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Pkivysaur
April 7th, 2014, 06:16 PM
i'm 15, in stage 3 of puberty, and have not had a wet dream. i haven't noticed a wet spot on my bed, or hardened substances on my bed. (or underwear)

is this bad? what are they like?

plebble
April 7th, 2014, 06:23 PM
I'm 18 and have never had a wet dream, I don't think everyone gets them. It's not a bad thing if you don't.

MechaSniper
April 7th, 2014, 06:34 PM
Your fine. they are wet obviously but it's A weird way of waking up. but like a good weird.

Drewboy
April 7th, 2014, 07:05 PM
I have never had a wet dream either, and I don't think many guys do who ejaculate when jerking off on a normal basis. Now if you refrain from jerking for a month or so it might happen, but honestly who would want to have one?

ksdnfkfr
April 7th, 2014, 07:13 PM
Have had two. Would rather not have another. You're not missing anything.

From Chris
April 7th, 2014, 07:52 PM
i'm 15, in stage 3 of puberty, and have not had a wet dream. i haven't noticed a wet spot on my bed, or hardened substances on my bed. (or underwear)

is this bad? what are they like?

Some people actually don't have wet dreams at all during puberty. I haven't had one yet myself, and it may never happen. You would know if you had a wet dream most likely because the sperm would be on where you sleep and you would most likely wake up after the ejaculation sometimes. :) It's not bad to not have them, and you may never get one! :) Wet dreams are simply simulations of sex.

-Chris <3

pjones
April 7th, 2014, 07:52 PM
only had one just recently. very strange feeling

Andrew2499
April 7th, 2014, 08:08 PM
Im 15 and havend had one either

Synyster Shadows
April 7th, 2014, 08:27 PM
If you masturbate often, then you won't have them as they're a way for the body to rid itself of excess semen. By jacking often, you're already lowering the amount of semen. If you were to stop for a few weeks then you might get one. Maybe, maybe not

swimmerbby
April 7th, 2014, 09:21 PM
I've had then but only after I haven't came in a while it's nothing special but I'm sure nothing wrong

GoWA_Vet
April 7th, 2014, 10:49 PM
if you masturbate frequently you are much less likely to get them

Hey-Im-Connor
April 7th, 2014, 11:09 PM
some guys dont get them

Hermes
April 8th, 2014, 05:34 AM
Wet dreams seem to be mentioned in texts on puberty as a development milestone but really the milestone is becoming able to ejaculate and most guys discover they have reached that point by masturbating.

Some guys never have a wet dream; I haven't and it is less likely you will have one if you ejaculate regularly some other way, for example masturbation or sex.

WHTaft09
April 8th, 2014, 09:25 AM
I'm 17 and I haven't had one ever.

Typhlosion
April 8th, 2014, 10:05 AM
I have never had a wet dream, it varies from person to person. Even if I stay for over half an year without masturbating, I never got one.

Lonely teen
April 8th, 2014, 10:10 AM
So far haven't had a single one.

tdawhg99
April 25th, 2014, 12:54 PM
Not everybody has wet dreams..... I've only had about 7. and I'm just about done with puberty. i started around age 12 & I'm now 15

JamesSuperBoy
April 25th, 2014, 01:21 PM
some guys dont get them

This^

Not every does.

Body odah Man
April 25th, 2014, 02:33 PM
i'm 15, in stage 3 of puberty, and have not had a wet dream. i haven't noticed a wet spot on my bed, or hardened substances on my bed. (or underwear)

is this bad? what are they like?

Haven't had one either since I was 11 and I only believe I had them then cuz my mom said so a few weeks back. I think ur safe

Curious.kid
April 25th, 2014, 03:10 PM
I get them all the time and your lucky because their annoying. They wake you up and are really messy but it feels good. It's just surprising and a little scary to wake up from a dream and then you're like - man now I have to clean this all up. And you have to wipe up the sperm and it can get sticky. I hate that I don't feel like Im in control of my own body because it's like peeing the bed back when I was little. I don't like doing it and I can't stop it.

JTriot09
April 25th, 2014, 04:34 PM
i'm 15, in stage 3 of puberty, and have not had a wet dream. i haven't noticed a wet spot on my bed, or hardened substances on my bed. (or underwear)

is this bad? what are they like?

me either! i was wondering the same thing!

backjruton
April 25th, 2014, 08:48 PM
I don't think I've ever had one... if what these people have said is true it's definitely down to doing it regularly and if you don't, I don't know because I don't know much :)

gevans604
April 25th, 2014, 08:50 PM
I contingent them because I jerk off on a regular basis.

Snydergate
April 25th, 2014, 09:55 PM
Some guys just dont get them, I got my first when I was 15. If you want to try, then I would suggest not jerking for a while, thats how it usually happens to me

Jtyler
April 25th, 2014, 10:56 PM
Your very lucky, I've never had one but I Heard their not the best

Cloud_Strife
April 26th, 2014, 12:23 AM
i'm 15, in stage 3 of puberty, and have not had a wet dream. i haven't noticed a wet spot on my bed, or hardened substances on my bed. (or underwear)

is this bad? what are they like?

Nothing wrong with not having experienced them. As mentioned before, many people don't experience them during puberty. You're obviously still well within the thick of puberty if you're in stage three. Depending on the hormonal fluxes you experience during your years of growth, you may or may not experience them, so I'd not worry too much about whether or not it happens.

What are they like? It's just usually a case of having a dream during sleep and ejaculating without consciously willing it to happen. The dreams may or may not be sexual in nature, although most people experience it associated with dreams that have a sexual tone to them. One of my friends had one while dreaming of sky-diving and I once had one while dreaming of swimming on a beach - so it doesn't have to be while dreaming of anything erotic in nature, certainly.

Sometimes the dreams can be a bit more exciting :rolleyes:
But at the end of the day, if you experience them, you will probably just think of them as a bit of a bother, waking up when it happens with wet underwear/sheets in the night, or with a dry patch in the morning.

I'd just keep it cool and take it day be day, there's not much missing if you don't have them.

Hope that helps.

Curious.kid
April 26th, 2014, 04:02 AM
Some guys just dont get them, I got my first when I was 15. If you want to try, then I would suggest not jerking for a while, thats how it usually happens to me

I get them even if I masturbate, but yeah if you want to try and stop for a while it will probably happen sooner.

Haven't had one either since I was 11 and I only believe I had them then cuz my mom said so a few weeks back. I think ur safe

Your mom told you that you were going to get one? I get embarrassed when my mom sees me cleaning it up at night since she hears me sometimes. What did your mom even say to you? Did she tell you about sperm?

Your very lucky, I've never had one but I Heard their not the best

Their not the best, right. Super annoying! And messy

Nothing wrong with not having experienced them. As mentioned before, many people don't experience them during puberty. You're obviously still well within the thick of puberty if you're in stage three. Depending on the hormonal fluxes you experience during your years of growth, you may or may not experience them, so I'd not worry too much about whether or not it happens.

What are they like? It's just usually a case of having a dream during sleep and ejaculating without consciously willing it to happen. The dreams may or may not be sexual in nature, although most people experience it associated with dreams that have a sexual tone to them. One of my friends had one while dreaming of sky-diving and I once had one while dreaming of swimming on a beach - so it doesn't have to be while dreaming of anything erotic in nature, certainly.

Sometimes the dreams can be a bit more exciting :rolleyes:
But at the end of the day, if you experience them, you will probably just think of them as a bit of a bother, waking up when it happens with wet underwear/sheets in the night, or with a dry patch in the morning.

I'd just keep it cool and take it day be day, there's not much missing if you don't have them.

Hope that helps.

I get wet dreams when I dream about my favorite girl in the class kisses and licks my penis because it feels so good I think my body get tricked into spurting out the sperm even if I'm still asleep? Yeah it gets messy and wet because you need to wake up, wipe up your penis, change your undies, and clean up the sperm if it got on your blankets or sheets.

benn_1198
April 26th, 2014, 04:04 AM
some people who sleep deeper are less likely to have one... you don't have to have one but most people usually have at least 1

Body odah Man
April 26th, 2014, 05:19 AM
I get them even if I masturbate, but yeah if you want to try and stop for a while it will probably happen sooner.



Your mom told you that you were going to get one? I get embarrassed when my mom sees me cleaning it up at night since she hears me sometimes. What did your mom even say to you? Did she tell you about sperm?



Their not the best, right. Super annoying! And messy



I get wet dreams when I dream about my favorite girl in the class kisses and licks my penis because it feels so good I think my body get tricked into spurting out the sperm even if I'm still asleep? Yeah it gets messy and wet because you need to wake up, wipe up your penis, change your undies, and clean up the sperm if it got on your blankets or sheets.

She didn'tt ell me I was GUNNA get one, she said I'd HAD one when I was bit younger. There's a difference hahaha. And no, she didn't xplain about sperm, Internet did

male_greece
April 26th, 2014, 06:49 AM
Not everyone has wet dreams, me for example i only had once when i was 14 i think, not sure about the age, some others don't have AT ALL

FroBro16
April 26th, 2014, 10:44 AM
I have never had a wet dream and I think most likely because of jerking off all the time, but everybody is different and like other people say, it's normal if you haven't

Menzis
April 26th, 2014, 04:08 PM
You don't want to experience a wet dream.. it's awkward as fuck.
I slept with my parents and I had a wet dream it was sooo awkward....

Curious.kid
April 26th, 2014, 04:38 PM
She didn'tt ell me I was GUNNA get one, she said I'd HAD one when I was bit younger. There's a difference hahaha. And no, she didn't xplain about sperm, Internet did
wait, what does "I'd" had one mean? "I would" or "I had"? You got one but didn't know it and then she saw your sperm?

lancezer
April 26th, 2014, 05:40 PM
I'm 18 and have never had a wet dream, I don't think everyone gets them. It's not a bad thing if you don't.

same I'm 17 nearly 18 and nope

ugaboy
April 26th, 2014, 08:33 PM
I have not really had one, and really dont want to.

Body odah Man
April 27th, 2014, 04:55 AM
wait, what does "I'd" had one mean? "I would" or "I had"? You got one but didn't know it and then she saw your sperm?

I had. Come on man, look at the context. Had it been would the grammatical constructions I'd (I would have) used would have been different I believe

Curious.kid
April 27th, 2014, 07:14 AM
You don't want to experience a wet dream.. it's awkward as fuck.
I slept with my parents and I had a wet dream it was sooo awkward....

That would be the worse thing ever having to wipe up the sperm off their bed!! Eww

I had. Come on man, look at the context. Had it been would the grammatical constructions I'd (I would have) used would have been different I believe

Ok, sorry about that I was confused. So how did she know? And from the way you write it, it sounds like you didn't know you had one but your mom did?

Body odah Man
April 27th, 2014, 12:38 PM
That would be the worse thing ever having to wipe up the sperm off their bed!! Eww



Ok, sorry about that I was confused. So how did she know? And from the way you write it, it sounds like you didn't know you had one but your mom did?

It's cool. As to the first question-I have no idea how she knew. As for the second, you are correct-I didn't know I had one but my mom did.

sammy99
April 27th, 2014, 12:50 PM
i had sometimes, and it's no good because i sleep naked...but my parents knows that is normal for a teenager.

awesomeness14
April 27th, 2014, 12:53 PM
I've never had a wet dream either.

NeuroTiger
April 27th, 2014, 12:56 PM
Not a big deal at all...
Wet dreams are just due to friction or to sexual dreams...

PatrickV
April 27th, 2014, 02:21 PM
ive never had one.

Tri3tan
October 31st, 2014, 09:45 PM
That's ok, I've had a few and they feel cool cause it feels like you are in the dream but waking up to the stain isn't fun haha

The captain
November 1st, 2014, 01:15 AM
I had and still have wet dreams...my first cum was during one lol

the darkness
November 1st, 2014, 03:13 AM
Never had one and probably never will.

16 now, started puberty at 11, so I can't see one happening now as long as I keep wanking!

samii
November 1st, 2014, 03:37 AM
Am 16, and I haven't had a wet dream,
I haven't noticed a wet spot on my underwear
But its not a worried thing
Some guy haven't had

SethfromMI
November 1st, 2014, 09:31 AM
not all guys get them. often wet dreams are decreased when you jack off regularly, but even then that is not necessarily a total defining factor. I have had some, but your not really missing a whole lot

Tendencies
November 1st, 2014, 11:57 AM
I had one once and it wasn't a fun experience cause people were in the room. Shouldn't worry about having one though.

hockeyfan
November 1st, 2014, 02:00 PM
It's fine. Many ppl don't.

LokaChris
November 2nd, 2014, 04:11 PM
Im the same age and ive also never had one

Zachary G
November 2nd, 2014, 04:14 PM
im 14 and have no clue as to what stage of puberty i am in, but i have not had a wet dream at all since i came into puberty, so i wouldnt stress it. if its going to happen, its going to happen in its own time. you are still normal and just fine.

Eth116
November 2nd, 2014, 04:52 PM
Wet dreams only happen when you don't masturbate or have sex for a while. Though I did have one a while ago when I was masturbating regularly, must have been a good dream.