Self-harm , love regect,abandoned by friends

[JohnV]

Hey guys. I'm new here. as you see i'm 15 years old, pretty much experienced in relationships and friendships.! So, after 6 months of an awesome relationship i got fooled by her. She was supposed to hang out with her best friend (girl) and they went at some kid's home. I learnt about it, i went there and things got out of control. i didnt do anything at all. The big suprise was that all of my friends were there and they admitted that she kissed another guy and they didnt do anything. after that i cutted down every contact with them and keep going alone. Lately i saw them all and tried to talk to them about forgeting what happened that night and stay cool. They said "We dont give a s**** about you anymore" and walk away. Sooo.. i've been cutting myself since then (my left arm).. It feels good when doing it... I really dont know. Everyone's keep on abandoning me and i feel so alone. I dont say it's the best and the right thing to cut yourself.. and i know it's wrong , and temporary, as well as i know that life's going on and so i. But pain, just wont go away.. :confused::confused::confused:

[Living For Love]

I think it would be better if you just forget about those "friends" of yours and move on. Seriously, not only you probably won't earn their respect again but also they don't deserve your friendship at all. She dumped you for another guy, it was her mistake, not yours, just try not to even think about her and your old group of friends, and in the meanwhile, try to meet more people, hang out with other guys or girls, just move on with your life.

About the cutting; well, we all have different ways of dealing with our problems. You chose cutting, it could have been worse, but think of it in this way: it's only a temporary moment your going through, you'll get past it eventually. Just don't do anything rash, and you'll be fine.

[giofighter]

Hi John...So, i don't really have expirience with self-harming but i know some things about lonelyness. You are a 15 year old boy so i assume you are not in high-school yet which means next you'll meet a bunch of new guys, but this is for next year. Just f*ck them!!! If they are so assholes to blame you for all this then just leave them. About self-harm, you could take some kick-boxing lessons. It's effective when you are angry or you want to harm your self... Θα βγαλεις το αχτι σου φιλε μου! If you need anything just send me a message ;)

[Bmble_B]

Hey guys. I'm new here. as you see i'm 15 years old, pretty much experienced in relationships and friendships.! So, after 6 months of an awesome relationship i got fooled by her. She was supposed to hang out with her best friend (girl) and they went at some kid's home. I learnt about it, i went there and things got out of control. i didnt do anything at all. The big suprise was that all of my friends were there and they admitted that she kissed another guy and they didnt do anything. after that i cutted down every contact with them and keep going alone. Lately i saw them all and tried to talk to them about forgeting what happened that night and stay cool. They said "We dont give a s**** about you anymore" and walk away. Sooo.. i've been cutting myself since then (my left arm).. It feels good when doing it... I really dont know. Everyone's keep on abandoning me and i feel so alone. I dont say it's the best and the right thing to cut yourself.. and i know it's wrong , and temporary, as well as i know that life's going on and so i. But pain, just wont go away.. :confused::confused::confused:
Yea If they would do that to you, I wouldn't even consider them friends. I know that it may be tempting to self-harm but just know its not worth it. Although, if your feeling down, lonely, depressed or D all of the above. Just know that you can talk to me. I don't care if you send me two pages of text, I'll read through it all and will always be here for you! :)

[Katiya]

Those ain't friends. Forget'em. ;) You will get over it with time

[theCorruption]

She's proud of herself but she won't tell you why

It's been almost a week since she last even tried

But the voices don't stop and today they won

Will she go for a razor or end it all with a gun



After hours of crying and arguing with herself

She gives in and gets the hidden box on her shelf

Overwhelmed with emotions she selects a blade

Oddly delighted with the choice that she's made



So once again she takes a razor to her vein

And without even flinching or feeling pain

Well, there is pain of course but its mistaken for praise

She is lacking in judment because the feeling of daze



She sits there emotionless, blood pouring from her wrist

Giving into the feeling she's so long resist

A smile crosses her face as it spills down her arm

She's caught up in the corruption, we know as selfharm

~theCorruption
I know how you feel, but the real problem is your friends, not you.