Reoccuring problem

[melia.allen]

No matter what I do, I seem to have the same reoccuring problem. Every guy I have been with only wants one thing from me and that is SEX. As soon as they get it they leave or they leave because I wont give it out. The question is what am I doing wrong? I dont cheat, I am not a slut and i am very caring and sweet. I adapt to the person. The longest relationship i have been in was 2 weeks short of a year. I would like an insight on this opinions and or ideas of how to break the pattern.

[Synyster Shadows]

Patience, my friend. You'll find someone who loves you for your personality. Not everyone is like the guys you described. You seem like a nice girl so it's only a matter of time. You still have a whole life ahead of you. Don't worry about it.

[melia.allen]

I am just tired of being used, i have been hurt so many times i don't know if i am going to believe a guy if they said anything referring to their feelings. For being my age, you would think i wouldnt be in so much relationship problems. But i have not had a good one yet

[Lonely teen]

A lot of people just want one thing in a person because of whatever reason they have and Im assuming you must have the looks for guys to do that but i understand you, i mean not the being used part... well sorta at school cause Im intelligent and all the dumb kids want me to give them answers but the point is i know what i feels like and it sucks, I long for a relationship too but we can only hope the right person will find us soon.

[DiamondsGirl]

I did hear that each person's romantic history follows a pattern. For example, at first you fall for a "bad boy" kind of person, and then you fall for a nerdy innocent type, and then back to "bad boy" again...

So I guess if you want to change your pattern, you have to review what makes a certain individual attractive to you. Change that, as much as you can. For example if you're the kind of person that rushes things up ("oh I just met him and there's an INSTANT chemistry!") do slow down. Stuffs like that.

I'm sorry to hear you feel like you're being used. Don't give up hope yet though, we're all mere beginners in the world of romance. You'll surely meet someone who loves you for who you are one day :)