Normal for a 16 Year old Straight Boy?

[heidenreich]

Okkk so, recently I've had this massive urge to do everything with guys and I can't stop watching Gay Porn, is this normal or am I like, you know, switching teams per say. I don't want a relationship with a guy but I want to try things with other guys, like the whole 9 yards minus the making out. Any help thanked!!!!! :D

[deregisterme]

Okkk so, recently I've had this massive urge to do everything with guys and I can't stop watching Gay Porn, is this normal or am I like, you know, switching teams per say. I don't want a relationship with a guy but I want to try things with other guys, like the whole 9 yards minus the making out. Any help thanked!!!!! :D

It is just your hormones going crazy and you wanting to learn about things. t may just be a phase

[backjruton]

It depends how you feel about girls too?

I'll say the kind of thing Ren would seeing as she hasn't been on for the past week.
Maybe you're a bisexual heteromantic (http://www.asexuality.org/wiki/index.php?title=Heteroromantic) (that still sounds weird to me) if you think of guys and girls sexually but only want a relationship with a girl

I think I'm definitely a homosexual biromantic/aromantic :kitty: that sounds strange to me too

[Brightwolf]

Okkk so, recently I've had this massive urge to do everything with guys and I can't stop watching Gay Porn, is this normal or am I like, you know, switching teams per say. I don't want a relationship with a guy but I want to try things with other guys, like the whole 9 yards minus the making out. Any help thanked!!!!! :D

Normal. Honestly I want to experiment with my best friend. And I'm str8.

[Troy35216]

according to the definition of gay and straight, you are either gay or bi. are you normal? sure cuz there's nothing abnormal about being gay, bi, or straight.

het·er·o·sex·u·al

adjective
adjective: heterosexual
1. (of a person) sexually attracted to people of the opposite sex.

ho·mo·sex·u·al
ˌhōməˈsekSHo͞oəl/
adjective
adjective: homosexual
1. (of a person) sexually attracted to people of one's own sex.
involving or characterized by sexual attraction between people of the same sex.
"homosexual desire"

noun: homosexual; plural noun: homosexuals
1. a person who is sexually attracted to people of their own sex.

[backjruton]

You need to think of if the "straight" is sexual/romantic attraction or both though. I don't really know, personally I hate when people call themselves straight yet want to experiment with people because it just sounds to me like being gay/lesbian is still an issue when even in the UK gay marriage is allowed now so there's nothing wrong with it. I think saying you're bi is better (not that I am anymore because I with the help of some friends decided what I'm better classed as after it actually caused me stressy feelings) so then you're open to anything :D or as a female friend in school told me when I first told her I was bi, "Greedy" is a better term :kitty:

I might be getting the wrong end of the stick here, I've really confused myself recently trying to learn more about autistic traits to see why some of my problems happen; maybe it is just a phase of puberty, I don't know, but it's not something I can myself say I've experienced so I can't really say much about it. I've been watching gay porn ever since I was 10 or 11 and nothing else so I myself would be worried and asking questions if I started to watch straight, but funnily enough in reality whenever I do watch straight I just suddenly get the urge to pee for some reason :P :eek:

according to the definition of gay and straight, you are either gay or bi. are you normal? sure cuz there's nothing abnormal about being gay, bi, or straight.


And as the very confusing above post I don't properly understand says: It is normal to be gay or bi because you're born that way, which is another debatable point sadly as not many people consider me "normal". :D There isn't anything wrong with it, but I personally wouldn't label yourself anyway until you're sure.. my friends made me sure, because I know the feelings I've got just by looking at and talking to some of them. and if anything my more recent experiences with my mum (who I don't like because of her annoying attitude sometimes) and the girls in college (my friend has really big boobs, that's one of the things I hate most about her) have actually put me off girls even more than I was already before school ended as I almost had a girlfriend... that's why I say "biromantic", because I liked these 2 girls enough to almost go out with them but not in a properly sexual way, they were some of the nicer and better looking though :D; but if you're still in the phase of wanting to experiment with guys and saying you're straight, you should just say you're bi and change your mind when you're properly sure so it doesn't cause as much confusion for you or other people. :whoops:

[Troy35216]

I know i can come across as a jerk and i sincerely don't mean to. I just don't understand how there are like a thousand posts from guys who want to suck dick but none of them are gay. or even bi. i can see why people are afraid to admit being gay or bi cuz i used to be that way myself. that didn't make me straight it made me in denial. what i DON'T understand are all the people telling them, "no you aren't gay. you are still straight. you just have hormones. it's only gay if there is emotional attachment". wtf? guys who have sex with women just to get their rocks off, with no emotional attachment, are still straight. they are just players. lol. emotional attachment doesn't have anything to do with being gay or straight it has to do with whether or not you are in love or just horny. I have no emotional attachment to the gay porn i jack off to but that doesn't mean i'm not gay.

it isn't that hard:
straight = sexually attracted to opposite gender
gay = sexually attracted to same gender.
bi = sexually attracted to both genders.

i admit that "curious" exists but if you're still claiming you're just "curious" after satisfying your curiosity wither virtually or IRL than you are not curious you are gay/bi in denial.

Let the Troy bashing begin lol

[Andrew2499]

I have felt this way too. I don't think I would make out with a guy. And i dont want to date one either. I think its just curiousness and hormones

[ksdnfkfr]

Hormones, curiosity and fantasizing.

[pjones]

why can't we allow others to explore and experiment without defining them?

[Bmble_B]

Your hormones are going nuts (hehe, I made a pun :P ) so I wouldn't worry about it. But at the same time, don't let your curiosity get the best of you.

[FaitoDayo]

I'm surprised this is appropriate...?

[NeuroTiger]

Hormonal pressure!

[phuckphace]

I know i can come across as a jerk and i sincerely don't mean to. I just don't understand how there are like a thousand posts from guys who want to suck dick but none of them are gay. or even bi. i can see why people are afraid to admit being gay or bi cuz i used to be that way myself. that didn't make me straight it made me in denial. what i DON'T understand are all the people telling them, "no you aren't gay. you are still straight. you just have hormones. it's only gay if there is emotional attachment". wtf? guys who have sex with women just to get their rocks off, with no emotional attachment, are still straight. they are just players. lol. emotional attachment doesn't have anything to do with being gay or straight it has to do with whether or not you are in love or just horny. I have no emotional attachment to the gay porn i jack off to but that doesn't mean i'm not gay.

it isn't that hard:
straight = sexually attracted to opposite gender
gay = sexually attracted to same gender.
bi = sexually attracted to both genders.

i admit that "curious" exists but if you're still claiming you're just "curious" after satisfying your curiosity wither virtually or IRL than you are not curious you are gay/bi in denial.

Let the Troy bashing begin lol

I agree completely. gewd post.

[openminded-sama]

I experineced the same thing a couple of years before (I wasn't crazy about doing stuff with other boys but I used to watch a lot of gay porn). However now I don't feel that urge anymore and I only jerk to straight porn. I guess it was just a way to satisfy my curiosity and now I that I know what it is like I don't feel like watching gay sex anymore.

[jampandrada]

I say it's fine because i'm exactly the same way. I don't wanna have a relationship with a guy but i think it would be interesting to do stuff with one. It's probably just a phase.

[Ben101]

It depends how you feel about girls too?

I'll say the kind of thing Ren would seeing as she hasn't been on for the past week.
Maybe you're a bisexual heteromantic (http://www.asexuality.org/wiki/index.php?title=Heteroromantic) (that still sounds weird to me) if you think of guys and girls sexually but only want a relationship with a girl

I think I'm definitely a homosexual biromantic/aromantic :kitty: that sounds strange to me too

I totally agree with this!

[riverboy]

Maybe it's just hormones and it will amount to nothing or you are bi. It's up to you to decide what you want to do and what is comfortable in doing.

[From Chris]

Okkk so, recently I've had this massive urge to do everything with guys and I can't stop watching Gay Porn, is this normal or am I like, you know, switching teams per say. I don't want a relationship with a guy but I want to try things with other guys, like the whole 9 yards minus the making out. Any help thanked!!!!! :D

Personally i think this would be better in the teen sexuality section however i would say you could just be sexually curious! You're a teenager with raging hormones so i think any sexual activity could seem pleasing. Being gay would be sexually and or romantically attracted to men for i would say maybe around 2 years before you should consider putting that label on yourself. It's normal to be curious and to want to do things with other guys and doesn't make you gay! :) Hope this helps.

-Chris <3

[Landbuscus97]

I'd say you're straight if you truly don't have romantical feelings for guys and it's just sexual as you say. Lots of guys experiment, in fact I think its abnormal if you don't!

[The captain]

hormones are working extra time dude...so enjoy

[MechaSniper]

you want to experament. thats all . no need to worry

[curiousme]

Whoa, thats crazy im in the exact same situation its been like this for a while now though...

[Hey-Im-Connor]

u might be gay or bi, or u might just be horny and curious. it's normal either way

[Just Sayin]

Its very normal to want to try those things your not switching teams or anything dont worry about that

[Hermes]

... emotional attachment doesn't have anything to do with being gay or straight it has to do with whether or not you are in love or just horny. I have no emotional attachment to the gay porn i jack off to but that doesn't mean i'm not gay....

I think the point of considering emotional attraction is because the answer to the question "Who am I looking for as a life partner?" is much more important than the answer to the question "Who shall I have sex with just for the pleasure of it?"

For some people the answers to both may be equally obvious but for people who have a sexual attraction to both sexes the emotional attraction can be the determing factor in the life partner question.

[male_greece]

just hormoone thing, ur going through a phase nothing more, don't worry

[Canadian Dream]

Totally normal it's just curiosity. I feel the same need to experiment with other guys too, so no worries.

[DeletedAccount123]

Curiosity never hurt anyone, now is a good time to explore stuff you might be too embarrassed to later on.

[vtt18]

No, it's not normal for a straight guy because he's straight. It's perfectly normal if they're gay, bisexual or bi-curious.

[reiddec2]

you might be bi!

[curiousme]

Going through the exact same thing could never picture myself making out with a guy or being in a relationship or telling a guy I truly love him that would be fucked. But I would do anything else with a guy and really enjoy gay port hopefully it's just a stage and I'm not bi lol but if I am it's all good can't really do anything about it but hide it.

[Emerald Dream]

Going through the exact same thing could never picture myself making out with a guy or being in a relationship or telling a guy I truly love him that would be fucked. But I would do anything else with a guy and really enjoy gay port hopefully it's just a stage and I'm not bi lol but if I am it's all good can't really do anything about it but hide it.

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