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Waterford
April 10th, 2014, 02:39 PM
Hey guys my team is staying overnight in a hotel next week and I'd say it will be 3 to a room , so I'm guessing bed sharing. Anyway I'm very curios and normally wear boxers to sleep , should I wear pjs . What about doing stuff ? I think the lads are straight but I don't know. And showers lol .
What do you guys do when staying in hotel or bedroom with lads ?
Boar
April 10th, 2014, 02:44 PM
Hey guys my team is staying overnight in a hotel next week and I'd say it will be 3 to a room , so I'm guessing bed sharing. Anyway I'm very curios and normally wear boxers to sleep , should I wear pjs . What about doing stuff ? I think the lads are straight but I don't know. And showers lol .
What do you guys do when staying in hotel or bedroom with lads ?
Well I would suggest pjs UNLESS you throw hints around and if you all do agree on experimenting then go ahead! If you all are okay with being nude than go ahead!
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ksdnfkfr
April 10th, 2014, 02:49 PM
You shouldn't expect any sexual adventures in a first time hotel sleepover.
HSJock206
April 10th, 2014, 03:22 PM
do what ever is comfortable. Underwear is what I wear at home and its always what I wear when I traveled. I've stayed with team mates several times over the years and its usually 3-4 to a room. Nothing sexual ever happens but we're aware of the long showers and what were doing in there. Morning wood was pretty common and there are a few funny comments that are made but its all in good fun. Just be yourself.
imthomas
April 10th, 2014, 03:24 PM
I might go with full pjs
Pulp501
April 10th, 2014, 03:33 PM
I stayed 3 to a room on a field trip. We decided we would share a bed, but I wasn't comfortable with it, because I didn't know the guy at all and I slept on the floor after that. We all wore pajamas to bed. No experimenting and no one even talked about it. We just had to plan our showers so everyone had time, usually two at night one in the morning. We only changed in front of each other and that was fine.
Jeonard
April 10th, 2014, 04:45 PM
Do whatever you feel is comfortable, don't feel you have to do certain things. As for showers, hotel bathrooms are often very small so only one of you would be in it at a time, surely.
Ethe14
April 10th, 2014, 04:52 PM
Wear what you like as long as it's appropriate.
wicky
April 10th, 2014, 05:45 PM
After practicing and fooling around till really late we were really really tiered by the time we went to bed....most just took teeshirts and pants off and slept in their undies...mostly briefs.
Catholic Guy
April 10th, 2014, 05:51 PM
I don't have that kind of experience but what I would say is bring pjs and boxers and pj shorts and then you have 4 options depending on what the others do, let the others shower first and just do what they do and you will be fine
Luke91
April 10th, 2014, 07:17 PM
When we went on our class trip to Washington, we stayed 4 to a room and we shared beds. We all just wore boxers or boxer briefs and no shirt. No one even took pj's and no one even talked about sleeping on the floor. We had a great time and I suggest you sleep like you normally do.
Canadian Dream
April 10th, 2014, 08:58 PM
Yeah I wouldn't expect anything to happen if it's at a hotel, but when I'm going over to someones house I put either just underwear or pjs it doesn't really matter. I've done stuff with some friends but that was after many years of sleepovers.
The captain
April 11th, 2014, 06:46 AM
wear as you like..they're teens like you, so I guess they're going to do the same...I?ve done stuff (jerk toghether not bj or hj) but we're friends before
toplels
April 11th, 2014, 09:29 AM
You should bring some kind of pajamas (shorts, pajama pants, etc.) just in case as you don't know how the other people may feel about sleeping with another person in just their underwear. If it turns out that they don't care: great! Sleep in whatever you want.
Liam TWB
April 11th, 2014, 04:15 PM
I suppose it depends on what sport you do, but I play rugby so we tend to have all needed to take showers afterwards, sometimes communal ones. It doesn't mean we're used to parading round naked, but I don't think any of my team mates would even notice whether you chose to wear boxers to bed. I know one guy slept nude, but he wasn't sharing a bed. Good luck with your games anyway Waterford! :)
openminded-sama
April 11th, 2014, 05:02 PM
I don't think anyone will be bothered by you wearing underwears to sleep. So if that's you favorite way of sleeping then go for it
BreakFall
April 11th, 2014, 08:47 PM
Wear PJs just pants
wicky
April 11th, 2014, 11:27 PM
There are pranksters and pranks too....once I dozed off with a group and woke up to find my belt, jean zipper and button undone and pulled to my mid thigh level....! giving everyone a free show of my brifs...there were girls too and I felt sooo embarrased.
irishguy123
April 22nd, 2014, 12:54 PM
boxers will be fine
trustn01
April 22nd, 2014, 01:22 PM
Maybe put a wifebeater on too, but that's up to you.
Spookysnail
April 22nd, 2014, 02:36 PM
Plan shower times and wear what you feel comfortable in (PJ's/Boxers/etc.). No one should judge what you're wearing. But good luck in the game!
mattb5187
April 22nd, 2014, 04:09 PM
you should be fine in just your boxers.
teenuser101
April 22nd, 2014, 05:12 PM
If you are on the same sports team then surely you have seen each other naked before? At least just in underwear? I'd wear what I normally wear to bed unless they specifically ask you not to. Anyway, most guys there will probably feel the same as you so it's worth asking to experiment. All that could happen is they say no...!
nklarke
April 22nd, 2014, 09:51 PM
Hey guys my team is staying overnight in a hotel next week and I'd say it will be 3 to a room , so I'm guessing bed sharing. Anyway I'm very curios and normally wear boxers to sleep , should I wear pjs . What about doing stuff ? I think the lads are straight but I don't know. And showers lol .
What do you guys do when staying in hotel or bedroom with lads ?
So, how was it?
skiman
April 22nd, 2014, 09:56 PM
Don't get sexy. Just dont. If the other kids aren't cool with it, which, odds are, they aren't, they'll never look at you the same again. Now if you could get into the girls room... Lol jk
Jaseblader
April 22nd, 2014, 10:07 PM
I have never shared a hotel room with anyone besides my brother,mom,and dad so I believe that you should wear pjs and only jerk it in the shower
georgieboy28
April 23rd, 2014, 09:20 PM
It depends how close you are. Ask them if they mind you wearing only boxers, but definatly bring pj's just in case. And just go with the flow and decide if they want to experiment as well through behavioral clues.
GoWA_Vet
April 23rd, 2014, 10:40 PM
bring pj's in case they arent ok with it
ashdaniel
April 23rd, 2014, 11:33 PM
I am going to a sport trip this friday. It is my first trip, 4 guy in a room. I plan to carry my PJ.
JTriot09
April 24th, 2014, 11:25 AM
i have nver been in that situation before, so i dont know. probably ask first
Zachary G
April 24th, 2014, 02:30 PM
when we would take overnight trips most of us slept in our boxer shorts and for those that wanted to fool around, well i am sure they found a way. and we always showered one at a time, so there was a little privacy there.
Wyatt 13
April 24th, 2014, 04:15 PM
I have done that b4 cuz im in a soccer travel team, not biggie everyone minded theirs stuff dude, and none naked ever.
henry5331
April 24th, 2014, 04:27 PM
Hey guys my team is staying overnight in a hotel next week and I'd say it will be 3 to a room , so I'm guessing bed sharing. Anyway I'm very curios and normally wear boxers to sleep , should I wear pjs . What about doing stuff ? I think the lads are straight but I don't know. And showers lol .
What do you guys do when staying in hotel or bedroom with lads ?
I would just ask them if they're cool with you sleeping in your boxers. They'll probably say yes or they'll think you're weird for asking because they do it too.
Menzis
April 24th, 2014, 05:03 PM
When I went to Berlin with 5 other mates, we stayed at an hostel.
Everyone had their own bed but there were 2 bunk beds. It doesn't matter what you wear, some guys slept in their boxers, but I just slept in my shorts.
Everyone just showered after one another, it's nothing special really.
JTriot09
April 25th, 2014, 11:02 AM
How did your game go?
What happened in the hotel
AdrianField
April 25th, 2014, 09:11 PM
Haha no sexual adventure trust me most guys would be way wierded out. Unless you are like in a swim camp where you are naked on a regular basis. But soccer camp is none of that. Idk what sport you play so there you go.
Jtyler
April 25th, 2014, 10:51 PM
What every your comfortable with
AdamScott101
April 26th, 2014, 12:38 PM
I've been in this situation many times on rugby tours and school trips. I sleep naked every night and why would I change that? The first night I just get undressed and jump into bed, and no one has ever found it weird. If you sleep in your boxers just do it. If I was sharing a bed I might check, but only if I wasn't a close friend with them, otherwise they will have seen my junk a million times before.
PinkFloyd
April 26th, 2014, 01:05 PM
I was in this situation and we just shared beds and it wasn't a big deal at all. As far as showers go, we just took clothes in the shower with us and that was that. Since this thread was made on April 10th, I guess the hotel stay already happened... I just wanted to give my two-bits worth. :D
britishboy69
May 7th, 2014, 01:57 PM
Just go with what you would always wear at home I've learnt, if no one is wearing the same, they most likely won't say anything or they will wear the same! Unless you're naked!!
Just Sayin
May 15th, 2014, 08:28 PM
Me and my best friend have shared a bed many times we alway sleep in our boxers so i think you could do that. As far as messing around me and my friend have you will just have to see how things go
JustAnotherTeen
May 16th, 2014, 08:07 AM
Bring both and find out what everyone else is wearing.
DeletedAccount123
May 16th, 2014, 08:58 AM
Bring both and find out what everyone else is wearing.
That's the perfect answer. As long as you have both then you can just go with the flow.
Obviously no one is gonna try anything with multiple people around! Maybe if it was just two to a room.
Chrisscotland
May 16th, 2014, 07:55 PM
yeh bring both, and could be loads of fun if something happens
Waterford
October 2nd, 2014, 12:34 PM
Can't believe I forgot about this!
We had a great time , it was 2 to a room and I got the one who I wanted. There was a pool there ( i didn't know) and when he went to get into his swim trunks he was on a massive boner . He tried to laugh it off and I said don't worry , we're guys it's normal. So he basically said would I mind comparing ours and our methods etc. and the rest is history
JamesSuperBoy
October 2nd, 2014, 12:36 PM
Can't believe I forgot about this!
We had a great time , it was 2 to a room and I got the one who I wanted. There was a pool there ( i didn't know) and when he went to get into his swim trunks he was on a massive boner . He tried to laugh it off and I said don't worry , we're guys it's normal. So he basically said would I mind comparing ours and our methods etc. and the rest is history
beginning to think you were still stuck in that room!!!:yes:
Drewboy
October 2nd, 2014, 10:25 PM
There's no shame in wearing boxers to bed, just wear whatever is comfortable for you to sleep in. I've never been in a situation where I had to shower with another person, and I doubt that's going to happen for you since hotel showers are pretty small. As for fooling around, don't make anyone do anything they don't want and don't do anything you don't want to do, but you guys may end up doing something like a circle jerk, which are pretty fun, just make sure everyone is ok with it
built chris
October 11th, 2014, 01:02 PM
If you normally wear boxers to sleep then that should be fine. It's a hotel so it will be a shower just like at your house, as far as doing stuff I doubt anything like that will happen.
Hardcatch
October 11th, 2014, 03:46 PM
Wear what you normally do at home, unless you sleep nude and that maybe a little much. I've gone on sports trips and stayed 4 in a room and underwear was pretty much the norm...maybe some BB shorts but that's rare.
jordanhardy
October 11th, 2014, 03:49 PM
Yeah boxers will be fine
Throwaway24
November 12th, 2014, 04:39 PM
Just kinda talk to them in the room. Dont make a full on discussion about it just kinda ask a question get an answer and go with it. They are probably exactly the same so it wont take much to get it sorted just a quick push at the start
SethfromMI
November 12th, 2014, 08:49 PM
maybe ask but honestly sleeping in your boxers should be no big deal at all
Indio
November 15th, 2014, 10:19 AM
You should bring some kind of pajamas (shorts, pajama pants, etc.) just in case as you don't know how the other people may feel about sleeping with another person in just their underwear. If it turns out that they don't care: great! Sleep in whatever you want.
Good suggestion!
TMyers1835
January 2nd, 2015, 09:13 PM
Just ask what people are wearing and if they are naked you be naked. If they aren't then just sleep in your boxers or just shorts
Meh Guy
January 2nd, 2015, 10:50 PM
Well, when I first stayed in the same room with guys for a school trip, we slept on the same bed, 2 to a bed. It was kind of a "deal with it or stay awake all night" thing :P as for the clothes, everyone wore boxers. Nothing really happened but I'm sure just like any sleepover or other, things can and may happen. I wouldn't change anything that you do though.
Omniscient
January 3rd, 2015, 01:30 AM
If you think you'll get aroused, then I'd suggest wearing PJs just so you don't flaunt a boner around lol
Sam-9876
January 3rd, 2015, 06:26 AM
I've stayed in dorm rooms on school and Scout trips with people I didn't know well before, and everybody just slept in boxers - I guess that's what they would sleep in at home. You could keep your t-shirt on till everyone else takes theirs off if you really wanted.
If it's like a hostel with the toilets down the corridor then PJ bottoms are good, means you can get up and walk around without getting embarrassed if there's a girl in the corridor.
Lost in the Echo
January 3rd, 2015, 07:57 AM
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