Trading Pics

[mangasandyoutube]

Okay so, I’m struggling with something. I have a few online friends that I’ve trade d, uh, nudes with, and I enjoy it! But for some reason I have this weird feeling afterwards... I don’t know if it’s fear, or guilt, or excitement, or what it is, but... is this something I should stop doing? Is it morally wrong, or should I even worry?

[aarondayy]

Okay so, I’m struggling with something. I have a few online friends that I’ve trade d, uh, nudes with, and I enjoy it! But for some reason I have this weird feeling afterwards... I don’t know if it’s fear, or guilt, or excitement, or what it is, but... is this something I should stop doing? Is it morally wrong, or should I even worry?

I get the same feeling afterwards as well and I believe it is just awkwardness as you go from trading pics back to a normal conversation. It is up to you to decide whether its morally wrong, but there is nothing to worry about and you should only stop if you think it is best :)

[Spooky_Eli]

I get the same feeling afterwards as well and I believe it is just awkwardness as you go from trading pics back to a normal conversation. It is up to you to decide whether its morally wrong, but there is nothing to worry about and you should only stop if you think it is best :)

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[ska8er]

I get the same feeling afterwards as well and I believe it is just awkwardness as you go from trading pics back to a normal conversation. It is up to you to decide whether its morally wrong, but there is nothing to worry about and you should only stop if you think it is best :)

I wouldn't call it morally wrong. Morally wrong takes
in murder-assault. It is more considered "wrong" BUT
there is a fine line with someone who sends and gets
nude photos with age. Who really knows who is the
receiver of the photos and what they r going to do
with them. It is more of a Legal wrong than a Moral
one. To say Don't worry about it should not b brushed
off just for the fun of it. I would say NO if afterwards u
have second thoughts of sending nude photos.

[Falcons_11]

It's not a good idea to trade nude pics online even if you know the recipients. Once your nude pics are out there you lose control of them. They might wind up in the wrong hands and you might suffer unwanted consequences later on. It isn't worth the risks. If you are under 18, you are engaging in child porn. Not good!

[jamie_n5]

I have traded with guys for years. I feel no guilt. But I have to know and trust someone very much before I do it.

[aarondayy]

I wouldn't call it morally wrong. Morally wrong takes
in murder-assault. It is more considered "wrong" BUT
there is a fine line with someone who sends and gets
nude photos with age. Who really knows who is the
receiver of the photos and what they r going to do
with them. It is more of a Legal wrong than a Moral
one. To say Don't worry about it should not b brushed
off just for the fun of it. I would say NO if afterwards u
have second thoughts of sending nude photos.

I fully agree with you, I mentioned that it is only "morally wrong" if he decides that himself, going back to his question. I also agree that it is very dangerous and you should only trade explicit pictures to people you know and fully trust. I think that feeling afterwards he was talking about wasn't second guessing, but it was more awkwardness as they try to return to normal conversation. When I mentioned that he "shouldn't worry" was simply to reassure him.

[kro814]

I see this question has come up a few times on VT. Personally, I would never send out pictures. But, at least in the USA, if a minor sends nude pictures it could be considered child pornography. Even if that minor is sending their own pictures.

[Chris298]

I think it’s totally normal to have those feelings... I totally get it, I’ve done it a few times myself, and I mean, it’s a lot of things, exciting, and kind of scary because you are putting yourself out there and once you send it there is no getting it back... and of course you should only trade pics if you want to, no one should make you feel like you are forced to do it... and even though it’s impossible to know exactly who someone is on the internet, definitely be suspicious if someone just appears out of nowhere and wants pics... and probably the best advice, make sure that you don’t have pics with your face AND genitals in the same pic... don’t put your face in any pic you wouldn’t want anybody to potentially see

[ilc.69]

Okay so, I’m struggling with something. I have a few online friends that I’ve trade d, uh, nudes with, and I enjoy it! But for some reason I have this weird feeling afterwards... I don’t know if it’s fear, or guilt, or excitement, or what it is, but... is this something I should stop doing? Is it morally wrong, or should I even worry?

girl, there aint nothing wrong with it. It’s more common than we admit to, and it’s fun and hot, so fuck it

[ska8er]

I fully agree with you, I mentioned that it is only "morally wrong" if he decides that himself, going back to his question. I also agree that it is very dangerous and you should only trade explicit pictures to people you know and fully trust. I think that feeling afterwards he was talking about wasn't second guessing, but it was more awkwardness as they try to return to normal conversation. When I mentioned that he "shouldn't worry" was simply to reassure him.

If u know the person on the other side well and interacted
for a good period of time u should know quite a bit about
them. If u can have a good conversation u shouldn't feel
awkward about continuing with it after u do something
that u may have second thoughts over. I still say NO in
sending pics cause do u really know who is on the other
side. If u interacted for quite some time ur conscience
should kick in and tell u if it is safe to show ur all.

[Hermes]

Bear in mind there are some hazards. The person who you trust today and send pictures to can become your enemy in the future. Heard of revenge porn? See the Wikipedia article on it (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Revenge_porn) and watch this TEDx talk (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iVHZS1qgtrA) too. Remember that when that lawyer says they have got pictures taken down that means from the big and obvious places, i.e. the social media sites and the search engines. Even after that someone will still have a copy and they could resurface again. Perhaps the future is that people can be more brash about naked pics of them being in the public domain and it doesn't affect employment etc. but that future is not here yet.

Then, bear in mind if you're underage you could be charged with making child porn. The public interest test may prevent prosecution in some cases but that depends on someone's discretion.

[JHardy9]

ive done it a bunch of times, never felt fear or guilty after. if youre not comfortable doing it dont do it and if you send one make sure no one can see your face

[tomhero]

I’ve done it too, only regretted it once. I always try to be 99.9% sure about the other person, so that he’s not a faker or something else. If there are any struggles, I don’t do it.

[Matt 04]

Remember the Internet is forever. There have been cases near me of guys who have blackmailed kids who have sent them naked pics. They tell them jack or have sex on cam or meet me for sex or I will send the pics to parents, friends or your school.

[tomhero]

Remember the Internet is forever. There have been cases near me of guys who have blackmailed kids who have sent them naked pics. They tell them jack or have sex on cam or meet me for sex or I will send the pics to parents, friends or your school.

Yeah that happened to a classmate once. But the police stopped it before damage was done. But you’re right, that’s definitely a case that could occur.

[Connordude]

I have too but I get the guilt: you committed a crime with the added risk of someone sharing your pics or claiming they didn’t want them / you were trying to do something inappropriate

[Collins1]

I have years ago but regret it now. Just imagine if someone found out about it and managed to get hold of one of the pics... Stick to watching porn!

[Diable rouge]

There are many risks involved. Avoid it. Even with you loved one, because in the future they maybe won't love you and do "revenge porn" by uploading these pictures online.

[ska8er]

There are many risks involved. Avoid it. Even with you loved one, because in the future they maybe won't love you and do "revenge porn" by uploading these pictures online.

That's good advice.

[Lionsden04]

It’s not something I would recommend you never know what might happen to them

[teeeem]

I've trading a ton of pics before but its all out of fun and curiosity no harm..as long as you trust the person well enough. I never really had any feelings because alotta times we would talk about girls
I think its pretty normal thing to do

[Vicboy2707]

I do it all the time love to see others and to compare

[MisterMister2000]

I’ve done it and sometimes feel weird afterwards. Moreso it’s because the other person flakes off, goes awol, gets really weird, or simply deletes or blocks. I agree it is fun to compare after you’re comfortable. Just need to be careful.

[pauly]

I make a point of never trading pictures or videos of any kind. It may sometimes seem impolite or unfriendly but it's the safest way to be online.

[Boredgoose]

If it makes you feel uncomfortable, then stop. Don't feel pressured to send anything you don't want to. That being said, it can be a fun and affirming experience if you trust the person you're sending them to. Just be safe out there :)