Problem with my dads

[Jacobaa]

Earlier today i walked in on my dads having sex but I got hard when I saw it even though they are my parents. Am I gay like them or just gross? Should I tell them that I saw it?

[musicalguy]

Just because you got hard doesn't mean your gay or gross it just happens and i honestly dont think so

[Second Chance]

Earlier today i walked in on my dads having sex but I got hard when I saw it even though they are my parents. Am I gay like them or just gross? Should I tell them that I saw it?

The reality is that parents of all sexual preferences do have sex. Your parents were doing something that many people in a relationship do though obviously thinking of parents having sex is not something that any of us would like to imagine.

Guys can get hard at just about anything, and when guys see sexual things it is going to get them aroused. You had seen something sexual, and you simply were aroused and nothing more. I would not read too much into what had happened.

You could bring up with your parents what you had seen, and, hopefully, they can have an honest conversation with you about sex and sexuality. If you do not feel comfortable to do so, then you certainly to do not need to bring this up.

If you know your parents are alone in their bedroom, then it would not be a bad idea to knock on their door and make sure they know you are around. Sometimes things like this can happen even when you do your part. It is awkward to see parents in this way, but if the tables were turned and they caught you jacking off, then you're doing nothing abnormal. These kinds of things happen, and I would not feel badly.

[Will..]

You can get turned on by pretty much anything sexual (or non sexual sometimes) during puberty. You might well be gay or you might not be. I don't think this one event should confirm your sexuality to you.

[Falcons_11]

No, I don't think you are gay. Probably you are just horny. BTW, it's isn't gross seeing your dads having sex. It's only human.

[Maxbreak]

U witnessed a sexual act. The fact it was your parents (and rather off putting) is neither here nor there. Hormones mean we react

[jss888]

I dont think I'd ever get a boner again if I saw my parents going at it

[jamie_n5]

You just entered into a moment that shocked you. Most anyone that would catch their parents in the act of sex would be stunned and beside themselves. You are who are are. Just because you got hard doesn't mean that you are gay. You will know who and what you are sexuality wise someday. Don't let moments in time make you think you know what your sexuality is.

[rgconrad23]

All the above! No worries, it's normal to have such a reaction.

[ska8er]

Its normal for you to get aroused and
it does not make you gay. I would not
bring it up to them. If they want to bring
it up to u they would If not then let it pass.

[Hermes]

I fully endorse Second Chance's answer.

[bradent]

I wouldnt freak out! I mean sometimes the wind blows too hard and a dude gets a boner. You saw something sexual so like it would probably make me hard. But it wouldnt mean I was into it. just that i saw somethin that made me horny..

[xcv18]

Being gay means you are attracted to people of the same gender as you. You simply got a boner. This doesn't mean anything.

[SkylerKnight]

You're not gross.

It's natural to get aroused when you see people having sex.

Talk to them. Tell them what you saw, how it made you feel. I image they are loving and supporting people and will understand. This is a growth moment.

BTW, I'm not suggesting you try to spy on them in the future or join them. I'm just saying have a conversation so everyone will be at ease.

[ibakecookies]

you’re fine, hormones are hella weird and you just gotta trust the process and not get too caught up on a little incident. best of luck

[mercenary]

Don't worry, man. It is all normal. You just saw a sexual act, it's normal for hormones to be that weird.

[Dynamite_Pickle]

i'll be on pornhub and the most random clip will come up and it'll give me wood, but like in my head i don't find it sexy. i think it's just like the "looking at sex" is arousing even though it's not sex you're interested in. In this case for you, your dads boning lol.

[johnnycake]

If you feel alright about it, just ask your dads about it.

[Berlin]

I don’t think that’s enough to say you’re gay. Ask yourself first. Do you like boys?