How do I know if a girl likes me?

[football3114]

I really like this girl and I like talking to her but how do I know if she likes me back?

[Stronk Serb]

You can't know. You can only guess, but depending on the girl, there are a lot of different behaviour patterns. If she talks and spends time with you differently then with other guys, then she might like youn

[radsniper]

just ask her out be yourself

[DiamondsGirl]

Depends on the girl. Sometimes there are clear signs, some others are very discreet. Really there's no way to find out except asking her directly :)

[Harley Quinn]

You cannot know if someone else likes you unless they actually tell you, you can guess and think they like you till the cows come home but unless they tell you, you don't know. You could always make the first move in this situation though, see how that develops in time. You like her, you like how the conversation is going, either you tell her you like her, or ask if she likes you.

[Leon03]

Spend as much time with her and talk to her. Be honest and yourself. You will know at some point.
There is no other way to find out

[johnpatric]

- Get to know her. What kinds of things does she like to do? What kinds of foods does she like? When asking these questions, make it clear that you're genuinely interested.
- Read her body language. Does she stand or sit close to you while you're talking? Does she make eye contact and smile? Does she make physical contact with you, like touching your arm while talking? Those are definitely good hints that she likes you.
- Pay attention when she talks. A girl who is interested in you will laugh more often, her voice may rise in pitch and she might even say flirtatious things, like complimenting you on how you look today.
- Notice her routine. Does she always come find you at lunch? Does she regularly visit you at work? Has she taken an interest in your activities? If she makes an effort to be around you, she obviously likes spending time with you.
- Go for it. If you've been getting all the positive signs, take a chance and ask her out. Keep in mind all the things she told you and ask her on a date you know she will enjoy, like a concert for that band she loves.
- If she's shy, try to take things slow or you could just make her nervous or uncomfortable.

[charmynyankawaii]

Tell her straight out! Maybe like "I really like you please go out with me!" but then it depends on what type of girl she is...... If she is more quiet then try a quieter approach like maybe try playing a love song for her?

[ksdnfkfr]

I don't know how to read signals and all that. I would just have to come right out and ask. Don't understand why it has to be more complected then that.

[plebble]

She'll giggle at every statement you make and try to find a reason to touch your arms if you have big muscles

[giofighter]

You can know sometimes.Like if she's staring at your eyes while you are talking to her or while you do something.Try to catch her while she's watching you, she'll by reflect turn her head the other way like she wasn't watching you. Also, if you are with some other people and talking try to see if see looks direclty at you and your eyes while you are the only one talking. :) I hope i helped you!

[ninja789]

I really have no idea how guys can tell
Sometimes I can display all those signs yet not actually like them

[Rocket Raccoon]

Its very hard to know what a girl is thinking. Just nut up and ask her.

[Slenders Swagger]

There are a lot of ways to tell. First, go around her and look in her eyes, if her pupils are dialated, than that can be a sign that she likes you but this may not be for sure. Another way is to see if she tightens her body around you. Like sightly.ay she puts her hands together tightly.

[Gamma Male]

If she slips Rufees into your drink when your not looking, she likes you. ;)


But seriously, just ask her to hang out sometime. Try to get her phone number. If she's willing to talk and go places with you she probably doesn't dislike you, and if she doesn't dislike you then making her like you is easily within reach. Be nice, but not clingy. Find out what she likes. The question isn't whether or not she likes you but what you can do to make her like you.

[Gamma Male]

I don't know how to read signals and all that. I would just have to come right out and ask. Don't understand why it has to be more complected then that.

This is why I love aspies so much more than normal people. There's no bullshit. No mind games. No drama. Just blatant honesty and straightforwardness. I'm not autistic, but it sure does piss me off when people try to get you to infer something or force you to read between the lines when they could just tell outright you. Even if they are just being polite it's still annoying.

If I were in Divergent I would totally be a Candor. :D

[dame]

girls are weird, it's hard to tell their feelings. but if she feels comfortable around you & also enjoys talking with you that's a good sign. :~)