How do you go about masturbating while in dorms?

[Kory123]

This summer I am attending a summer camp where the dorms will be 2 boys in a room and a community shower to be shared. How do I go about doing my own business for the next few months? This sounds like a college scenario so what about then? What am I supposed to do, or what is normal...

[Chris298]

Well, there are a couple of ways to go about it... if you have any sense of privacy in the bathroom you could do it in there... another option would be to discreetly take some tissues and take care of business in bed underneath your blanket, just kinda bend your knees to make a little tent to give yourself some room to work with. Another option, depending on the relationship you have with your roommate, you could discuss making some private time to wank or do it while you are both in the room if you are both cool with it... just remember that there is like a 99.9999% chance that he is going through exactly the same thing that you are, you aren’t alone!

[TheMatrix]

Something I'm be qualified to answer, I just graduated in the spring :-)

It's always awkward, you're forced to live with someone you don't know super well (at first anyway). What I did was try to guess their schedules (living in a triple adds more difficulty) and plan around it.
Sometimes that doesn't work out, or maybe he doesn't go to class. I may have just used a stall in the shared bathroom and tried to be quiet... :jester:

EDIT: just wanna add -- yes, awkward incidents do happen. I have mis-predicted when my roommates wouldn't be around and they walked in... luckily I was always fast enough to throw a blanket over myself as soon as I heard the key in the lock. I think my facial expression gave away what I was doing, though, but it was never brought up soooo

[SouthernDude]

You could do it under a blanket once they're asleep. Or like Chris said arrange times to do it

[Kory123]

You could do it under a blanket once they're asleep. Or like Chris said arrange times to do it

Well, there are a couple of ways to go about it... if you have any sense of privacy in the bathroom you could do it in there... another option would be to discreetly take some tissues and take care of business in bed underneath your blanket, just kinda bend your knees to make a little tent to give yourself some room to work with. Another option, depending on the relationship you have with your roommate, you could discuss making some private time to wank or do it while you are both in the room if you are both cool with it... just remember that there is like a 99.9999% chance that he is going through exactly the same thing that you are, you aren’t alone!

Something I'm be qualified to answer, I just graduated in the spring :-)

It's always awkward, you're forced to live with someone you don't know super well (at first anyway). What I did was try to guess their schedules (living in a triple adds more difficulty) and plan around it.
Sometimes that doesn't work out, or maybe he doesn't go to class. I may have just used a stall in the shared bathroom and tried to be quiet... :jester:

EDIT: just wanna add -- yes, awkward incidents do happen. I have mis-predicted when my roommates wouldn't be around and they walked in... luckily I was always fast enough to throw a blanket over myself as soon as I heard the key in the lock. I think my facial expression gave away what I was doing, though, but it was never brought up soooo

When the time comes, I’ll try what you guys suggested. It’s just really funny though imagining if my dorm-mate was going at it in the dark while I’m on the other side of the room well aware of what’s going on. The thought of that just makes me cackle :P:D

[Chris298]

When the time comes, I’ll try what you guys suggested. It’s just really funny though imagining if my dorm-mate was going at it in the dark while I’m on the other side of the room well aware of what’s going on. The thought of that just makes me cackle :P:D

The good thing about that would be that it would be a perfect icebreaker... it would either open the door for you to have a conversation with him about how to handle stuff, or at the very least it lets you do the same as him... like I said, don’t feel too awkward about stuff, he is going through the exact same thing you are

[ska8er]

The good thing about that would be that it would be a perfect icebreaker... it would either open the door for you to have a conversation with him about how to handle stuff, or at the very least it lets you do the same as him... like I said, don’t feel to awkward about stuff

How to handle stuff is a very good "icebreaker". :);)
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Chris gave very good advice here. All options
r ways to go about it. I was an exchange student
for six months and went to a boarding school and
shared a room with two other Dudes. It was at the
height of my starting puberty and I was horny as
hell. We had no privacy. I just came out and asked
them how did they go about it and they were cool
enough to let us each do our business either with
each other in the room or separately. U also have
to judge at first what kind of personality ur room
mate is. Is he liberal or conservative with things.
He may b wild and join u or he will take it as an
offense. Once u get to know ur roommate you
just ask him how he goes about it. If he is cool
with it then u will have no prob. As Chris said he
is going through the same with u as a stranger
at first.

double posts merged-Atlantis

[jamie_n5]

Well if they have a toilet in a stall that would be a good place. If you can be by yourself in a sheltered area outside where no one can see you that will work. Also if you have enough courage you could just go ahead and do it in your room under the covers or in the open if you dare. Who knows your roommate might even join you. Just be creative.

[mick01]

I kinda knew my new roommate and I jokingly told him I had a secret he needed to know about and that it was I liked to jerk off. He said he had the same secret. So to break the ice we just decided to jerk off together. After that, things got pretty comfortable.

[Matt 04]

I went to camp with 7 other guys in the room; i jacked in a bathroom stall or at night i would turn to the side and jack and have a sock to cum into. It was pretty dark in the room at night

[Gazebo]

You can do it at any time if you’re brave enough.

To give you a real answer though, just wait for times when your dorm mates are not in the room and then just have at it. There should be ample opportunities to be able to do this

[Hermes]

The closest relevant experience I have was camping in the scouts. Here everyone jacked off inside his own sleeping bag last thing at night before sleeping. No-one was showing anything but likewise no-one was trying to pretend he wasn't doing it.

What may be different about that compared to your summer camp is that we knew each other before going camping and there was also a range of ages so that when I joined and then went to the first camp I just joined in what was obviously an already established routine amonst those older than me.

Other than that, as people have said, he will be thinking the same thing. If you don't want to talk about it and arrange "private time" in the room the other option is to wait until he appears to be asleep. If he actually is asleep then you get to j/o disturbed. If he isn't actually asleep he may do one of three things:

1. Keep quiet so as not to spoil your fun.
2. Join in.
3. Complain.

Of these I think the last is the least likely and if that were to happen you just say "Sorry, I though you were asleep".

[Boredgoose]

As someone who's shared a room a lot, doing it in the bathroom/shower is the best option

[citycanuck]

Well, there are a couple of ways to go about it... if you have any sense of privacy in the bathroom you could do it in there... another option would be to discreetly take some tissues and take care of business in bed underneath your blanket, just kinda bend your knees to make a little tent to give yourself some room to work with. Another option, depending on the relationship you have with your roommate, you could discuss making some private time to wank or do it while you are both in the room if you are both cool with it... just remember that there is like a 99.9999% chance that he is going through exactly the same thing that you are, you aren’t alone!

I think this is good advice, it depends on how open you wanna be about it I guess. But for sure your roommate is thinking the same thing.

[musicalguy]

When i went to camp i jerked off by just jerking under the sheets in the dark when almost everyone is asleep so you could try that

[Jameson9]

I agree with what a lot of people have said. Just talk to your roommate about it, or try to find some privacy for a few minutes so u can spank one out

[gromit]

If your sharing with just one other guy, be upfront & have the talk first off.

[kyle2003]

I've had a lot of experience in this type of situation with scouts and sports camps. Most places have doors on the toilets even if the showers are open, so I have done it there. When camping, I have just snuck off into the woods at night and jerked off. And you can always wait until your roommate goes to sleep and jerk under the sheets. Once time, I woke up in the middle of the night and heard my roommate jerking and we end up doing it together.

[Dynamite_Pickle]

Plenty of good advice already. But if you don't want to have to sneak around maybe after you know your roommate for a few days, just very casually be like "I'm gonna go jerk off brb" and head to the bathroom or something. Just see how he responds? If he's all weird about it or grossed out then keep it to yourself and don't bring it up anymore just go about your business in private. But if he's cool or makes jokes or something then maybe it'll be an ice breaker and you can figure out how to not have to sneak around or be uptight. It's not like you both don't do it anyway. I share a room and I think it'd be even more obvious trying to hide the fact that you do it. Like going to bathroom for 10 minutes 3x a day is pretty obvious lol.

[Falcons_11]

Plenty of good advice already. But if you don't want to have to sneak around maybe after you know your roommate for a few days, just very casually be like "I'm gonna go jerk off brb" and head to the bathroom or something. Just see how he responds? If he's all weird about it or grossed out then keep it to yourself and don't bring it up anymore just go about your business in private. But if he's cool or makes jokes or something then maybe it'll be an ice breaker and you can figure out how to not have to sneak around or be uptight. It's not like you both don't do it anyway. I share a room and I think it'd be even more obvious trying to hide the fact that you do it. Like going to bathroom for 10 minutes 3x a day is pretty obvious lol.

I think that this makes good sense. You can feel our your roommate and see if he is fine with jerking off with him present in the room so you don't have to try sneaking around to do it. If he might be thinking the same as you and if he's cool he will feel relieved to know that you are cool with him jerking off with you in the room.

[Jeff1857]

Depends on the roommate. I agree with a lot of the stuff said here. I have had roommates where we both did it at night in bed but acted like we did not or when the other was not there and also roommates where we either talked about it or just were fine doing it when the other was in the room or together. You will know once you get to know them but all guys are figuring it out as well.

[Allstar49]

This year was my first in college. At first I would only masturbate in the bathrooms on the toilet and then go shower. From what I could tell, ie other dudes with erections going into the showers, I don’t think I was the only one doing that. I only had one roommate in my room so I started just waiting until he left and doing it then. By the the time the year was over we were comfortable enough with each other to give the other space. I would let him and his gf have the room in the evening, and he would let me have it in the afternoon. You kinda just figure out a system that works for you and stick with it. Thankfully since I’m older now I’m not always so horny so I can go days or a couple weeks without jacking and be fine.