is this normal?

[Eupher]

So I'm gay but at first I thought I was straight then bisexual now gay did anyone else go through the same experience?

[ksdnfkfr]

I bounce back and forth. Lots of teens do.

[Elysium]

Sexuality is a fluid thing. Of course it's normal.

[centropede]

Same here, was str8, even had crush on some girls, then i was,...maby i am bi? Ok, and now i am gay, sometimes bi and sometimes asexual

[Bmble_B]

Mhmm its all a part of being a teen, I tend to be fickle with my sexuality as well.

[backjruton]

"I bounce back and forth"

Yep. Yep. I did :D
But the funny thing is, I'm still not sure, even though I've come out as gay to so many people. This is why I'm calling myself "Homosexual biromantic" now, I have romantic attractions but extremely little sexual towards girls but much more towards guys. My worst experience was seeing something on TV yesterday, got to me instantly :D


I wasn't sure of anything when high school started

By year 9 or 10 (age 14 and 15) I was telling people I was bi

By year 12 (technically... I'm in college. But I guess the course I'm on is just a repeat of year 11 too... age 17) I am now telling people I'm gay because I spoke to some friends about why I think this and they said that must be it :kitty: but I'm confused because I feel I could form a relationship with my best friend but not be physical or anything with her...

[Seth Green]

I hear it's common for Gay people to think they are Bi at first.

[Virginiakid]

Yeah I think it's pretty common. I go back and forth with whether I am gay or bisexual.

[Matt_97]

Yeah as said above sexuality is fluid!! I went from straight to bi and gay. Even now somedays i feel super gay and overtly attracted to guys and others i feel a bit more refined and more bisexual :) hope that helps a little bit

[ChrisTJ]

Yeah sexuality is very fluid during your teenage years. Gay people often start out assuming they are straight, identifying with bisexuality before identifying as 'gay'. It will all figure itself out in good time.

[Wyatt 13]

ye I was like BI but now I know im gay.

[NickCollins]

Completely normal i bounced between the three then the roulette wheel landed on gay and stayed

[Alex_3869]

Yes. It is completely normal.

[gevans604]

Yeah as said above sexuality is fluid!! I went from straight to bi and gay. Even now somedays i feel super gay and overtly attracted to guys and others i feel a bit more refined and more bisexual :) hope that helps a little bit

Same here.

[Aidoon123]

Yes, I honestly don't believe anyone has a set sexuality, numbers of circumstances can influence your determination of your sexuality, so yes it's quite normal :)

[NeuroTiger]

Just hormones...

[jayyy-lmao]

There's a saying in the older LGBT community of "Bi now, gay later". It often is used to invalidate bisexual identities, but at the same time, can be very true for people. It's just a gradual realisation that also helps come to terms with things easier. So yeah, normal.

[Infidelitas]

Don't label yourself straight up. It is completely normal during a teen's life to dwindle between sexualities.

Eventually in your own time, you will find who you are. Take your time, you have the rest of your life ahead of you.

[Poison_Ivy]

I think it't normal being confused sometimes

[Twilly F. Sniper]

What is normality? Does it even exist?

But out of that hypothesis of mine.

Of course it's fine, sexuality is quite fluid. Meaning that it changes, sometimes significantly.