in DESPERATE need of help!

[targaryen101]

keeping it simple:
I need ways or advice on moving on. I really want to but at the moment I cant physically mentally etc: move on to someone else or see anyone else in that way. and its driving me CRAZY!

[DiamondsGirl]

How old are you, love? How long has it been since the break-up? :) it does get easier as time pass by. Meanwhile just keep yourself busy. Practice sports? Play musical instruments?

[targaryen101]

thats good advice but I am 18, and it was not even a relationship, I liked this girl for AGES and she said (really nicely, but besides the point) that she saw us as friends and now we are (which is hard I might add!)

[NeuroTiger]

Sports does help...
Probably you need some friends and try to review your objectives in life.

[DiamondsGirl]

thats good advice but I am 18, and it was not even a relationship, I liked this girl for AGES and she said (really nicely, but besides the point) that she saw us as friends and now we are (which is hard I might add!)

someone on VT wrote this quote in one of their posts and I'm gonna write it back for you.

Don't jump over oceans for people who won't jump over puddles for you.

Just get yourself busy, forget about her. Move on. You're only 18 not 88. You'll meet someone new.

[laurakitty]

Write a list of bad things about the person

U could also think like why should I care about someone who don't cAre about me
Distract urself too

[targaryen101]

great advice guys! thanks