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Jmaster
April 8th, 2014, 05:50 PM
So basically I like this girl,I'm pretty sure she likes me also,I asked her out,but she is worried that we would both get distracted from our goals of getting a scholarship to a US college for basketball.

She is the most dedicated girl I have ever met,but I can see that she likes me and I've also been told by others,I've never felt this way about a girl before,she is unique but I know I have to focus on my basketball,I believe we could possibly make it work but I'm not sure.

Any opinions?

ScottishCanary
April 8th, 2014, 07:29 PM
There's no reason it couldn't work between you two. You will just have to be honest with each other about the time you can spend on each other and the time you need to spend working towards scholarship. Thong is you both have a goal of a scholarship so you both have that in common so will understand the constraints of that on the relationship. I'd say go for it!

JDubs
April 8th, 2014, 08:04 PM
You can totes make it work. If you said "do you wanna go out with me", then try asking her on an actual date, so she doesn't feel so committed right away, and just take it slow.

Bmble_B
April 8th, 2014, 08:50 PM
Go for it! You could definitely make this work!

DiamondsGirl
April 9th, 2014, 02:12 AM
She's just a bit hesitant. Surely you can show her that with a bit of time management you can make this work :)

ksdnfkfr
April 9th, 2014, 02:18 AM
Doesn't have to be all or nothing. Find a compromise together and work from there.

Jmaster
April 9th, 2014, 12:33 PM
Ile try talking to her about making it work,hopefully something will happen because going on pretending I just wanna be friends is hurting.

Thanks for your advice peeps

Body odah Man
April 9th, 2014, 12:48 PM
You can totally make this work. When I saw the title I thought you 2 weren't allowed to see each other, but instead it has to do with time constraint..
You cna do this easy!