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[Brightwolf]

Can dreams mean anything about your sexuallity and things like that? Because I had a dream last night where I was jerking off with my best friend…I don't know if this means I like him or what. But I'm straight…right? I'm just so confused. Please help.

[deregisterme]

Can dreams mean anything about your sexuallity and things like that? Because I had a dream last night where I was jerking off with my best friend…I don't know if this means I like him or what. But I'm straight…right? I'm just so confused. Please help.

We sometimes read very deeply in to our dreams. They can have deep rooted meanings. It could also just be a natural curiosity, or thought that just happened to be on your mind at the time. I'd say most of us have had sexual dreams of some sort of another, so U are OK

[Swagging god]

Dreams are subconscious. Therefore, they are beyond your control, just because u dreamed it doesn't mean that is how u truly feel. As long as you mentally and physically are attracted to girls, while u are awake, you can be classified as straight. No worries, bro!

[Coolguy10890]

Yeah don't worry

[hermanthefish]

I had a similar experience to this. As far as I know, I am straight. ( I have a gf of almost a year). Even though, I still had a wet dream once involving a friend and my male cousin. I don't really want to do anything with either of them, but I still dreamed it. So no, that does not make you gay. As long As you still like girls, you are straight. Don't worry about it

[jacobjb10]

You can't control your dreams, your just curious and wondering what it would be like. it doesn't make you gay so don't worry. :)

[Brightwolf]

I had a similar experience to this. As far as I know, I am straight. ( I have a gf of almost a year). Even though, I still had a wet dream once involving a friend and my male cousin. I don't really want to do anything with either of them, but I still dreamed it. So no, that does not make you gay. As long As you still like girls, you are straight. Don't worry about it

Thanks. The thing is; I think I want to experiment with him…

[hermanthefish]

Thanks. The thing is; I think I want to experiment with him…

In that case, this is most likely the reason for the dream. I think you should gauge the situation, but if your getting, "I want to experiment" vibes from him, go for it! That's a very normal thing for teens to do. You can maybe try dropping subtle hints or try bringing up masturbation or sex or experimenting, and see what happens.

[Brightwolf]

In that case, this is most likely the reason for the dream. I think you should gauge the situation, but if your getting, "I want to experiment" vibes from him, go for it! That's a very normal thing for teens to do. You can maybe try dropping subtle hints or try bringing up masturbation or sex or experimenting, and see what happens.

Well, he sometimes brings up masturbation. But in a joking way. And I don't think he'd go for it. He'd probably hate me for just bring it up; let alone asking him.

[Andrew2499]

Well, he sometimes brings up masturbation. But in a joking way. And I don't think he'd go for it. He'd probably hate me for just bring it up; let alone asking him.

Well maybe he just makes it sound like he's joking but he really wants to...I have done that. And I have also had dreams about boys but just because you have a dream or even jerk with him doesnt make you gay, its just curiousness.

[ksdnfkfr]

This is a post quote I read that someone has in their sig.

"Dreams are completely meaningless. Once I had a wet dream that I was fucking a pig"

[hermanthefish]

Well, he sometimes brings up masturbation. But in a joking way. And I don't think he'd go for it. He'd probably hate me for just bring it up; let alone asking him.

well you know him best. so just take it step by step and see how he's feeling. it might happen, it might not, and either way is fine

[FaitoDayo]

Story time! So, one time, I had this dream where it was kind of like yours. Where my friend (that never actually really thought I was a friend) did really weird things with me. Apparently, every time, those dreams kind of seem animated, and you know what I mean by that. But I know I'm not gay, as I truly like this girl. But I have all these wild fantasies sometimes. I know one of my friends at school write those types of stories in class and during lunch. So long story short, it depends.

[rexmagnus]

Don't worry too much about it.

[The captain]

don't worry dude....that's right

[Landbuscus97]

Your dreams are your subconscious talking to you, but it wouldn't worry about that dream since your in the greatest years of your life (yay...) you will probably be hyper sexual, maybe even slutty in your dreams, this doesn't reflect your personality, just your desires.

[Catholic Guy]

I've had dreams about guys before and I know I'm not straight, perhaps you just want to try it and that's why you are dreaming about it, I would recommend doing something about the dream if you think he would be up for it and then you will know how you really feel

[From Chris]

Can dreams mean anything about your sexuallity and things like that? Because I had a dream last night where I was jerking off with my best friend…I don't know if this means I like him or what. But I'm straight…right? I'm just so confused. Please help.

I don't think a dream means your sexuality. Unless you know you are sexually and or romantically attracted to boys, i wouldn't worry about being gay or anything. :) I think you're just curious, as are most boys. Hope this helps!

-Chris <3

[GoWA_Vet]

if you want to experiment with him by all means go for it!

[BreakFall]

Dreams are pieces of your consciousness so its possible they are serious or maybe just imagination who knowz

[woozie]

It could mean something, but it doesn't have to...I once had a dream where I was a serious drug addict and yet I don't do any drugs whatsoever. I can't really talk about sexual dreams, cause I'm probably bisexual.

What I was trying to say is you can't really control your dreams (unless lucid dreaming or whatever they call it), so I wouldn't worry.

[GeordieLordie]

I don't think you need to worry, dreams can always just be so random, if you start thinking about it during the day when you are fully awake then yeah you might have a desire to experiment with him, and that's perfectly normal, too! :)

[tdawhg99]

It means you're curious, or trust him. you shouldnt be ashamed. masturbating with a friend actually may strengthen your relationship. when me and my friend started masturbating together, it showed that we felt comfortable around eachother, even in intimate moments. it doesn't make you gay at all. I'm straight, and my friend and i give eachother handjobs sometimes. its kinda like bromance. hahaha.

[Menzis]

Yeah I too have had really weird dreams, that even include family and I HATE incest... so it's not something you truly want or think.

[Snydergate]

I'm straight have the weirdest sexual dreams all the time, sometimes its straight, sometimes its gay. My first wetdream, I had sex with a mermaid. Weird, but totally awesome. I tend to have dreams that are really out there. My most recent wet dream was two guys having sex. It doesnt bother me, it shouldnt bother you

[Jtyler]

Probably not, I've had some messed up dreams and I don't feel different

[Cloud_Strife]

Can dreams mean anything about your sexuallity and things like that? Because I had a dream last night where I was jerking off with my best friend…I don't know if this means I like him or what. But I'm straight…right? I'm just so confused. Please help.

It's pretty normal and a common occurrence. If you read about the theories on sexuality, by and large the majority of the population falls within the spectrum between those who identify as purely heterosexual and those who see themselves as purely homosexual. Whether subconsciously or otherwise, there is an element they identify in themselves which suggest this. (It's kind of like black and white, with the grey in between - most people have some shade of grey.)

Sleep is basically where your subconscious thoughts are more free to reign - so it wouldn't be surprising if some of these thoughts appeared in your dreams at all. Doesn't mean that you would necessarily like to do anything with your mate, like someone else has said. It just means you had a dream about that, that's all! :)

Within the years of puberty, hormones run rampant anyway. It's not surprising if there are moments where you might have some 'crush' on someone, short-lived or not of the same or opposite sex. When things settle down a bit, things will become far clearer. I'd not worry about it at all, it really does happen to a lot of people.

I'm straight have the weirdest sexual dreams all the time, sometimes its straight, sometimes its gay. My first wetdream, I had sex with a mermaid. Weird, but totally awesome. I tend to have dreams that are really out there.

Haha! I had a similar dream once! ;)

[male_greece]

Dreams don't mean much, it's just ur subconscious, u may have thought of jerking off w/ ur friend in the past

[henry5331]

Can dreams mean anything about your sexuallity and things like that? Because I had a dream last night where I was jerking off with my best friend…I don't know if this means I like him or what. But I'm straight…right? I'm just so confused. Please help.

I doubt it means you're gay or straight or bi or anything. If it means anything, it's probably that you're young and horny. But curiosity about other guys is also pretty natural so maybe that could be it too.