After Orgasm

[SweetFang]

Ok... well someone who started this thread, (I'm not gonna say who), just masturbated. She wasn't horny, just bored and it seemed like something fun to do. Anyway, it lasted maybe 25 min then she just had an orgasm. It felt really good but after all the after effects were over she now feels more bored than before.

Do you ever feel bored or depressed and restless after you orgasm? If so, what to you do to get over it? I'm on VT but there is nothing new to read. :(

Thanks for any input!

T

[ScottishCanary]

Someone must be bored!! :) Though I share your thoughts on nothing good to read!

When I masturbate, I generally do it to relieve 'tension' and generally feel as if the tension has been relieved. Wouldn't say I feel bored or depressed just satisfied :)

[Tatii99]

If you're still bored, then do it again lol
I always feel satisfied, but not bored or depressed.

[ninja789]

if i am very tired i can get a little depressed after yeah
not bored though

[Pensive]

Sounds like a certain someone just had fun :P

I suppose it depends what you were thinking about that made you cum.

For me I feel depressed every time, but only because I'm lonely

[SweetFang]

Sounds like a certain someone just had fun :P


Do you know who the certain someone is?? If so, let me know. Maybe she can help.

Tatii99 - I have no desire to do it again and I know from experience that trying just makes it worse 95% of the time.

Ninja - I am always tired. Maybe thats part of it.

It's probably nothing but it has happened 3 times before. Im probably just in a stage or something. It really sucks though.

T

[ImAurora]

Yeah it might be tiredness. I felt kind of guilty after I first did it, but I wouldn't say I've ever felt depressed about it.

[KaraaaHope]

I feel guilty sometimes. I don't know why it happens, but it never lasts long after. Just maybe for a few minutes after I'm finished. Having an orgasm (especially stronger ones) affects almost everything in your body so really your body is probably just confused about what/how to feel for those few moments after you've finished. Think about all the chemicals released and processed by your brain/body during and after - yeah, I can see why you feel so many things after.

I don't ever feel bored though =}

[SweetFang]

Just to make it clear, I dont mean that you feel bored or restless or depressed BECAUSE you masturbated or had an orgasm. It more like an empty feeling. It felt great and your not gonna stop doing it but it just wasnt as satisfying as you wanted.

[Luminous]

No, not really. Sometimes just more tired and like I have less energy but not really depressed or empty or whatever else.

[shelby_caligurl_2000]

That's why you have a couple guy friends that are always down to help you out ;) . Haha but seriously though I know how you feel that happens to be every once in a while. If I'm like at home sick from school and I masturbate it makes me feel kinda let down after its over.

[sweet_girl24au]

I guess I only ever felt kinda disappointed if it wasn't as good as I wanted it to be, but that doesn't realy happen anymore.

[Lisa R]

I don't feel depressed or bored but i do feel relaxed and content. and satisfied after i orgasm .
Sometimes i may feel a little guilty.

[clairey]

I think it's just hormone levels changing quickly and should hopefully be nothing to worry about.

[KellyNC]

I wouldn't ever say depressed, but I've gotten the empty feeling from time to time too, the reasons can vary. Sometimes it's after I accidentally pushed myself over before I wanted, sometimes I guess I was just counting on something even more, maybe even impossibly filling, and sometimes I think it's almost a matter of having gone into not fully horny and it feeling like I've done the same thing, at the same place, at about the same time so often that I almost become numb to the pleasure. I used to sometimes feel a little guilt here and then, but it's honestly been years since I can say that's happened.

[workingatperfect]

I'm like permanently bored so yes, this does happen to me a lot. I finish, I have nothing to do again and I get bored which sometimes (ok, 95% of the time) makes me grumpy. To get over it, I do what I would if I was bored after any other normal activity... Find something else to entertain myself with.

[Sminkelaks]

It really depends. I'm often horny after bedtime, and when I'm done masturbating I'm just to tired to be bored or anything, and just fall asleep. If I masturbate in the middle of the day, I just feel relaxed. Some times bored, but then I just watch some tv or something. Never depressed or guilty. :)

[Jenni.]

I've read that some of you and sometimes even me feel a bit guilty after an orgasm but why is that?

[KaraaaHope]

I've read that some of you and sometimes even me feel a bit guilty after an orgasm but why is that?

Sometimes I wonder if I confuse guilt with other emotions after I'm done. I'm pretty sure it's guilt, but like I said before there are so many chemicals and responses to orgasms that your body is probably just as confused about what's going on...and that's why you feel so different each time. I don't know though. I just feel like that' a big part of it. :confused:

[TinyDancer]

I don't feel guilty maybe just a little worn out but my stress level goes way down for a while.

[SouthernGirl]

i feel good afterwards.... lol depressed... lol eeeehhh

[Elysium]

OP's banned. :locked: