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CheekyBird
April 10th, 2014, 09:31 AM
Why is it that I always seem to end up being checked out or wolf-whistled at when ever I go out. But then I can't find anyone actually interested in me?!

Does anyone else have this problem?

Melodic
April 10th, 2014, 10:29 AM
Wait, People still wolf whistle? :lol:

Err, I've had attention like that before, but not exactly wolf whistling.

As for advice, just be yourself. Soon a guy will come up and get to know you for who you are.

Body odah Man
April 10th, 2014, 12:35 PM
That sux :(
I hope you someday find a nice guy

ninja789
April 10th, 2014, 12:47 PM
Kinda catch your drift with this. Dont really know why it is though :( screws with your head a lot
I found that I was just looking at the wrong type of guy to want to have that sort of relationship

also wolf whistling? lol

CheekyBird
April 10th, 2014, 03:29 PM
That sux :(
I hope you someday find a nice guy

awww thank you, but known my look it will take a long time. :)

Kinda catch your drift with this. Dont really know why it is though :( screws with your head a lot
I found that I was just looking at the wrong type of guy to want to have that sort of relationship

also wolf whistling? lol

It's like fair enough look, but don't make it obvious as I feel uncomfortable. (Not that there's anything amazing to look at.

It's really annoying but living in the land of the Geordies, you kind of expect it... :)

Karkat
April 10th, 2014, 03:50 PM
I've gotten honked and whistled at while wearing my WORK UNIFORM. Nothing sexier than a slightly too large McDonalds potatosack.

I hate when men do that.

DiamondsGirl
April 10th, 2014, 11:31 PM
Men on your area are just mannerless A-holes. Chin up though it does not mean you're not attractive! Keep searching, that "prince on a white horse" is out there for you somewhere.

ninja789
April 11th, 2014, 03:51 AM
awww thank you, but known my look it will take a long time. :)



It's like fair enough look, but don't make it obvious as I feel uncomfortable. (Not that there's anything amazing to look at.

It's really annoying but living in the land of the Geordies, you kind of expect it... :)

your location explains the wolf listening haha

CheekyBird
April 12th, 2014, 03:48 PM
your location explains the wolf listening haha

I get called pet! What makes it worse is they are younger than me! Fair enough if it's like old people, it's common... But for a 15 year old to call me pet and try and chat me up. It's wrong! and creepy!

plebble
April 12th, 2014, 03:59 PM
Wolf-whistled? Is it 1978 already? Haha
If someone does that, just take it as a compliment that you're attractive. But those who do do it clearly aren't the ones for you to date. If you like someone but they don't like you back, then they aren't perfect. There are hundreds of guys out there who want exactly you, wearing clothes that doesn't match your personality is not how to find them.
But yeah, wolf-whistlers are dicks.

sqishy
April 12th, 2014, 05:51 PM
Never ever liked wolf whistlers, not that I was being whistled at, rather just seeing it happen.

ScottishCanary
April 13th, 2014, 03:46 AM
Yeah just ignore the wolf-whistlers, don't give them the attention they crave. They are simply old fashioned sexists and shouldn't still exist. Don't know what age you are but often boys in their teens are only interested in people for their bodies and not the "content of their character" as MLK would have said. Wait until you get a bit older and you will find plenty guys who will find your personality attractive.

CheekyBird
April 14th, 2014, 10:23 AM
Yeah just ignore the wolf-whistlers, don't give them the attention they crave. They are simply old fashioned sexists and shouldn't still exist. Don't know what age you are but often boys in their teens are only interested in people for their bodies and not the "content of their character" as MLK would have said. Wait until you get a bit older and you will find plenty guys who will find your personality attractive.

I'm 17.. so there's not a big age gap, but its actually disgusting (it doesn't help that I'm on the mature side). I don't want the attention and try to hide away and ignore it, but its just disgusting. As much as I would like someone in my life right now, there's no way I want anyone like that!