I don't know what to do anymore

[Unknown123]

I met this girl around 2 years ago in school and As soon as I laid eyes on her I fell in love with her! She was in all my classes and I talked to her everyday so the feelings grew even stronger! She had no idea about my feelings for her until I found out I was leaving the city so I realised this was my last chance to tell her so eventually I did! So now it's been over a year and a half since I've seen her face and I miss her so much and every time I try to get rid of the feelings I remember her the feelings come back! She's the best thing that has happened to me and I don't know what to do! At first it was only a crush but know I love her ! I want to tell her but am scared of the reaction and if she will think am a freak , what should I do???

[Aireyean]

Just do it. You may never know, she may feel the same way about you. If you dont tell her how you feel you will regret it...trust i've been there before and i felt so sad about not doing it. Now shes out of the country :c

[DiamondsGirl]

If you have ANY chance to live in the same city again, go tell her.

If you have little to no chance to live in the same city again, move on.

[Unknown123]

Just do it. You may never know, she may feel the same way about you. If you dont tell her how you feel you will regret it...trust i've been there before and i felt so sad about not doing it. Now shes out of the country :c

I still remember when I first told her and I didn't hear from her for a week and this time I just don't want to ruin anything

[Maxv]

I met this girl around 2 years ago in school and As soon as I laid eyes on her I fell in love with her! She was in all my classes and I talked to her everyday so the feelings grew even stronger! She had no idea about my feelings for her until I found out I was leaving the city so I realised this was my last chance to tell her so eventually I did! So now it's been over a year and a half since I've seen her face and I miss her so much and every time I try to get rid of the feelings I remember her the feelings come back! She's the best thing that has happened to me and I don't know what to do! At first it was only a crush but know I love her ! I want to tell her but am scared of the reaction and if she will think am a freak , what should I do???

Just tell her, perhaps send her an email or an IM? How far away do you live now?:) Because you could meet her?

[Body odah Man]

I met this girl around 2 years ago in school and As soon as I laid eyes on her I fell in love with her! She was in all my classes and I talked to her everyday so the feelings grew even stronger! She had no idea about my feelings for her until I found out I was leaving the city so I realised this was my last chance to tell her so eventually I did! So now it's been over a year and a half since I've seen her face and I miss her so much and every time I try to get rid of the feelings I remember her the feelings come back! She's the best thing that has happened to me and I don't know what to do! At first it was only a crush but know I love her ! I want to tell her but am scared of the reaction and if she will think am a freak , what should I do???

Do it man. Love shuld be striven for, not left to lie fallow

[Synyster Shadows]

I think it would be worth a try to tell her. It may turn out badly, yes, but it could also be really great. Take the chance because you never know until you try.

[DiamondsGirl]

I still remember when I first told her and I didn't hear from her for a week and this time I just don't want to ruin anything

You can always try again. Some girls actually fall for that; persistence. The fact that this guy really means what he says. I put my limit on three times though. If this one fails again, you only have one shot left.

[Unknown123]

You can always try again. Some girls actually fall for that; persistence. The fact that this guy really means what he says. I put my limit on three times though. If this one fails again, you only have one shot left.

the thing is i know she wont feel the same way because a week or two after i left her school she started dating my best friend that i knew for around 8 years. after that i was just heartbroken and realised that it just couldnt be!:(

[DiamondsGirl]

the thing is i know she wont feel the same way because a week or two after i left her school she started dating my best friend that i knew for around 8 years. after that i was just heartbroken and realised that it just couldnt be!:(

aw hun I'm so sorry! :( chin up though, you'll soon meet someone new. Keep yourself busy, you'll forget her soon.

[Unknown123]

aw hun I'm so sorry! :( chin up though, you'll soon meet someone new. Keep yourself busy, you'll forget her soon.

I have tried forgetting her for over a year but she's still in my mind and I can't get her out of my mind

[Unknown123]

i was a fool thinking we could have been more than friends:(

[DiamondsGirl]

Hey come on like I said you'll soon meet someone new. Chin up, you still have DECADES left to live. Tell me you want to stay single to think about her to your death =| come on...

[highschool]

do it, you'll regret it if you don't.

[Pensive]

Hm. You do seem to have developed an obsession, perhaps exaggerated her qualities in your mind over the last 1 1/2 years. Have you been surrounded by other attractive girls? Have you kept yourself busy and active?

In terms of asking her again, the first question would be is she happy?

If you love her then her happiness should be the most important thing in the world to you.

Is she even single?

If yes then consider my other questions. Then decide whether to ask her again.

If you ask her again, note this will be the LAST time. That any longer would be an unhealthy obsession, and you should begin earnestly to move on.
Lay all your cards on the table, how you still feel the same and that you thought you would ask one last time.

You cannot make someone love you. Your persistence may endear her enough to date you, but it would be on false pretence, and end painfully. Make sure she feels the same before you accept a yes answer!

Good luck!

[radsniper]

i'm sorry that it can't work out,but you have plenty of time to find someone else