Is this bad?

[crosa1]

So, I just wanted to get some outside advice. So I'm pretty sure im bi/gay, and my stepbrother and I have been messing around (he's straight btw), and we've even gone as far as him swallowing, if you get what I mean. I just wanted to know if this should stop, I feel like it's wrong, but I cant help myself sometimes. Any advice?

[MechaSniper]

wre all teens o we're bound to experament. some more than others. you are just experimenting.

[ksdnfkfr]

It's something that can cause problems later on, like embarrassing family reunions.

[MrIan]

It's something that can cause problems later on, like embarrassing family reunions.

Ye. I think you betta do it with a friend. It's safest.

[Curious.kid]

Wow that's lucky! I want to know what it feels like to have my penis in someone's mouth. I think you should just have fun if he likes it.

[Scottydog]

I think its ok as you are both teens and obviously curious like the rest of us! You aren't biologically related either which makes it better tbh!

[Dalcourt]

Experimenting is okay, but I think it could turn out awkward if he's your stepbrother.

[BreakFall]

Not within family's cosine are ok I guess

[Brightwolf]

I don't think its bad.

[Rowan_]

If you're gonna keep it going, do it so know one finds out; that could make it really awkward. As for it being wrong, how long have you been step-brothers? If not long then its as if you two are just friends but I think it'd be wrong if you have been step-brothers for a considerable amount of time, he'd be like a biological brother. If you do want to step then just tell him.

[Jaseblader]

don't stop, just be VERY! careful to not get caught because that will be very dangerous

[dame]

what's your stepbrother's view on the situation? if he also feels like it's wrong then you guys should probably bring it to an end, just to be safe.

[Second Chance]

So, I just wanted to get some outside advice. So I'm pretty sure im bi/gay, and my stepbrother and I have been messing around (he's straight btw), and we've even gone as far as him swallowing, if you get what I mean. I just wanted to know if this should stop, I feel like it's wrong, but I cant help myself sometimes. Any advice?

I would not continue to do sexual stuff with your step brother especially if he is younger than you. Even if your step brother is older than you, it is still not a good idea to do anything sexual with him. The fact that he's doing sexual stuff with you clearly shows the guy is bi-sexual though there's nothing wrong with that.

I will somewhat agree with the others that experimenting is something that a lot of guys do, but avoid doing any experimenting with family members, even if they're not blood related, because that'll lead to problems later on. What I mean is that what happens if either you or your step brother end up becoming attracted to one another or if one or both of you take the experimenting one step further? There's nothing but trouble doing sexual stuff with family members, and you're best off finding someone else to experiment with.

[crosa1]

Alright, well thanks guys. I am going to stop it, as I don't want to become attached in that way, as I am planning on being in a relationship with someone else, and I think it will eventually become too weird or we will be caught. Thanks for the advice!

[Just Sayin]

You guys are just experimenting i think its okay

[Hermes]

Regarding the incest taboo which may be why you have reservations about this it is perhaps worth remembering where this came from - a way of avoiding inbreeding. As neith of you will get pregnant from this that needn't be a concern.

On the other hand I would still be cautious, not particularly about the sexual activity but the dynamics around it. As you say he is straight is he genuinely into what you are doing or is he helping you out because it will please you? If the latter will he come to regret it? It is is genuinely consensual and freely entered into without him feeling any pressure from you then fine but do be sure of that.

[male_greece]

u must experiment, u have these urges per say what can u do

[deregisterme]

As long as ur both happy

[DerBear]

It's something that can cause problems later on, like embarrassing family reunions.

Not only that....I do believe some things are meant to be kept separate from family members and even experimenting and that kind of harmless fun should be kept separate from siblings. I know he's your stepbrother but even so....

That's just my own personal opinion though.

[Jack russell dad]

If your step bro doesn't complain, return the favor. Cum realty isn't nuthin but nutrients, so i see nothing wrong

[DeletedAccount123]

I think it was probably harmless but can I ask what ages you both are? That is pretty important. Sorry if it was mentioned and I missed it!

[beenthere]

I feel ya man, It is very complex, I know you are saying you want to stop, but sometimes pretty hard to do that. I would say at minimum talk to him and agree that there can be no hard feelings if one of you guys moves on to other things. Chances are that sooner or later he will get a girl friend, or even you (anything is possible) but at a certain point you just both need to agree that there is no hard feelings later when it is time to move on to other things. If both of you guys can't agree you'll both be cool with that, then better to stop it sooner than later. If by chance you guys are not talking about it to each other, then probably a good thing to stop.

[Michael_6]

I would keep going whilst your enjoying it and while your happy there is nothing wrong with this

[digzchickz]

i dont think its really bad since your not really related, as long as things dont get awkward between you and as long as it doesnt interfere with either of you being able to have a real relationship.

[Body odah Man]

So, I just wanted to get some outside advice. So I'm pretty sure im bi/gay, and my stepbrother and I have been messing around (he's straight btw), and we've even gone as far as him swallowing, if you get what I mean. I just wanted to know if this should stop, I feel like it's wrong, but I cant help myself sometimes. Any advice?

If you're not pressuring him into doing it, then no. If you are..then yes.

[imaguybro]

No, its not bad or wrong. If you and your stepbrother like it. You should continue it. Its called experimenting for a reason. :)

[trumpetprodigy14]

if it feels, or in your place, tastes good, keep on doing it

[AndrewWiggins]

ya, as long as your both happy

[wwad]

He's your step brother - which means he could be just like a best friend cause your not blood related. Do what you guys are comfortable with and make sure you both agree that it won't go beyond yourselves.

[Zachary G]

Hes your stepbrother, how long have your parents been married? I really dont see anything wrong with it as long as its consensual and you are both aware of the consequences (if there are any) of doing this long term.

[Stripling]

My only worry is what could happen afterwards and its a sensitive issue so my personal opinion would be better to experiment with someone else. I suppose some [step]brothers masturbate together but giving each other head is, well, it's called oral SEX.

[fast8]

If your both fine with then go with it its fine

[CrazyPerson101]

So, I just wanted to get some outside advice. So I'm pretty sure im bi/gay, and my stepbrother and I have been messing around (he's straight btw), and we've even gone as far as him swallowing, if you get what I mean. I just wanted to know if this should stop, I feel like it's wrong, but I cant help myself sometimes. Any advice?

Well its up to ya'll. Ya'll aren't blood related so its Ok in a way to do it and ya'll are just experimenting. It really depends on how comfortable you're both willing to go. Hope this helps

[Coolguy2067]

I think its funny all of you label what these two are doing as "experimenting". Obviously this has gone beyond experimenting. I'm assuming they've done this more than once and enjoy it. Experimenting is when two people enjoy in a sexual activity once to see if they like it or not. It seems they've participated in this activity more than once so this goes beyond "experimenting". This is two boys engaging in a sexual activity because they enjoy it, nothing more nothing less.

[swimmerguy72]

If you both are ok with it then it shouldn't be a problem

[valamar]

ummm he's swallowing and he's strait? idk about that

[ryne113]

If both parties are okay then go for it.

[AlisterPSG]

If you feel uncomfortable then stop, but if happy. Go on!

[bigp0599]

I would say no because if can get out to family easy if he or u gets mad

[Thekiid031]

It'll all stop eventually, just enjoy yourselves until somebody feels uncomfortable or *gasp* you guys get caught.

[fast8]

Just do whatever u want only u know what feels right or not

[Tyde]

Its fine :) but if it is causing you a lot of worry and shame (which it shouldn't) stopping might be worth it just to feel better

[loki2000]

if you two enjoy playing together.. keep going with it.... Sound like if he is swallowing your sperm that he`s totally enjoying messing around with you ..

[Collins1]

I don't think it's that bad, your just both curious teenagers!

[riverboy]

Its fine :) but if it is causing you a lot of worry and shame (which it shouldn't) stopping might be worth it just to feel better

I agree with Tyde.

[Reg_]

Hes just experimenting

[Upse]

Keep doin it I mean I would if it fells right then do it if u like it keep doing it if he likes it keep doing it

[Wyatt 13]

dude i think you have 2 stop it messing with relatives is wrong.

[xTropicDomx]

So, I just wanted to get some outside advice. So I'm pretty sure im bi/gay, and my stepbrother and I have been messing around (he's straight btw), and we've even gone as far as him swallowing, if you get what I mean. I just wanted to know if this should stop, I feel like it's wrong, but I cant help myself sometimes. Any advice?

Dude what you feels right, mate.

[bigp0599]

I don't find anything wrong with it

[Semi_IronMan]

ya'll need 2 quit it coz thts jus messed up n it can later caus problms withn yor family

[Underwearlover]

If your both fine with it then thats ok. Do what, or who, you want! ;)

[coolkid016]

Experimenting is okay, but I think it could turn out awkward if he's your stepbrother.

good point. same happened with me and my cuz except the swallowing thing.. happened 3 times but we got over it.. but we didnt "do it" or that nature.. that would be incest but a lil experimenting never hurts as long as you have limits

[coolkid016]

p.s we already stopped

[MatiasKun]

depends on how old r u, if u are really young perhaps u should stop it

[ConsiderMeDead]

It's experimenting n if u wanna go farther make sure he wants to too

[Curious.]

Be careful he wants it if you continue, else stop.

[GoGoDiego]

I can see no wrong.... just remember not to cum inside his mouth.

[football matt]

As long as you are both ok with it why stop

[built chris]

Your not blood related so as long as your both ok with it I don't see a problem.

[Drewboy]

I don't see a problem right now, but you may need to set some ground rules, and make sure that both of you are on the same page as far as how serious the relationship is.

[jeans_kid]

It's perfectly fine as long as you view it as a purely sexual relationship. Don't expect anything from him that one would expect from a boyfriend. Just don't think of anything beyond sex with him.

[EvanJay]

whatever floats your boat

[sixonethree]

Meh. Do what you want do ahaha

[Jeonard]

Do what you feel is right, if no one knows apart from you two then you shouldn't havn't to worry

[SethfromMI]

even though he is your step brother, I would consider stopping. could possibly lead to some unwanted drama down the road

[sebastianb]

well i think is just curiosity so there is nothing wrong with it

[hockeyfan]

Nothing wrong with experiment if both ppl agree to do it. Does ur step bro know about ur sexual orientation? Not that it's his business, but if u haven't it might make u feel better about it.

[kay_jay]

I think it might be a little awkward when you guys are older.

[Uranus]

I think its normal to experiment. I haven't but it's normal, as long as you both are okay with it.
The only issue I see is it's somewhat incest. And that's not good.

[Lovemelons]

Your just experimenting

[singularity678]

its odd

[TalenD]

wre all teens o we're bound to experament. some more than others. you are just experimenting.

Yup. It happens, and at least you guys aren't biologically related. That would be different story

[Snydergate]

I think its completely fine, yur stepbrothers so its not like incest plus stepbro's doing stuff like that pretty normal. I wouldnt let it go much further though, but fooling around is fine to me

[Elysium]

Your just experimenting
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