I have to have her!!

[Slender Man]

There's this girl I know. We're bestfriends, she's told me that I'm the longest bestfriend she's had, that all the other ones have left her. We tell each other everything, we trust each other, we're so close. AND I WANT HER! I'm so f*cking crazy about her, she's my everything. We used to dated and dated for about 2 days but she said it felt like more than that because we used to kiss before we were officially dating. I am in love with her, but here's the problem; she's in love with an asshole boyfriend. He's broken up with her two times but she goes back to him like a dumb ass. She likes me and feel so comfortable around me, but she also loves her boyfriend and can't get over him. It hurts me, the fact that an amazing girl like her is stuck with an asshole who broke up with her because his friends told him to. I want to make this clear to everyone when I say I'm not bragging but, I AM THE BEST BOYFRIEND SHE WILL EVER HAVE. I treat her so much better, I actually spend more time with her than her bf(he gets mad because of that), I talk to her more than ANY of her friends. I actually care about her and want to be there for her. I get so freaking jealous when other guys talk to her, even if they just say "Hi", my homeboy plays around with her and I get so f*cking jealous that I often catch myself muttering under my breath "f*ck off and leave her alone already...". This girl is the world to me /.\ I don't want anyone else, I only want HER. It literally pisses me off that I can't have her back.

We might chill at the park Saturday, so should I go for it and just ask her out even though she has someone? Should I just wing it and go for that one romantic moment kiss that you see in the movies? I kissed her last time she came to my house and at first I caught her by surprise but she didn't push away and we kissed for a good 3 seconds.

What do I do? I've told her how I felt so many times, It feels like I'm a broken record saying the same shit over and over again.

[DiamondsGirl]

You sound creepy. Seriously. It's her boyfriend and her life, you should respect that. If she chooses to go back with her boyfriend, that's her choice. You have no right to badmouth her decision or her boyfriend. I also don't see how someone who got jealous just because another boy is talking to your crush would make "the best boyfriend she will ever have". Calm down and slap yourself in the face. I'm not even gonna sugarcoat this: you are possessive.

EDIT in case you are unwilling to slap yourself, I have a healthy dose of online verbal slap right here with me: I can't decide which one you resemble more; slender man or human Chucky in Child's Play 6: Curse of Chucky

[ksdnfkfr]

First off no one as possessive as you make yourself sound could be "the best boyfriend" for her. I mean if she became yours how controlling would you be? Sounds like you might be a terrible boyfriend who would explode with jealousy all the time over the simplest little thing. So ask yourself honestly if you are obsessed with her and if that would make you a good bf or not. If you honestly think you pass that test, and you are around her all the time, and her bf has broken up with her twice, then wait for the next break up.

[Saint]

If she's rejecting the idea,let it go man. You probably aren't the "best boyfriend" (don't know where you could get that term from) for her. Though you do sound like an overly attached one. Which isn't good in any case,so I'd really recommend you go through on fixing your friendship with her first.

You need to back off for a bit and let her make the choice. If she wants to be with her boyfriend,be a friend to her and counsel her if things go wrong. Don't be the third wheel,and let her make the choices she wants to.

[ninja789]

Getting really jealous over your girl interacting with other guys definitely doenst make you a good boyfriend. Girls can often find that insanely off putting as we want to live our own lives too. Talking to other guys is part of life so if you really want to have a good relationship with this girl you need to get over that. Also if this girl is so great and her bf such a prick then eventually she will get over him. As hard as that may be, I would recommend you being patient and waiting. She knows you like her given the kiss so only time will tell whether she feels the same way about you enough to pick you

[project_icarus]

It sucks to be in the situation you're in, and I know jealousy is a shitty feeling; but you need to realise that maybe she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you for some reason and if you've told her how you've felt so many times, maybe you should back off a bit. Don't keep pestering her, it won't help much and will probably frustrate you more.