Anal Sex

[Amber98]

So i've been interested in anal sex for quite some time now but for some reason i haven't taken many steps to it :( some of you girls said that it's better to get prepared before you take a cock in there but i'm scared to stretch my butthole too much and the guy won't like it because it will be too loose or something

i want it to be as tight as possible because that's what guys like about anal sex i think :confused:

i've rubbed my anus before and it feels amazing!! i tried to put one finger inside and i didn't make it and gave up because it's too tight and it feels weird and i want the guy to loose me up or else he may think it's not tight enough?

i want to try anal so badddd but i'm kinda scared :( also i'm with this guy for 3 months and i might let him fuck me in the butt but he got a 7.5 cock and it's thick. is that gonna make anal sex even more painful? i don't know if that's a big dick or not but from what i heard i think it's above average?

please let me know the best thing to do so i don't make any mistakes :whoops:

[ninja789]

that sounds pretty big so yeah it will hurt more but if you guys use lube and go easy you should be fine. Before I did it the second time I made sure I was used to having 2 fingers there and that build up helped

[Taryn98]

You should be practicing with your fingers on your own first so you're prepared for what it will feel like.

[lilmoore]

Anal sex is something you definitely do not want to rush into. Starting slow will make it more pleasurable, less painful. Make sure you use lube and try one finger in the butt. When you are used to one, insert a second. Once you are comfortable with 2, then you might be ready for his dick. But once again, take it slow. Allow him to put the head of his penis in, once you feel ok, take in a little more. Trust me, you don't want him to just shove it in all the way.

[Amber98]

that sounds pretty big so yeah it will hurt more but if you guys use lube and go easy you should be fine. Before I did it the second time I made sure I was used to having 2 fingers there and that build up helped

You should be practicing with your fingers on your own first so you're prepared for what it will feel like.

Anal sex is something you definitely do not want to rush into. Starting slow will make it more pleasurable, less painful. Make sure you use lube and try one finger in the butt. When you are used to one, insert a second. Once you are comfortable with 2, then you might be ready for his dick. But once again, take it slow. Allow him to put the head of his penis in, once you feel ok, take in a little more. Trust me, you don't want him to just shove it in all the way.

i guess the best way to start is practicing on myself then..

what's the pain like though? i've heard some girls describing it like fireballs coming out off their butthole? is that how it feels like?

what actually hurts is it when the dick is going in, out or both? :confused:

[lilmoore]

I'd say the pain is less intense than fireballs shooting out your ass, but it is not far off if your anal muscles are not relaxed. The pain is most intense when it is first his in, but there is discomfort during both.

You can practice on yourself, that is a good idea. Also, when your bf is giving you oral sex, have him finger your butthole. Remember the lube.

[Lizzielikesboth]

Got be relaxed, use a good lube, relax, take your time, lube both the butt and the dick. But have to warn you you might have Butt leakage and a few messy farts Just a warning.

[Amber98]

I'd say the pain is less intense than fireballs shooting out your ass, but it is not far off if your anal muscles are not relaxed. The pain is most intense when it is first his in, but there is discomfort during both.

You can practice on yourself, that is a good idea. Also, when your bf is giving you oral sex, have him finger your butthole. Remember the lube.

Got be relaxed, use a good lube, relax, take your time, lube both the butt and the dick. But have to warn you you might have Butt leakage and a few messy farts Just a warning.


where is the pain exactly? on your butthole, deep down inside or both?

[shelby_caligurl_2000]

So i've been interested in anal sex for quite some time now but for some reason i haven't taken many steps to it :( some of you girls said that it's better to get prepared before you take a cock in there but i'm scared to stretch my butthole too much and the guy won't like it because it will be too loose or something

i want it to be as tight as possible because that's what guys like about anal sex i think :confused:

i've rubbed my anus before and it feels amazing!! i tried to put one finger inside and i didn't make it and gave up because it's too tight and it feels weird and i want the guy to loose me up or else he may think it's not tight enough?

i want to try anal so badddd but i'm kinda scared :( also i'm with this guy for 3 months and i might let him fuck me in the butt but he got a 7.5 cock and it's thick. is that gonna make anal sex even more painful? i don't know if that's a big dick or not but from what i heard i think it's above average?

please let me know the best thing to do so i don't make any mistakes :whoops:



First of all ur lucky that ur guy has a big dick lol. And I like anal most of the time but sometimes it hurts and I'm not sure why that is. Make sure to use lube like a lot!!! Good luck ur guy will love it all times I've done it the guy cums really really fast

[missy_moo]

Sometimes when I'm in that kinda 'wanna do something naughty and rough' mood whilst I'm just playing around with myself, I'll get my vib out and use it. You're in control and if it hurts you just stop. No one else involved.

Highly recommend you use a condom on it though so you don't get infections.

[Amber98]

Sometimes when I'm in that kinda 'wanna do something naughty and rough' mood whilst I'm just playing around with myself, I'll get my vib out and use it. You're in control and if it hurts you just stop. No one else involved.

Highly recommend you use a condom on it though so you don't get infections.

Thanks for your help! i've been wondering tho where is the pain exactly when having sex with a real penis? on your butthole? half way through, deep down or altogether? if his penis is big will it go all the way through or there's a point it's impossible for the dick to go any further?

sorry for all these questions i'm just a bit concerned how it works exactly :whoops:

[ShelleyCA]

ive tried it twice..i didnt care for it. but sometimes i like to use a small toy around my butt when i masturbate ;) guys are usually too rough.

[missy_moo]

Thanks for your help! i've been wondering tho where is the pain exactly when having sex with a real penis? on your butthole? half way through, deep down or altogether? if his penis is big will it go all the way through or there's a point it's impossible for the dick to go any further?

sorry for all these questions i'm just a bit concerned how it works exactly :whoops:

It's the stretching of the skin. As gross as this sounds, imagine taking a big poo. If I haven't done it for a while, it feels like that for maybe 20 seconds, then I have another go and the pain's gone. Go really easy and don't try and shove the whole thing in there in one go.

[DanielleIU]

The first time hurts a lot, especially at the point when he first starts going in. Like Missy said, it's a the feeling of being really stretched. After that, it does feel like a big poop filling you up and just feels plain uncomfortable for awhile. I still get those same sensations every time, but never as intense or as long as the first few times. It's a very intimate act. Yes, he can insert all the way in, but I wouldn't recommend trying that until you've done it a few times. Agree that doggy might be the least painful, but missionary is best for the intimacy.

[DanielleIU]

Oh, and lube, lube, lube!

[Stacy H]

ive heard that its a more intense orgasm never tried sex or anal but if the time comes its on the list for me also lol but just use lube and maybe it will be ok lol...like i said i havent done it with anyone but ive fingered myself there but never to orgasm and it feels good

[vickilynn]

I'd never did it. my friends told me to try it. I might.

[nater8er]

Oh, and lube, lube, lube!

Feels amazing I would recommend everyone try it by themselves first it's ok for gigs too! It really feels good for both sexes

[nater8er]

ive heard that its a more intense orgasm never tried sex or anal but if the time comes its on the list for me also lol but just use lube and maybe it will be ok lol...like i said i havent done it with anyone but ive fingered myself there but never to orgasm and it feels good

Yes very true

[vickilynn]

I am preparing myself for this. I have been fingering myself. My sister got me a dildo to use. I'll try it tonight with some lube.

[DeeHaz]

Take a good position too. I reckon you should do doggy style, but spread your legs really wide and keep your knees below your hips.

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[Zsofia]

First I couldn't do it doggy style. The only way it worked for me was slowly sitting on it. It took me a while before I really started to enjoy it, but it worths every moment :)

[vickilynn]

Ok, I didn't have it yet but I am practicing. I'd started with my fingers. Lube it up very good. I got a nice size butt plug. So this is my second day. I had it in for 2 days trying to get used to it. It is in all the way. I just have to be2 careful when I sit one it. Move it around once in a while. I am very confident for anal sex now. I can really feel the difference. Thanks for your guys advices.

[jennahazy98]

My ex and I did it a bit and he started out putting a finger in there with lots of lube. That kind of loosened me up before he went in. We did it doggy and it just felt weird the first few times...maybe a little pain but not bad. It was very hot feeling him cum insided there though! Good luck1

[vickilynn]

I feel really good having it in me. It was a different sensation but felt good. I was told not to have it in more than 2 hours. But it felt good, so I left in in for more. I took it out last night and felt like my hole was wider but it was an accepting feeling. My guy is huge, so I have to prepare for him to fit. :-) I am planning to have it in all day. Sitting on it is better. I have a plug that is made not to slip out and curved so I can easily sit on it and it won't be peeking out.

[DanielleIU]

My ex and I did it a bit and he started out putting a finger in there with lots of lube. That kind of loosened me up before he went in. We did it doggy and it just felt weird the first few times...maybe a little pain but not bad. It was very hot feeling him cum insided there though! Good luck1

Good advice to start with a finger every time. And yes, when he comes in there it is really hot.

[Jennboh]

u girls are really making me want to try anal.

[StacyD]

Good advice to start with a finger every time. And yes, when he comes in there it is really hot.

Yes it is great advice and omg it feels so amazing.

u girls are really making me want to try anal.

U should!

[vickilynn]

I was totally against it. After I tried it, I can't stop thinking about it and wanting a butt plug in me all the time. Today, I'd out it in as soon as I woke up. Went to school and now just came home from a friend's house and it is still in. It feels that it belongs in there. I wore a micro skirt with no underwear. I adjust it sometimes to get a better sensation. I really recommend this for you. I told all of my close friends and they want to try now. Before I go to bed, I will take it out. I got a plug so no one can see it unless I spread my cheeks and it doesn't slide out and the handle is curve so I can easily sit down on it.

[Laura Crofty]

Never done it

[Luminous]

This was getting inappropriate and is a pretty old thread anyways. :locked: