Friends with Benefits/Kind of Dating

[jak926]

EDIT: What I meant, was to have a relationship in essence without the title and time commitments, because I am so busy.

So, I have been talking with this girl for a while and we both like each other. I would totally date her, but I am extremely busy and would not be able to put the proper time into the relationship. So would it be weird if the two of us were just friends with benefits, but still had some of the intimacy of a couple?

And this is mainly to girls, would this kind of thing appeal to you at all?

[NotShortButFunsized]

Personally, I prefer actual relationships. Sexual satisfaction is nice and I wouldn't complain, but I would be left feeling like something was missing.

But if you are both on the same page, comfortable, and consenting, then there's not really a reason you can't

[Harley Quinn]

P101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[DiamondsGirl]

If she loves YOU, not your body, prepare to get a power slap when you ask her that.

[FullyAlive]

I've done that/would do that.
But I guess it depends on what she's like personally, half of my friends don't really do relationships they do friends with benefits the other half probably wouldn't react to well to such a suggestion. So if you're good friends you should be able to gage what her reaction would be, if she's likely to be okay with such a friendship/relationship then what does it matter if people think it's weird. If you think she might be offended by the suggestion then maybe you should explain in depth that you would love to be with her but can't give her the time investment that she truly deserves and she what she says but she might just not want to be friends with benefits and you need to be prepared for that outcome too.

[Body odah Man]

So, I have been talking with this girl for a while and we both like each other. I would totally date her, but I am extremely busy and would not be able to put the proper time into the relationship. So would it be weird if the two of us were just friends with benefits, but still had some of the intimacy of a couple?

And this is mainly to girls, would this kind of thing appeal to you at all?

Yes, because that means your just using her as a cheap whore. It's degrading to the girl AND to you. If you really want to though, do it, but I think it's sick

[ChrisTJ]

Yeah I really don't mind FWBs but I'd need to really trust the guy. I'd always prefer actual relationships though. I do have a friend (female) who would rather have FWBs though so each to their own.

[clairey]

Personally I wouldn't like this at all and would be very upset if a guy asked me to have a relationship like that. It's up to you toe to decide for yourselves and if you're ok with it than that's fine I guess but not for me.

[highschool]

I feel like since you guys like each other, you could never keep it truly platonic and have benefits. Someone is gonna end up hurt.

[laurakitty]

Try and confirm it's a relationsu

[jak926]

I am not sure you guys understand what I meant...

[DiamondsGirl]

I am not sure you guys understand what I meant...

explain then