Teasing and stuff…

[Brightwolf]

So…first off I'm 15. So today my friend and I were talking and the conversation led to talking about him and his girlfriend. So I said that is be forever alone jokingly and he told me that I wasn't alone; that I had my left-hand. Then he proceeded to question me on if that was why I stayed in the shower for a while at a youth retreat that we went to. So me, being a little bit surprised at the fact that he was actually questioning me about this just blushed and said "um…" so what should I do? Should I talk to him? I know that he's just joking and I wasn't hurt by it just…dumbfounded. Thanks!

[deregisterme]

So…first off I'm 15. So today my friend and I were talking and the conversation led to talking about him and his girlfriend. So I said that is be forever alone jokingly and he told me that I wasn't alone; that I had my left-hand. Then he proceeded to question me on if that was why I stayed in the shower for a while at a youth retreat that we went to. So me, being a little bit surprised at the fact that he was actually questioning me about this just blushed and said "um…" so what should I do? Should I talk to him? I know that he's just joking and I wasn't hurt by it just…dumbfounded. Thanks!

There is no harm in talking with him. If you feel it's going to take a while to trust him more, take your time. How much or how little information you reveal to him is up to you. Only reveal stuff that you are ready to

[hermanthefish]

If you feel up to it, I think its fine to talk about that stuff. many teens talk about sex and masturbation with their close friends. As long as both of you are comfortable, go for it

[Ttssman]

I wouldn't give it much thought really. These kinds of things will happen from time to time. You just need to have a comeback of some sort ready. That's what I do.

[Brown13]

From my own experience i never had a problem talking about this stuff. I guess mainly because i was never uncomfortable talking about it. So i say just talk to him if you guys are good friends

[joshylandon]

My mates and I joke around this stuff all the time. There is absolutely no problem with it.

[ksdnfkfr]

Yeah plain ol guy talk, nbd

[jampandrada]

if you're comfortable with him, you can open up to him and say that. It's just two guys talking. I mean it helps to have someone you can talk to that you actually know

[riverboy]

If you feel up to it, I think its fine to talk about that stuff. many teens talk about sex and masturbation with their close friends. As long as both of you are comfortable, go for it

I agree with this. I know I got a couple close friends and we talk about every thing.

[Bmble_B]

There is no harm in talking with him. If you feel it's going to take a while to trust him more, take your time. How much or how little information you reveal to him is up to you. Only reveal stuff that you are ready to
Johnny over here pretty much summed it all up

[Ethe14]

If your comfortable with it then there's no reason to not talk. Pretty normal IMO

[From Chris]

So…first off I'm 15. So today my friend and I were talking and the conversation led to talking about him and his girlfriend. So I said that is be forever alone jokingly and he told me that I wasn't alone; that I had my left-hand. Then he proceeded to question me on if that was why I stayed in the shower for a while at a youth retreat that we went to. So me, being a little bit surprised at the fact that he was actually questioning me about this just blushed and said "um…" so what should I do? Should I talk to him? I know that he's just joking and I wasn't hurt by it just…dumbfounded. Thanks!

You shouldn't let something like this surprise you, seeing as how most guys masturbate! I think it's less awkward keeping it a secret than not! :) It's perfectly normal to talk about it and lots of boys are curious. Hope this helps.

-Chris <3

[HSJock206]

My friends and i are always joking about it and making comments about doing it. its normal guy chit chat and bantor so just roll with it. An guy who denys doing it or has never done it is out of touch with reality. its a standard human function for both guys and girls

[Catholic Guy]

Well you just joke around about it because that seems to be what he was doing just stuff like "yeah" or "no I was using my left hand that time"

[imthomas]

I talk with my friends about it all the time

[Body odah Man]

So…first off I'm 15. So today my friend and I were talking and the conversation led to talking about him and his girlfriend. So I said that is be forever alone jokingly and he told me that I wasn't alone; that I had my left-hand. Then he proceeded to question me on if that was why I stayed in the shower for a while at a youth retreat that we went to. So me, being a little bit surprised at the fact that he was actually questioning me about this just blushed and said "um…" so what should I do? Should I talk to him? I know that he's just joking and I wasn't hurt by it just…dumbfounded. Thanks!

He's just jokin around man, it's fine. I wouldn't be worried none. Only be worried when a girl asks u this stuff, as then ur in danger

[allgrownup]

that was actually hot

[nklarke]

If he brings it up again you can joke saying that you uses the right-hand instead of the left-hand.

[GoWA_Vet]

no big deal to talk about it really

[Curious.kid]

I would be embarrassed also! And Blushing. But just say that yeah you masturbate with your hand (I use my right) or your left or right. And ask if he does it too. If you do it in the shower then ask if he does it in the shower or in his bed whatever and try to make him feel embarrassed!

[Snydergate]

There is nothing wrong with talking with others guys about masturbating and other sexual things. Its pretty normal, I do it with my friends sometimes.

[snowtrax]

You should've just said "ummm maybe" and laughed it off. I'm sure he didn't mean for you to be in such question over it. He was probably just horny and wanted the conversation to go further.

[swimmerbby]

It's just guy talk just joke back or question him

[ComfortableInChaos]

Let's be real. Almost every guy jacks off. If you did it then, then just own up to it (if it makes you feel uncomfortable, then don't, just let it go. I personally would talk about it.). Don't feel pressured into talking about it if he brings it up again. I would talk about it because it's normal but it's okay if you feel embarrassed about it. A lot of guys don't talk about it or admit it. I mean, there's like 95% of guys who do say they do it, and the other 5% do it, but don't tell anyone is the statistic. Some guys here say they don't which if they're like, 13, I could understand but 14 and 15 year old guys I believe do it. Just don't feel too obligated to saying you do/did it then. You could make a joke back and ask if that's what he does when he says he likes to [insert activity he enjoys here] and make him feel awkward. Idk, it's fun joking around like that with your guy friends, it seems to me... :P