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Valdemar
May 28th, 2020, 05:05 PM
Hey, so after jerking off I get this weird empty depressed feeling and have gotten it since I started, but it usually goes away after a while though. Anyone else who feels the same?
musicalguy
May 28th, 2020, 06:00 PM
Sometimes but it isn't too bad for me
jamie_n5
May 28th, 2020, 06:58 PM
No I don't but I have heard that a lot of guys get that remorseful feeling temporarily for some reason. Maybe it's cause of the big pressure release. I wouldn't worry about it. Masturbation is a great pleasure and stress reliever.
state-of-ill-annoyed
May 28th, 2020, 09:48 PM
Hey, so after jerking off I get this weird empty depressed feeling and have gotten it since I started, but it usually goes away after a while though. Anyone else who feels the same?
Yes. Often if it's during the day like after school. It feels kind of like guilt. At night I just go to sleep.
jss888
May 29th, 2020, 02:28 AM
I usually need a nap after slapping the ham.
HFrint
May 29th, 2020, 04:18 AM
I feel more relaxed.
Hermes
May 29th, 2020, 11:45 AM
Hey, so after jerking off I get this weird empty depressed feeling and have gotten it since I started, but it usually goes away after a while though. Anyone else who feels the same?
There is definitely a sudden change when you've finished cumming; the horniness suddenly goes and you feel relaxed, even slightly sleepy. That's possibly why j/o last thing at night before going to sleep is popular. This change is caused by hormones released into your blood as you cum. In the same way as just about any other hormone, the liver also starts work to remove those hormones and, when it has done so, the effect wears off.
So I think everyone experiences this but for me, I would not call the feeling being "depressed" more "relaxed". People's experiences of it do seem to vary, though. For those who have picked up some guilt about masturbating this period is when you'd usually feel it. For anyone feeling guilty, though, it would help to talk here about it as there are some common misconceptions.
So I think don't worry if you aren't bursting with energy immediately after cumming. If it's last thing at night just go to sleep and if it's any other time just rest for a few minutes and enjoy the sense of relaxation, then start thinking about what to do next.
teen110
May 29th, 2020, 01:11 PM
don’t worry about it. it’s that guilt feeling after post nut so it’s ipnormal, but shouldn’t happen too often. it will go away.
InternetTeen
May 29th, 2020, 03:58 PM
I had that for a few weeks when I first discovered but it went away.
ObidomKenobi
May 29th, 2020, 10:38 PM
Yea it’ll go away . Just remember to enjoy yourself !
Kraken
May 29th, 2020, 11:13 PM
Nope I don’t feel that way at all. I feel relaxed and nice.
Falcons_11
May 30th, 2020, 10:14 AM
Nope I don’t feel that way at all. I feel relaxed and nice.
That's how I feel too. I've never had a feeling of depression or guilt have jerking off. It's usually pleasant and relaxing feelings.
Diable rouge
May 30th, 2020, 10:04 PM
Hemes explained it well.
It happens for most guys. How you feel it personally can be different from others.
Feeling guilty is also common, but usually this feeling disappers once you have wanked a few times. It is normal to wank, there is no reason to feel guilty.
Dynamite_Pickle
May 30th, 2020, 11:43 PM
I got curious about this too like a year ago and was looking it up because just randomly my friends had said the same thing happened to them. It's like an anti-attachment thing I guess. After you jizz it's a feeling of disinterest (in your partner) but since there's no partner when your wanking it feels more like depression. I guess it has something to do with evolution in terms of getting men less involved and more "spreading his seed." I hate that phrase but makes sense here lol
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