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Ryuun
April 9th, 2014, 02:38 AM
hey i am friends with this girl that i met a few weeks ago and i didnt expect to like her so much we spend all day talking to each other but now ive fallen for her and she always says im amazing and have the best smile and things im not really how to act about that cause well she has a boy friend and shes so much like i am we both love the same things. i guess im asking should i tell her how i feel or just wait and not tell her? also they have been together for like 6 months now...
bastard stealing my gf XD (bartard stealing my gf was a joke....)
ksdnfkfr
April 9th, 2014, 03:10 AM
As long as she has a boyfriend, probably you should keep any romantic feeling you have to yourself. I imagine it's a very difficult situation for you.
Gumleaf
April 9th, 2014, 03:24 AM
As long as she has a boyfriend, probably you should keep any romantic feeling you have to yourself.
I agree totally with this. If she becomes single, then go for it. But until then keep it to yourself, even as painful as it is.
DiamondsGirl
April 9th, 2014, 05:55 AM
hey i am friends with this girl that i met a few weeks ago and i didnt expect to like her so much we spend all day talking to each other but now ive fallen for her and she always says im amazing and have the best smile and things im not really how to act about that cause well she has a boy friend and shes so much like i am we both love the same things. i guess im asking should i tell her how i feel or just wait and not tell her? also they have been together for like 6 months now...
bastard stealing my gf XD
I hope you're joking with that last line. Sure you do. Right? It is international common courtesy that once somebody has a partner, you keep any romantic feeling to yourself. Plus, you have just met her a few weeks ago. How do you know you're not just infatuated?
Harley Quinn
April 9th, 2014, 06:25 AM
If you want to ruin someone else's relationship at this point, then sure tell her. However, it's probably best not to interfere because trust me, it can lead to some issues. She isn't your girlfriend and he didn't steal her, she was already with him and there's not actually much you can do. You're not falling for her either, you just have a clouded judgement right now because you like her, nothing more. Give it some time, no one says you can't still talk to her and whatnot, so just do that and if it does progress into more, it progresses into more.
Ryuun
April 9th, 2014, 06:34 AM
I hope you're joking with that last line. Sure you do. Right? It is international common courtesy that once somebody has a partner, you keep any romantic feeling to yourself. Plus, you have just met her a few weeks ago. How do you know you're not just infatuated?
If you want to ruin someone else's relationship at this point, then sure tell her. However, it's probably best not to interfere because trust me, it can lead to some issues. She isn't your girlfriend and he didn't steal her, she was already with him and there's not actually much you can do. You're not falling for her either, you just have a clouded judgement right now because you like her, nothing more. Give it some time, no one says you can't still talk to her and whatnot, so just do that and if it does progress into more, it progresses into more.
Yes i was joking about that last part and yes i know it im not just infastuated cause i have been before and i have not wanted to date or be with someone for a while now cause of past experiences and plus a lot of people bore me if they dont get my humour or cant keep up with the things i do so i dont have too many close friends only 3 but when i first met her never thought anything of it she was just another person but she then asked for my number and txted me all the time and its only in the last couple of days that ive had these feelings about her, im not going to say anything to her cause well i dont want to put her on the spot or make anything hard and miserable in her life, i just wanted to know what other people thought
Rocket Raccoon
April 9th, 2014, 12:08 PM
Never cook in another mans kitchen. You will get burned.
charmynyankawaii
April 10th, 2014, 10:10 PM
If you're up to a challenge then tell her "I used to like you (even if you still like her) but then please be happy because I'll always be here for you" something on that lines?
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