how I'm affected

[NeverBegan]

I'm not sure if I was abused, but when I was younger my dad would often get angry at me and say disparaging things, as well as physically beat me. I remember being afraid of him.

We are both completely cool now, but I often have negative-self talk, and am often pessimistic. I'm not sure if this stems from when I was a kid but I think it might have impaired my ability to form relationships.

[Ralph.S.G.R]

That is absolutely possibly. It might help to talk about this with him... if you are both on good terms now. Or it might be preferable to talk to others- friends, family, people on here, or even a therapist.

[NeverBegan]

That is absolutely possibly. It might help to talk about this with him... if you are both on good terms now. Or it might be preferable to talk to others- friends, family, people on here, or even a therapist.

I'm not sure if it stems from that, or other life experiences, or both. It's internal so I don't know if it can be fixed.
thanks for the reply

[Ralph.S.G.R]

I'm not sure if it stems from that, or other life experiences, or both. It's internal so I don't know if it can be fixed.
thanks for the reply

You can always fix yourself... it just takes a bit of introspection and some honesty with yourself. I guess recognising the problem is the first step, then talking about it is the second... so you’re already on step 3 :D

Once you reach 100 posts, feel free to pm me (or anyone) to chat... but also try talking to people you know in real life :)

[NeverBegan]

You can always fix yourself... it just takes a bit of introspection and some honesty with yourself. I guess recognising the problem is the first step, then talking about it is the second... so you’re already on step 3 :D

Once you reach 100 posts, feel free to pm me (or anyone) to chat... but also try talking to people you know in real life :)

thanks :) because im in lockdown im pretty much stuck here lol

[Ralph.S.G.R]

thanks :) because im in lockdown im pretty much stuck here lol

Yeah... at least everyone’s in the same boat pretty much :)

[ska8er]

Many times my Hand has been my
One Night Friend.

[David01]

I'm not sure if I was abused, but when I was younger my dad would often get angry at me and say disparaging things, as well as physically beat me. I remember being afraid of him.

We are both completely cool now, but I often have negative-self talk, and am often pessimistic. I'm not sure if this stems from when I was a kid but I think it might have impaired my ability to form relationships.


Sorry to say that but I don't see the problem if your day beats you if you made something bad. Of course like you say "angry" He could made something that he shouldn't have do