First time w/ boyfriend

[virtualteen97]

My boyfriend and I are about to have our first time together and we are trying to decide if we are going to use protection or not. We are both virgins and have never done anything sexual with anyone else so there is no worries when it comes to STDs from other people or anything like that. Im just wondering about like things that could happen and the pros and cons of using protection or not using it

[awesomeness14]

Id recommend using protection just in case.

[Dan co.]

USE PROTECTION. Their are still infections that occur even if both of you are virgins. So Pro: Reduced chances of getting STD and STI's WHICH IS A GIGANTIC PRO
Con: Uses a bit a of cash depending how much you guys have sex,

[hithere14]

may as well use a condom

[nino51300]

Use a condom just in case, but its really whatever you guys feel comfortable with. Have fun!

[Curious.kid]

I played with a condom once and thought it was funner with it. So just have fun have sex. Your really lucky and I'm jealous.

[MattPainter]

Use a condom dude just to be safe.

[Silverman22]

Use a condom, protection is always better then nothing

[ksdnfkfr]

Most everyone is going to say use a condom. And it's probably best if you are always used to having one one.

[male_greece]

whatever u feel like doing doesn't matter, many people don't use protection

[Shaundi]

A condom may reduce pleasure but penetration will be easier (Lubricant). Anyways - There are many infections and stuff which develops even if both of you guys are virgins.

[christo17]

I think you should use a condom

[Michael_6]

Use a condom and be safe for the first time. So jealous over here

[Justdance613]

I think you should just wear protection to be safe.

[Sean Silver]

Use a condom until you trust each other enough to try without. You can contact local organizations to get free std testing if you want to be sure your partner is clean

[Rocketsnail]

Use a condom, like everyone else is suggesting. Better to be safe than sorry...

[Liam TWB]

Get used to using a condom - always. If it's never in question, then it's nothing to do with trust and you won't be putting yourself at unnecessary risk of STIs. If you don't have a condom one time, well, there are other ways for you both to enjoy sex.

[Swaggster]

always use a condom theres chances he could have a disease

[mattb5187]

use a condom just to be sure that nothing can happen!

[ugaboy]

I guess medically, you two would be safe. But I guess it is always best to use caution and use one.

[georgieboy28]

virgins can still have diseases i think so wear protection until you get tested at least

[Lovelife090994]

Always use a condom.

[GoWA_Vet]

use a condom

[Jaseblader]

don't use it your good broo

[Zachary G]

better safe than sorry, plus you should get in the practice of using it anyway

[Ricky.h]

My boyfriend and I are about to have our first time together and we are trying to decide if we are going to use protection or not. We are both virgins and have never done anything sexual with anyone else so there is no worries when it comes to STDs from other people or anything like that. Im just wondering about like things that could happen and the pros and cons of using protection or not using it

I'd say do not use a condom because you both are virgins so what would be the point! Then sex in itself for a guy is crossing into manhood, but you really become a man when you can nut into someone you love without a condom--rather you're gay or straight for a guy that's a big threshold of manhood to cross and I think you should do it

[SkyWolfXGaming]

use whatever you feel like using. ;) have fun

[JTriot09]

i am new to this so can anyone explain to me what a condom is?

[deregisterme]

i am new to this so can anyone explain to me what a condom is?

Usually made of latex rubber type material, it is put over the penis before a boy has sex. The idea is to catch all the boy's cum when having sex, so the girl doesn't get pregnant or STDs. Not 100% effective as they can burst

[JTriot09]

Ok thank you.
one more question, what are STDs?

[deregisterme]

Ok thank you.
one more question, what are STDs?

Sexually Transmitted Diseases. Sometimes called STIs (I = Infections). There are quite a few out there. Doing a Google search may lead to a bit of "information overload" with the amount of info out there.

[JTriot09]

Ok thats pretty important. no wonder everyone says use a condom

[Jtyler]

Always in every case use protection

[Chase_57]

Always use a condom, it's the safe way to go.

[Zakitak]

PROS OF using a condom:
Safe
Takes longer to cum

CONS:
Lack of some feeling
Not as intimate (in my mind)
Not as safe

Personally, I just really prefer without - but you certainly need to be careful and be sure they are clean!!!

[ArtUout]

Just use a condom just in case he has STD or HIV

[robbymas23]

I guess medically, you two would be safe. But I guess it is always best to use caution and use one.

i agree

[Catholic Guy]

I would say use one for the first few times and lube it up, a lot, then you should be fine

[hero98]

If you trust each other, going bare feels a lot more intimate and fulfilling to me so id suggest that
Condoms are second only to circumcised dicks in lowering pleasure

[mrpieface2]

Use protection! Even if your areas are clean there still can be many infections and you can get STD's.

[MechaSniper]

Just to be safe use it.

[LunarScorpio]

Use a condom and protect yourself. If you come away with a STD because you didn't that may ruin the rest of your life in so many ways

[hockeyfan]

I would use protection

[Jack russell dad]

No option here, condom. It seems like everybody has a bf

[ChicagoBlackhawksFan]

Being gay is a sin. Only 1 guy and 1 woman.

[CrazyPerson101]

My boyfriend and I are about to have our first time together and we are trying to decide if we are going to use protection or not. We are both virgins and have never done anything sexual with anyone else so there is no worries when it comes to STDs from other people or anything like that. Im just wondering about like things that could happen and the pros and cons of using protection or not using it


If I were you id use protection but idk its up to you

[reiddec2]

yes even if you're both comfortable you should BOTH use protection!!

[Just Sayin]

i would say use protection

[gevans604]

Use a condom, just to be safe.

[Faolan]

Always use protection. Even if you two are virgins and remain exclusive to each other, there's still a chance of being infected with something or other.

[Kapowzer]

My boyfriend and I are about to have our first time together and we are trying to decide if we are going to use protection or not. We are both virgins and have never done anything sexual with anyone else so there is no worries when it comes to STDs from other people or anything like that. Im just wondering about like things that could happen and the pros and cons of using protection or not using it

i guess you should use it. but what did you do?

[trumpetprodigy14]

just be safe!