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Ashleigh
April 11th, 2014, 12:12 PM
Ok so I currently wear the bra size 32G and they're really uncomfortable. Always sore and Achey. I have cuts from my straps where they dig in so much and they make me feel really fat and unattractive :/
I really want a breast reduction but I wanted advice from people who have had it done or are considering it.
What I would like to know is
what was the pain like after?
What is the scarring like?
Does it make you feel more comfortable in yourself?
Would you recommend it?
Would you choose differently if you had the chance to go back?

DiamondsGirl
April 11th, 2014, 10:52 PM
Err... I wouldn't suggest any kind of operation as they're pricey and risky. If you want the one that is less risky, the pricier it gets. If you have cuts from your bra straps, why not wear a strapless one? x

riolu
April 12th, 2014, 12:08 AM
The big question is, why do woman wear breasts? they dont do anything except ruin your breast area by scratching them..

DiamondsGirl
April 12th, 2014, 01:55 AM
The big question is, why do woman wear breasts? they dont do anything except ruin your breast area by scratching them..

wear what? LOL I think you mean "bra". Well, love, I can't give you any scientific answers but the day us women stops wearing bras, incidents such as this would happen in a daily basis. Unfortunately it's too early to start such slow annihilation of the male population.

http://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/news/bondi-rope-climber-was-looking-at-topless-girl-before-he-broke-both-legs-in-fall/story-fni0cx4q-1226805296127

TheBigUnit
April 12th, 2014, 10:22 AM
Unfortunately it's too early to start such slow annihilation of the male population.

http://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/news/bondi-rope-climber-was-looking-at-topless-girl-before-he-broke-both-legs-in-fall/story-fni0cx4q-1226805296127

haha poor guy, from what im guessing this site really doesnt have many who had a breast reduction, that being said I hear they are quite expensive and probably be something you do in your 20s? perhaps theres some kind of workout you can do for them? I was bored one monday and saw this show called dr 90210 or something where this plastic surgeon in Cali did stuff like this, apparently theres some scarring at the bottom of your underboob and you'll be sore for a little ha dont ask why i remeber this

Ashleigh
April 12th, 2014, 11:23 AM
@DiamondsGirl - I can't wear strapless as I need the straps to hold my bra up else the weight of my breasts move it about. Also I live in the uk so if I fit the categories I may get it atleast part paid but it isn't about the cost for me. It has an impact on my breathing the way I see myself. My mental health. I can't exercise because they're too heavy and they get sore. No cost to get rid of them is too expensive for me.
@riolu - a lot of women wear them for the shape others cause it's comfy. Others because they want them lifted without surgery. There's many reasons.
@ TheBigUnit - damn so I have to wait 2+ years? :/ I'll have a little look around on the workout front but like I said earlier it is difficult fore to exercise and again no price is to expensive in comparison to the impact it will have on my life mentally and physically

DiamondsGirl
April 12th, 2014, 12:04 PM
Well if you feel so strongly about it then go on and ask several different surgeons about their opinion. Make sure to ask your parents too x

Ashleigh
April 12th, 2014, 12:10 PM
Well if you feel so strongly about it then go on and ask several different surgeons about their opinion. Make sure to ask your parents too x

I'm 18.. Don't need their permission haha. Nah my mum knows and she's supportive of it. I'm gonna make an appointment ASAP to see someone. X

DiamondsGirl
April 12th, 2014, 12:11 PM
Good luck :) x

Ashleigh
April 12th, 2014, 12:36 PM
Good luck :) x

Thank you! X

plebble
April 12th, 2014, 05:56 PM
Ok firstly, you are neither fat nor unattractive judging on the photo you have, you're actually attractive.
Secondly, for now I think you should do some research into specific bras that maybe have wider straps that won't cut and scar you, and also do some research on not cheap, but trusted boob job specialists.
I wish you all the best in whatever happens :)

Ashleigh
April 12th, 2014, 06:03 PM
Ok firstly, you are neither fat nor unattractive judging on the photo you have, you're actually attractive.
Secondly, for now I think you should do some research into specific bras that maybe have wider straps that won't cut and scar you, and also do some research on not cheap, but trusted boob job specialists.
I wish you all the best in whatever happens :)

Thank you but that's how they make me feel because I have to wear two or even sometimes three shirt sizes larger. I've tried multiple different bras if they don't cut in at my shoulders then it's on the under bust :/

plebble
April 12th, 2014, 06:10 PM
Thank you but that's how they make me feel because I have to wear two or even sometimes three shirt sizes larger. I've tried multiple different bras if they don't cut in at my shoulders then it's on the under bust :/

Have you found any shirts with built-in bras? I know these suggestions are awkward to get because of your size, but there must be alternatives out there, you aren't the only one

Ashleigh
April 12th, 2014, 06:24 PM
Have you found any shirts with built-in bras? I know these suggestions are awkward to get because of your size, but there must be alternatives out there, you aren't the only one

The built in bras are far too small :/ and they don't provide the support I need. Problem is if I don't wear a bra (which is very comfy) then when I walk they have a life of their own and they already attract so much attention towards me

plebble
April 12th, 2014, 06:33 PM
The built in bras are far too small :/ and they don't provide the support I need. Problem is if I don't wear a bra (which is very comfy) then when I walk they have a life of their own and they already attract so much attention towards me

Oh I see. Wearing more clothes over the top like a jumper would lower the chances of them "living a life of their own" but you've probably tried that and it's also going to be too warm. Damn it I wish you could win here.

Ashleigh
April 12th, 2014, 06:57 PM
Oh I see. Wearing more clothes over the top like a jumper would lower the chances of them "living a life of their own" but you've probably tried that and it's also going to be too warm. Damn it I wish you could win here.

Yup :/ tried that :/

Luminous
April 12th, 2014, 07:10 PM
Before going so far as to get a surgery, try losing weight. Don't do it unhealthily or become tiny, stay in a healthy weight, but losing a few pounds and becoming more active could make a whole world of difference. Of course, I have no idea how much you weigh, so if you're very small, don't do it, just become more active and build up more muscle for a stronger back.

Ashleigh
April 12th, 2014, 07:44 PM
Before going so far as to get a surgery, try losing weight. Don't do it unhealthily or become tiny, stay in a healthy weight, but losing a few pounds and becoming more active could make a whole world of difference. Of course, I have no idea how much you weigh, so if you're very small, don't do it, just become more active and build up more muscle for a stronger back.

Without the boobs I'd be a size 10 or in some brands even an 8 so the weight isn't the problem :/

TheBigUnit
April 13th, 2014, 01:34 PM
Without the boobs I'd be a size 10 or in some brands even an 8 so the weight isn't the problem :/

surgery is probably the way to go, but yes you are attractive haha, maybe you should see how celebrities with big boobs handle their situation without surgery,

chipmunk
May 25th, 2016, 11:35 AM
your perfect dont

lemondrop
May 25th, 2016, 12:33 PM
shred some fat (i don't say that you have fat,but ik if you're lean on body fat level -breasts get smaller) ?

I'M VERY SORRY DIDN'T SEE THE DATE,BCUZ SOMEONE ELSE POSTED BEFORE ME..

Living For Love
July 8th, 2016, 12:46 PM
Please don't bump old threads. :locked: