How To Do It?

[Undying -15-]

So I Really Like This Girl And We've Been Together For A Long Time. How could I get her to get in the mood to have sex with me? And how should I make my move with her?

[Gumleaf]

boys puberty - relationships & dating

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Well first of all you shouldn't be trying to MAKE her get in the mood for sex. Trust me it will NOT be a good experience unless both of you want to have it just as much. How long exactly IS this "long time" you've been with this girl? And more importantly, have you done anything sexual together in the past (such as oral sex, but not full intercourse). If you guys haven't even "started out small" and tried to work your way up then actual sex is gonna be too BIG of a leap for her and even for you emotionally and mentally.

[Chatsworth]

CanadianGuy has a few points there. But remember if you do wind up having sexual intercourse just dont forget 'protection'

[Patchy]

Well, first you shouldnt force you, if shes giving you the hint that she doesnt want to, just leave it.

Also as CanadianGuy said, start off slow and build up to sex. you dont want to rush into it, build it up slowly.

[Undying -15-]

thanks for the help for whom that commented/replied

[steven]

okey first of all...you need alot of time together before you attempt to do this otherwise you or your partner could start to get paranoid because you/they might get it into your/their heads that you/they want each other just for the sex... secondly, find out their turn on spots... they could be anywhere from a stroke on her neck to a nip on the arse (or meybe both ;)) then on the day that you want to make the move, start off early in the day, generally by kissing (other person might that this is a normal day) but believe me, kissing early can be a big boost later on... when you are alone in a room, kiss them and move your hand over their turn on spots... they might get frustrated or they might get arounsed abit, or they might pretend they are unaffected. in either of the last 2 cases stated, carry on, but if they show signs of being frustrated then stop and try again in a while (give or take a week), now the second move, is infact when another unsuspecting person walks into the room (this is why it is ideal to be downstairs in a room where everyone uses, but not very often, or people come and go every now and again), this time... movve your hand over their turn on spots without the other person finding out, in my experience... my girlfriend whispers into my ear and calls me a ''git'' or a ''bastard'', because i am TORMENTING her... tormenting your partner could prove to be usefull as it could turn out that they offer to go into a private room where you start getting down to serious business... this is where you do what you do and find another person to help you as i cant give you any more information,

but my advice is to start small and kiss for the first 10 - 20 mins then move your hand around their body and use your hand... it then depends on if your partner wants you at this time or not... but as i said, your better off getting advice from another person here, or just go on your own ''intuition'' ...

DONT FORGET PROTECTION!!!!

Steve