Is this possible?

[KBiskit]

No matter where I go or what I do, I don't fit in. Not even here on the Internet. No one likes to actually talk or notice me. Is this possible? Doesn't everybody have at least one person they can count on?

[Fanta_Lover44]

At the end of the day, I don't have anyone to count on. (Apart from my best friend online) I can do a lot and I wont be noticed or talked to its nothing to worry about, some people do notice me, others don't. You could always try finding new friends. Here if you need to chat.

[ksdnfkfr]

No matter where I go or what I do, I don't fit in. Not even here on the Internet. No one likes to actually talk or notice me. Is this possible? Doesn't everybody have at least one person they can count on?

I have come across people in that situation on the internet and in real life attending schools for special needs kids. Hard to know how much is others and how much is how a person sees themselves. I think there is a reason for everything, and the reason for your situation should be explored.

[Nihilus]

Hun, right now you are going through a lonely period of time. Life will pick up and you meet interesting people. Try and learn to like yourself, even if alone, then people will be drawn to you.

[DiamondsGirl]

I agree with post above. I do believe it's a phase that you eventually grow out of. Try to make peace with yourself, love x once you believe in yourself, people will.

By the way I don't know why not everyone who has replied offered this but I'm here if you need someone to talk to. I'm sorry I can only be a string of letters and a stagnant picture to you. But I'm here.

[Hollywood]

Believe me, I stick out like sore thumb where I live. I don't fit in anywhere and I have a tough time finding people to speak to because I'm simply too different. There are people out there though, definitely. I'm a weirdo, and while I don't see enough weirdos around here I have encountered a few on VT. It's tough, but it's better to be yourself and wait to find the right people than to change and try and fit in with people who don't really care about you, I learned that the hard way. Be yourself and, as Liv said above, believe in yourself and you'll find those people someday.

If you ever want to talk or just get something off of your chest, my PM box is always open.

[backjruton]

Yep. In my case it's more that me and my best friend don't fit in very well. But by this I mean people always think I'm weird and sometimes may try to avoid me, I don't know, but not in this current college group anyway - I've made a lot of friends in this past year and got to know a lot more people, but in school I was almost the same; a small friendship group and didn't really leave that too much. I got along with everyone, by the end I made friends with 90% of the people in that school, but it's hard really to say for me because they could have just been nice to me because of my disability or something which I'm used to... I don't feel I fit in, but I've never been this bad; I don't feel I can count on anyone but that's because of some issues on my end, and I mostly just avoid asking people for help.

I'm mostly oblivious to things and I zone out quite easily too, so I won't be very good at talking in private either because I NEVER know what to say BUT in a way I think it's easier when you have no one to count on - it's great to be able to talk to people but I prefer to do most things myself as I'm not a big fan of bothering people when I know things for me will eventually get better. Like Ezra partly said; I've always seen myself as worse than other people see me, and because of how I feel about myself I can never think of good things to say about other people either; people out there COULD like you but maybe you won't let anyone get too close and don't take anything further - and if you've ever tried to approach someone or just waited for them to approach you. If you've tried to approach people and it gone wrong, then OK I'm not too sure but if you haven't ever really tried to make the first move, maybe you need to because then maybe you will find you do fit in.

[KBiskit]

Thanks a lot for the help and kind words guys. I'm sure we'll all eventually find our places in this world. Stay awesome.