Would it be normal to be a virgin after the age of 25 even if you tried to lose it?

[dreamofdante]

With 100% certainty I can tell you I'll be an alcoholic mess by 25 and a virgin so after that age, do people start to question you if you aren't waiting for marriage? I don't know anyone over the age of 25 that's a virgin so I was just wondering.

[red.astrix]

I have no idea man sorry.

[ninja789]

Calm down. It isnt common but doesnt stop you from enjoying your life. I know a woman who is 40 and a virgin. Stuff just didnt work out that way for her but she is still happy enough

[FullyAlive]

Okay being 25 is 7 years away for you. Just calm down and don't stress yourself out.

When I lost my virginity it was unplanned and unexpected I didn't expect to lose it for months if not years longer it may surprise you and happen a lot sooner. I lost mine at 18, and no one ever questioned why I hadn't had sex before, I know 18 is younger than 25, but I also have a 19 year old friend who's a virgin and one who's 20 (still not 25 I realise,why pick 25 by the way?) and still no one questions them on why they're virgins it's nothing to do with other people and to be honest it's perfectly normal.

Society seems to put a lot of pressure on young people to have sex but that really is not the be all and end all of life. There are a lot of other things that should be more important. I know it seems like it but not everyone is having sex, there is no shame in being a virgin no matter what you're age and the status of your virginity shouldn't affect your happiness.

As for the alcoholic part if you think you have a problem, if you need drink to cope then there is a lot of help out there for you, you should talk to your local gp about things and they can put you in touch with the relevant help.

[ChrisTJ]

I know someone who didn't lose it until they were 19 despite trying desperately since they were 15 or so. The time will most likely come for you so don't fret.

[dreamofdante]

Okay being 25 is 7 years away for you. Just calm down and don't stress yourself out.

When I lost my virginity it was unplanned and unexpected I didn't expect to lose it for months if not years longer it may surprise you and happen a lot sooner. I lost mine at 18, and no one ever questioned why I hadn't had sex before, I know 18 is younger than 25, but I also have a 19 year old friend who's a virgin and one who's 20 (still not 25 I realise,why pick 25 by the way?) and still no one questions them on why they're virgins it's nothing to do with other people and to be honest it's perfectly normal.

Society seems to put a lot of pressure on young people to have sex but that really is not the be all and end all of life. There are a lot of other things that should be more important. I know it seems like it but not everyone is having sex, there is no shame in being a virgin no matter what you're age and the status of your virginity shouldn't affect your happiness.

As for the alcoholic part if you think you have a problem, if you need drink to cope then there is a lot of help out there for you, you should talk to your local gp about things and they can put you in touch with the relevant help.

You're good looking so it was bound to happen. I'm not. I'm the ugliest person on the planet earth so it won't happen. The more and more I want it, the worse I end up feeling because I know I'll never have it. And the pressure from society doesn't help. I have no way of coping with this and I don't think it'll get better. I don't know what to do anymore. It's one of the things I've wanted for so long and I can't have it because I'm ugly. Everyone else has it but not me. I'm the goddamn black sheep.

I know someone who didn't lose it until they were 19 despite trying desperately since they were 15 or so. The time will most likely come for you so don't fret.

I don't see it happening for me at all much less within the next year or two. I'm sorry, I think the person you know and I are different.

[ksdnfkfr]

What about that movie the 40 year old virgin?

I can remember hearing about a couple of well known unmarried football players who were virgins.

I remember hearing something on the truck radio about a man who lost his virginity in his 70's or 80's and said something like 'it was good, but i still like a big mess of ribs better'

There are tons of people who purposely stay virgins until they get married and don't get married until their 20's or 30's.

10 Famous Virgins (http://www.gurl.com/2012/02/05/who-is-a-virgin/)

Being a virgin isn't your problem imo.
Your looks aren't your problem imo.
Your psychological state of mind is your problem imo.

[DarkOmega]

again ? same thread ..cmon already .we told u . if u really want to have sec that bad .get a hooker already. pay her .end of it . ur no longer a virgin .damn dude . we all said it sooo many times . it will be fine .being a virgin is nothing to be stressed about

[Brenda1997]

Yes it's normal, though it's not that common.
Just wait for the right person to come along :)

[Ricky.h]

Waiting for the right person is good and you should wait for marriage

But if you don't I think before you hit 20, you really should have your dick wet with experience, sex is a stepping stone of manhood that you should across in the ages of at least 15-19 now of course if you wait for marriage that's different but if not and you're desperate find a local slut or low self esteem girl or work hard with a girl then loose it to her or even go to a party and find her CONSENTING girl that might be a little drunk but STILL ABLE TO CONSENT or DENY AND IF SHE WANTS TO--loose it to her

I hope you can get laid cause you'll need to build up your experience and stamina and what you like and all that

[Menzis]

You should wait untill marriage, if it's not gonna happen anyway.

[Stacy H]

im 17 and dont plan on it any time soon and no one questions me but i have a 21 year old friend and she is a virgin also and she is still happy so dont swet it

[Plasma]

Waiting for the right person is good and you should wait for marriage

But if you don't I think before you hit 20, you really should have your dick wet with experience, sex is a stepping stone of manhood that you should across in the ages of at least 15-19 now of course if you wait for marriage that's different but if not and you're desperate find a local slut or low self esteem girl or work hard with a girl then loose it to her or even go to a party and find her CONSENTING girl that might be a little drunk but STILL ABLE TO CONSENT or DENY AND IF SHE WANTS TO--loose it to her

I hope you can get laid cause you'll need to build up your experience and stamina and what you like and all that

Oh my god no, why did you have to necro this thread?

[Ricky.h]

Oh my god no, why did you have to necro this thread?

What do you mean ?

[dreamofdante]

Waiting for the right person is good and you should wait for marriage

But if you don't I think before you hit 20, you really should have your dick wet with experience, sex is a stepping stone of manhood that you should across in the ages of at least 15-19 now of course if you wait for marriage that's different but if not and you're desperate find a local slut or low self esteem girl or work hard with a girl then loose it to her or even go to a party and find her CONSENTING girl that might be a little drunk but STILL ABLE TO CONSENT or DENY AND IF SHE WANTS TO--loose it to her

I hope you can get laid cause you'll need to build up your experience and stamina and what you like and all that

I don't think so. If I was going to have sex, I would've by now. I'll be 19 in 7 months and nothing will change so I'm willing to bet I won't have any experience. I've tried to go to local sluts before and they don't want me because I'm ugly so yeah I'm kind of out of options for looking. There's just something about me. No one ever wanted me.

[Stumpygoat]

I don't think so. If I was going to have sex, I would've by now. I'll be 19 in 7 months and nothing will change so I'm willing to bet I won't have any experience. I've tried to go to local sluts before and they don't want me because I'm ugly so yeah I'm kind of out of options for looking. There's just something about me. No one ever wanted me.

Theres no reason to rush or to feel like you should have sex before any age that other people try telling you is the right age or normal. It'll happen when it happens, don't worry about it. You'll find someone when you find someone. There's a lot more to life than sex.

[dreamofdante]

Theres no reason to rush or to feel like you should have sex before any age that other people try telling you is the right age or normal. It'll happen when it happens, don't worry about it. You'll find someone when you find someone. There's a lot more to life than sex.

I'm not sexually attractive therefore I don't think I'm going to. I've wanted to for a while but yeah...

[Stumpygoat]

I'm not sexually attractive therefore I don't think I'm going to. I've wanted to for a while but yeah...

You might be being too hard on yourself. You'll get there eventually.

[dreamofdante]

http://i434.photobucket.com/albums/qq67/TJ3046/Facebook/Some%20Senior%20Pictures/1397836_402656593200583_1112977497_o.jpg

No I'm not being too hard on myself lol...

[Stumpygoat]

http://i434.photobucket.com/albums/qq67/TJ3046/Facebook/Some%20Senior%20Pictures/1397836_402656593200583_1112977497_o.jpg

No I'm not being too hard on myself lol...

You look like a normal guy, stop being so hard on yourself

[dreamofdante]

You look like a normal guy, stop being so hard on yourself

Wouldn't you say I'm like really below average? Plus I got other problems that women hate.

[Stumpygoat]

Wouldn't you say I'm like really below average? Plus I got other problems that women hate.

No? I'd say you're average

[dreamofdante]

No? I'd say you're average

Well you're the first girl to think that lol