sometimes when im taking a shower he sneaks into the bathroom and takes all the towels



i just posted some of the stuff, i can tell more if you want

Ok all that stuff you've posted sounds OTT, especially for a frickin NINETEEN year old. Except for the Easter egg filled with dirt-that'd have been sweet if it had happened to me, but I guess since ur a girl it wasn't that fun. sadly I don't have much help cuz, while I have a bitchy sister, mom's always on HER side not mine. Kinda gets to me and irritates me to the max so yeah. Soz I can't help ya

[deregisterme]

Sounds like he is a right pain in the backside. Don't let him see that it bothers you. If you can, talk to him. Some of the things he's done just seem idiotic, but being locked out for 3 hours is not good. What do your parents say?

[backjruton]

he gets in trouble alot but he doesnt care
one time i had a bottle of mountain dew in the fridge and he peed in it and put it back in the fridge
the other day he locked me outside for 3 hours while our parents were gone, and hes done that more than once.

today he gave me a easter egg filled with dirt and when i opened it, it got all over me

and sometimes when im taking a shower he sneaks into the bathroom and takes all the towels



I thought I was evil... :yeah:

I seem to hardly ever be aware of things I'm doing, but I do know I've never done any of this... worst I've done is locking my brother in the bathroom with the lights off (I learned how to lock it from outside), sat on him to shut him up a few times and some things I don't know much about because of sensory overloads my parents luckily know more about now I've spoken to the psychiatrist and she basically confirmed some of this to me. I find this all quite funny actually so I won't be much help :lol: all I can really think to say is do some of these bad things to him until he gets sick of it; if he ever does, and as I've experienced with myself that can take quite a while :D. At first reading of the post I thought he'd be a kid but 19... haha wow :yawn:

[Stronk Serb]

Put methanol in his booze. That's gonna work. I am joking, you should do the exact opposite of what I said unless you want to kill or severely poison him. Do not try this. Of all the stuff he did what caught my eyes is peeing in your soda and locking you outside. My parents would sell my liver and have me drink methanol for that. Your parents should send him to a psychologist or a psychiatrist. If he just has a bad attitude, can they consider boot camp?

[backjruton]

Put methanol in his booze. That's gonna work. I am joking, you should do the exact opposite of what I said unless you want to kill or severely poison him. Do not try this.
The good thing is... It would put a stop to the problem.
The bad thing is... she would get in trouble.
If no trouble came after it, it'd be a win-win situation :yes:

Of all the stuff he did what caught my eyes is peeing in your soda and locking you outside. My parents would sell my liver and have me drink methanol for that. Your parents should send him to a psychologist or a psychiatrist. If he just has a bad attitude, can they consider boot camp?
Haha. I just looked up boot camps and it looks like that also has a chance of killing people (wiki (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boot_camp_(correctional))) because of the intense things they do there. If that is the case, she might aswell kill him herself. Although then again it does say around 50 since 1980 which isn't so bad but there's still a risk. There are other alternatives to this as I think I've just seen but sometimes the problem just has to sort out itself. I was grumpy because we had no internet for 4 months and I was stuck in a tiny bedroom with hardly any space and didn't have much to do, so to sort out this problem I got a giffgaff SIM (unlimited internet.. bla bla £12 a month) because using my phone was enough somehow, switched bedroom with my parents because they hardly used their room and just got more fun stuff to do. I've been a lot happier since the internet came back and I moved into the bigger room because my needs are now better suited. And because of this I know that some problems could be from something as simple as that and depending on how long it's been happening for.

Also, I'm not too sure about a psychiatrist myself. I and my parents were speaking to one for 5 years all the way through high school, and we didn't get much help I don't think but we were only going there to identify my disability because I finally got sick of not knowing after refusing to previously and wanted to get a better understanding. Maybe it's different in other countries and when you go there for resolutions to other issues but I don't know because this is what I went there for and not anything else. But surely there are better alternatives than a bootcamp anyway... some things you can change at home, provide a better environment, but I don't know if this only works for people with behavioral disabilities or if it does for everyone - I only know that it made things for SpongeBob worse when he ended up working in the Chum Bucket :D

i'm glad i don't have siblings. even if i did have one he prolly wouldn't do stuff to me cus it would just end up with me having a colossal meltdown. there are prolly youtube vids on how to teach someone like that a lesson

Well... if her brother's like me, this won't help. I think I've been known to do the bad things even more after someone tries to teach me a lesson... and for me having an older brother has been good because we actually get along most of the time and I don't think I'd be able to cope as well if I was just with my parents, I get stressed out by them quite a lot but less with this goofball because we've spent more time with eachother and both hardly ever seem to see our parents even though we are all in the same house ;)

[DiamondsGirl]

hes 19

yep, definitely read through the 'just a story' thread. It might give you nightmares though beware.

[kristie_meadows]

thats a good brother lol that what happens when you have an older brother i had most of those things happen to me but when i turned old enough to kick the shit out of him i did lol

im tiny and hes big so i dont think thats gonna happen

[hithere14]

are you really annoying and he wants to get you back?

[Cloud_Strife]

the other day he locked me outside for 3 hours while our parents were gone, and hes done that more than once.

today he gave me a easter egg filled with dirt and when i opened it, it got all over me

and sometimes when im taking a shower he sneaks into the bathroom and takes all the towels

he calls me a bunch of names, bitch, slut, whore, retard, stupid are some of them

he gets in trouble alot but he doesnt care
one time i had a bottle of mountain dew in the fridge and he peed in it and put it back in the fridge

hes 19

I was going to say that sometimes it's not uncommon for guys to make fun of others. We grow up in an environment where society sees it as 'normal' that boys grow up with 'tough love'.

There are the occasional 'practical jokers, however, what you've described is really over the top, especially for a nineteen year old. It almost sounds as if he does all of this stuff to seek attention and thrives on it.

Perhaps your parents should consider speaking to the family doctor and involving a counsellor or psychologist for some input?

[nklarke]

And what have you done to him all these years?

[kristie_meadows]

And what have you done to him all these years?

i havent done anything mean :(

[nklarke]

i havent done anything mean :(

You've to start thinking in a really really one :metal:

[kristie_meadows]

You've to start thinking in a really really one :metal:

i dont understand what your saying

[DiamondsGirl]

i dont understand what your saying

I assume he's trying to say "you've to start thinking about it" or stuffs like that. Either way I wouldn't support being mean back. Only gets matters worse.

[kristie_meadows]

I assume he's trying to say "you've to start thinking about it" or stuffs like that. Either way I wouldn't support being mean back. Only gets matters worse.

oh i see

[Body odah Man]

thats a good brother lol that what happens when you have an older brother i had most of those things happen to me but when i turned old enough to kick the shit out of him i did lol

:) Nice. Wish I could do that to my sister

[Body odah Man]

oh i see

I agree with the dude that said you gotta get back at your brother. Guys only respect toughness mostly.

[Chrisscotland]

I understand a bit wot u mean, my brother is 22 and he makes fun of me and is a bit violent in front of his friends always when our parents are not around, im going to get him back big time when I can, u should do the same, its not right they can get away with it

[Rmilance987]

well i no know what to say....here is little difrent we older brothers are always love tooo much and over protective for our younger sisters soooo mostly everyone know there is no fking aroung with someone sister.....if you ask me find some protection to kick your brother as every time when he do something bad to you