How much texting is too much?

[Snowblind13]

Hi Guys,

There is a girl who I have a huge crush on and we text a lot. As per the title how much it too much? We text everyday almost and if it gets to about 4pm and we haven't texted I really feel like I need to talk to her if just to ask what she's been up to and stuff. We also send probably 30-40 texts to each other but that has risen to 60-70 or so on occasion. My problem is that when we are talking at 11:30 pm and then I text her at 9am the next day I feel like she may think I'm a bit too eager or a bit stalkerish or something. What do you guys think? What's a good rule for texting?

Thanks!

[ChrisTJ]

There's no real rule as such as long as the texts are going both ways. My rule is never send more than 2 texts, 3 at a push it the other person hasn't replied. A long as she replies then send as many as you like. I would say 25 a day is about average.

[Synyster Shadows]

I agree with Christina and would like to add - it's too much when it interferes with other things in your life - school, work, and whatever other important commitments you have.

As long as you're both into it, nothing is too much. I use whatsapp so I don't really count but I've texted for like four hours at nights when I don't have too much to do, with just one person. If she answers you nicely at 9am or even text you first then, I don't think she'd find it stalkerish (I actually think it's cute) :)

I'd also agree with this - if it's mutual, you're fine

[churris]

As long as you're both into it, nothing is too much. I use whatsapp so I don't really count but I've texted for like four hours at nights when I don't have too much to do, with just one person. If she answers you nicely at 9am or even text you first then, I don't think she'd find it stalkerish (I actually think it's cute) :)

[DiamondsGirl]

As long as it is not interrupting your daily routine (that's the two of you there) then it's alright I guess. After all you DO receive replies. It's too much when you notice she started ignoring you or telling you that she's busy.

[Rallo]

As long as it is not interrupting your daily routine (that's the two of you there) then it's alright I guess. After all you DO receive replies. It's too much when you notice she started ignoring you or telling you that she's busy.

Pretty much explained it how I was going to.
If you're getting replies, she most likely doesn't mind too much.

[forevermb]

Lol theres not really a rule but maybe boost it up a little. Try not to text so much and get used to hearing from eachother every second of the day. I mean I know that makes you happy but thats also unhealthy. Give her a call every other day? Hang out in person. That gives you a better chance to talk