what should i do??

[conner74]

I have a bit of a problem with my friends and it really hurts me. My friends what to expand our social group, which im fine with it. However they want to make friends with the person who accused me of rape, one you started a facebook page just to bully me and one is a person who absolutely hate. I have told my friends several times that I don't want to hang round with them and they told me that they fun and they dont seem to care that i suffer. But I know if I asked them to hang out with people who they hate they'll tell me no. What should i do?!!! Because they keep treating like a dog.

[Hypers]

If they treat you like a dog, are they really friends? If they keep doing so you might want to make new friends. But you can keep trying and explaining but that probably won't make any difference as you mentioned.

[ksdnfkfr]

Ditch them.

[Living For Love]

Honestly, I think you should just find another group of friends. If even your first group doesn't care about you, then it's better if you just leave. Try to meet other people, and try to slowly approach them and get to know them better. If you are that kind of person who doesn't make friends easily, you could just still hang out with your current group of friends, but if you notice they just don't care about what the other guys did to you, and if they keep teasing you while you're with them, then just leave. It will be better for you.

[DiamondsGirl]

Two options for you here:

A) Do these bullies still bully you? Or is it a thing of the past? You can learn to forgive and accept them. Maybe that's what your friends are trying to accomplish. Who knows, right?

B) Leave your friends and get a new clique.

[myfoodisnotshared]

I'd say at least try to find other friends. Don't be scared to go with the 'uncool' kids - they can be a really nice bunch, and because they've all been in the bullied boat, they at least tend to be really good at not picking on each other. Doesn't always happen and it's a hard group to leave, but as long as you keep your options open (eg, keep talking to everyone else you can) they can be great for keeping confidence up.

Some people can be a lot, lot nicer when they consider you a friend, so yes it's likely these new people will be the absolute prats you think them to be, but they might be very decent. I'd say at least try to be friends with them - but remember you don't deserve their s**t, and there's nothing that keeps you really, so find others if you can. If someone doesn't treat you like a friend, they're not one.

[Dalcourt]

As the others said, you should try to find new friends if thoese people treat you like that. You can't consider people acting like that your friends anyway, friends just wouldn't force you to hang out with people who bullied you.