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ieric
April 5th, 2014, 06:57 PM
I just feel hopeless. I need someone I feel ugly, fat, unnatractive. I get called a gay and a fag all of the time. People always tell me I look like a girl because my eyelashes are long and I just don't know what to do u feel like giving up soon I want to die

Bmble_B
April 5th, 2014, 06:58 PM
Please don't give up, theres alot of people (like myself) that are willing to help and talk you through this.

DeadEyes
April 5th, 2014, 07:25 PM
I just feel hopeless. I need someone I feel ugly, fat, unnatractive. I get called a gay and a fag all of the time. People always tell me I look like a girl because my eyelashes are long and I just don't know what to do u feel like giving up soon I want to die

Low self esteem my poor boy, don't let people bring you down, it's ok to feel like dying (feeling that way since I'm born) but you will be ok.
You seem to think you might be gay or bi, that doesn't make you a fag and I read you love singing then live your passion.

ksdnfkfr
April 6th, 2014, 02:06 AM
It's easy to focus on the people who are mean to you and disregard those who aren't. Everyone gets picked on one way or another. Some of the most successful and popular people have said they got picked on in school. No situation like that is permanent.

myfoodisnotshared
April 13th, 2014, 10:03 AM
Homophobic pricks aren't attractive, they're a waste of space. Don't give up because a bunch of people who aren't your friends feel the obscure need to point out that you're not a carbon copy of them - you're what matters, who you are, not them.

I know what it's like to feel you have nobody, I get that all the time. It's an ache to just have someone, someone who cares about you and who you can care about. But however crappy it can feel to be alone now, it's a big wide world and there are so many nice people out there. What Ezra said is right, some of the biggest and most successful people admit they started out as the outcast, but they fought their way through it.

Ignore the people who call you gay. You can't tell that by someone's features, these people have probably never even met someone who's gay, how are they to know? And if you are LGBTQ - wonderful, join the party, that doesn't define you. Don't ever give up or pretend to be something you're not because someone else thinks that's the way you should be. The only way you'll ever be happy is if you are who you are.

P.S. They tease you for having long [I]eyelashes[I]?! That's, like, every girl's fantasy to have a guy with nice eyelashes, we're jealous, we think it's a good thing... wow, I can't believe what a stupid thing that is to say to someone. Really, my hat goes off to the stupidity of the insult.