please help (LONG story)

[___ Is For Loverss]

Okay i need your guys help here..... okay i have been trying to find someone who was gay or bi (im bi) who lives in my state. Well I have a myspace and found this guy who was a member of a gay/bi/lesbian group who lived in my state. I got his screen name and after we talked for a while, he said he really liked me. Well we barely talked and i was totally taken back but i was like excited that he said that and so i told him exactly how i felt. He wouldnt IM me though and im so shy and i was like i dont wanna IM him if gets annoyed when i do and he said once he got a car (hes 16, im 15) hed drive down to see me all the time and hang out and said he even wanted to be my first... anyways i looked at his myspace and it had all these comments from this guy.. the guy lives in a different state but all the commentswere like i love you, your the best person ever blah blah and so i just came out and was like dont lead me on your the first guy ive talked to and liked and your using my and i asked him if he liked the kid... and he said he did a lot and if he lived closer they would date.... i dont want to give up because hes so handsome and i love his personality and his tastes in music and clothes and everything but i think he uses me when hes bored/mad at his real crush.... what should i do??

[kevin]

Well it sounds like he's just horny and he wants some, but you should really talk to him about it. If he sounds like he's using you, forget him!

[Elokyn]

He sounds like he's majorly using you..you need to forget that loser...

[___ Is For Loverss]

thats what i thought but its like, ive never felt this way about anyone and the stuff he said even if hes using me made me soo happy and its just i really wanted to meet someone and i finally did and thats probably partly why i cant just let go but i guess you guys are right

[<-Dying_to_Live->]

internet dating is dumb, dont do it. get real, heel never see you and ull never see him. ever. thats just the way life works.

[Elokyn]

thats what i thought but its like, ive never felt this way about anyone and the stuff he said even if hes using me made me soo happy and its just i really wanted to meet someone and i finally did and thats probably partly why i cant just let go but i guess you guys are right

oh come on! you're not that stupid, don't act like it. You knew the answer to your question before you asked...now that it's verified you need to just block him and let it go.

[Waiting]

first off

Fall Out Boy is for lovers
Photography is for lovers
Ohio is for lovers

and secondly

internet dating is dumb. simple. dont go there.

[<-Dying_to_Live->]

i agree with the second part of your post, but the first part i honestly dont understand what your talking about lol :feels embarassed:

[Sk8erguy065]

Internet dating is dumb. You think you like this person soo much then they dump you.

[Morgoth42]

I recommend talking to the guy, but I wouldn't have hopes or expectations either way. Only so that you won't be too distraught if the answer is not one you want.