Lonely and considering

[SmokyChica]

So I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago because we were just growing distant. I still like him and miss him but I knew it was for the best. Then I figured id take some down time from relationships but guys kept using me then leaving. My other ex of seven months turned me down when I told him I missed him, my recent ex won't speak to me, I've lost all of my guys friends except for my ex's best friend, and the rest of my friends but one have all been calling me a slut or whore. This whole weekend has just gone horribly. I need help because my life is a mess and I'm questioning why I shouldn't kill myself. If anyone would be willing to talk to me or help me through this that would be great and much appreciated.

[DeadEyes]

So I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago because we were just growing distant. I still like him and miss him but I knew it was for the best. Then I figured id take some down time from relationships but guys kept using me then leaving. My other ex of seven months turned me down when I told him I missed him, my recent ex won't speak to me, I've lost all of my guys friends except for my ex's best friend, and the rest of my friends but one have all been calling me a slut or whore. This whole weekend has just gone horribly. I need help because my life is a mess and I'm questioning why I shouldn't kill myself. If anyone would be willing to talk to me or help me through this that would be great and much appreciated.

The weight of feeling lonely can certainly be heavy but then, you better be alone than in bad company.
Remember you are your own best friend.

[FullyAlive]

You shouldn't kill yourself because simply put relationships and people who call you names aren't worth it. Those type of people should have no impact on your life least of all should they make you want to end it. I know it's not as simple as that trust me, you had the right idea before to take some time from relationships, but properly as in forget about your exes for a while and learn to fall back in love with yourself. You don't need boys to be happy and that's what you've got to remember.

Do you have any good girl friends? Have a few girly days/nights, watch films, eat chocolate that kind of thing. If not you can still have fun by yourself or with family, but just leave the boy drama until you feel slightly more happy about yourself because all that will only stress you more and leave you unhappy. And you definitely don't deserve to be used or brushed aside. :hug:

[Fanta_Lover44]

I'm sorry to hear that things didn't turn out for you, being alone is hard and sometimes we all need a freidn from time to time. Don't go to any extremes just yet, one brake up may be tough but you can get past it, sthings will get better, you'll meet some nice guy one day. :)

I'm here if you ever need to chat about anything.

[ScottishCanary]

I have never been in a relationship before but have seen a few of my friends through break-ups and the resulting depressed feelings. It will get better. When a relationship has just come to an end the feeling are raw and they will feel really bad. You will be struggling to come to terms with the end of the relationship, but in time it will get better. It might not get better in a week or two but slowly it will get better. Just surround yourself with the people that care about you and want to see you happy. Don't listen to people who call you 'slut' or 'whore' these people aren't worth your time. No one who would deliberately bring someone down like that is worthy of your time.

If you need me, I'm only atthe end of a PM! :)

[darkangel91]

Sounds like all those "friends" aren't really friends at all. Don't let other people's hate get you down. Stick with the friend who respects you, take some time for yourself. Remind yourself of all your good traits, of which I'm sure you have many. Think about all the people who love you. Most importantly, smile at yourself in the mirror at least once a day. I was once in a bad place myself, with very low self esteem and the feeling that life wasn't worth living, but I smiled at myself every day, and eventually I began to see how valuable I am. Try it. You deserve to be happy. :)

[ksdnfkfr]

Try not to let the stupidity of others ruin your life.

[imthomas]

Please don't kill yourself. So many people out there love you and think of the pain you would cause them