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Half Angel
February 29th, 2008, 02:33 PM
Well my girlfriend wants to do things...not quite sex but you know what I mean. All my friends are not-quite-having-sex but I don't want to do it right now. I love the girl and she is so beautiful in my eyes...but I don't want to do things like that right now. This is wierd because normally it's the girl who feels like this...what do I do?

This is in the right forum, isn't it?

Serenity
February 29th, 2008, 03:28 PM
but I don't want to do things like that right now.

Then don't. Tell her you're not comfortable with it and you think it's too early in the relationship to take it to that level. *shrug* simple as that. If she's as amazing as you say she is, she'll understand and respect your decision.

Kaleidoscope Eyes
February 29th, 2008, 03:30 PM
It's not weird at all. It's just a stereotype that guys are the only ones who pressure their partners. Girls do it all the time, too. Just tell her you love her, but you're not ready to be doing that kind of thing, it's as simple as that. If she cares about you, she will understand. :)

Chatsworth
February 29th, 2008, 07:48 PM
Teeny's right if she really cares about you she wouldn't mind if you wanted to take your time:D

awesomesocks
February 26th, 2010, 09:51 AM
I say go with the flow

Tiberius
February 26th, 2010, 02:30 PM
2 year old bump :locked: