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sambeans
April 10th, 2014, 07:33 AM
Girls, Has your guy ever had performance issues? If so how did you deal with it?

cherylcherylX2
April 10th, 2014, 10:30 AM
have not had that happen to me, thankfully, although sometimes sex is unenjoyable, but that's probably just a lack of skillz

Tatii99
April 10th, 2014, 11:24 AM
I suppose you mean "performance issues" on the bed. If that's the case, it never happened to me.

ScottishCanary
April 10th, 2014, 01:31 PM
I once had a guy experience "issues" but it was his first time doing anything sexual with a girl so it's to be expected I heard.

sweet_girl24au
April 10th, 2014, 06:42 PM
Yes my first bf's first time but he was better the next time.

It's important to be understanding, it's not hard for us girls we just need to be lubricated but for them if they for whatever reason can't get it happening there's not a lot they can do I think.

nicole97
April 10th, 2014, 07:13 PM
I guess it depends on what you define as a 'performance issue', I guess under some definitions I have, though I don't think either of the guys I've experienced that with did anything that would be considered out of the ordinary for first few times having sex.

biancachica
April 10th, 2014, 11:04 PM
When my exboyfriend and I were losing our virginity he had some issues but after that it was all good

ninja789
April 11th, 2014, 04:49 AM
yeah but we just extended foreplay and all was fine

Taryn98
April 11th, 2014, 05:38 AM
no, I've never had a guy have those problems before

Ashleigh
April 11th, 2014, 12:18 PM
Yes. He used to have problems getting it up. I just thought about how he must be feeling and tried to make him see it wasn't a problem it just happens occasionally. It turned out it was something as common as a tight foreskin

ozteen
April 11th, 2014, 07:37 PM
Has'nt been a problem so far....

shelby_caligurl_2000
April 12th, 2014, 03:08 AM
the only "issue" or problem i've ever run into is a lot of guys cum way too quick before i can get off

jenna123
April 15th, 2014, 12:20 PM
if its his first time doing it its common to have performance issues. I never experienced it with my boyfriend, he could always get it up, but sometimes dont know why he lasted less than normally. i guess sometimes it happens. If he cant get it up it may be another issue, maybe ask a doctor about solutions

ninja789
April 16th, 2014, 06:47 AM
the only "issue" or problem i've ever run into is a lot of guys cum way too quick before i can get off

thats freaking annoying too

sambeans
April 16th, 2014, 11:52 AM
Yeah, Its issues getting it up. Guess its something I will have to be patient with

ChrisTJ
April 18th, 2014, 12:15 PM
the only "issue" or problem i've ever run into is a lot of guys cum way too quick before i can get off

Yeah I also find that guys finish way to quickly. My FB and I had to work around that and I hear it's a common complaint.

highschool
April 19th, 2014, 02:03 PM
yeah i was giving a guy a bj and within like 30 secs he was done.