Advice?

[Joey_Adams]

In mid-February I was talking/texting this girl I like and after a few weeks I told her. She said she was talking to someone else and that she was sorry so I stopped talking to her. A month later (end of March), she starts smiling and waving and saying hi to me in the halls. I started texting her and stuff again but she seems to show very little interest in me when we text me.

P.S. We share 0 classes so it is hard to physically talk to her.

I guess I am just a little confused on the situation. Any advice would help. Thanks in advance!

[dame]

I think that she's just being courteous by smiling & waving at you. Girls can be very misleading, & they don't even know it.

I'm friends with all girls & honestly, I can't really give you any good advice. Girls are very confusing, I know many who have crushes on guys but are very short with them & somewhat rude. I'd give it a few more days to see if she gains any interest, & if not i'd just cut it off from there.

Sorry if I am not much help. :p

[DiamondsGirl]

^^^^ I am a girl, and I agree completely with post above. She's just being polite.

Now I'd like to defend my kind a little bit if I may. Often, when us girls turn down a really great friend and they stopped talking to us, we feel bad. We try to revive that friendship. We try to somehow, unrealistically, help ease the pain/shame of rejection. As ladies, we sympathize to others more than you gents do. We know how painful it can be, and all we want to is to help. But unfortunately we're a bit naive sometimes. We don't realize that our gesture only confuses you guys more. But really there's no ill intention.

[laurakitty]

You don't want someone who don't rly care if u like them or not find someone in some of your classes or your friend group and make physical contact with them

[ChrisTJ]

Yeah it doesn't strike me as if she is really all that into you sadly. Waving and saying 'hi' is just being friendly. If she's texting you and showing no signs of interest then I doubt she's into you.