changing in front of older guys

[Matt 04]

How do u feel about changing in front of older guys? Has anyone ever made a comment on your body? I openly change in front of guys my age but if there are older guys changing at the gym i will face the locker more and change faster but don't cover up with a towel or shirt or go to a stall like i see some guys my age do and i will shower faster if an older guy comes in. No one has ever made a comment to me but a guy in his 40s or 50s told a kid about my age that he was really hung. I was in the sauna the other day and an older guy made a comment on a kid's muscles and chest.

[BaileyWill]

That’s really creepy to be honest. Weird. You should let an adult know since that’s not right at all.

[Jake445]

I have no problem changing but it hasn't happened too often so far.
The comments are really weird though, even if they are supposed to be a compliment!

[kro814]

Comments like you said, sound weird, especially coming from adults. I haven't seen or heard that in places we share with grownups. Like the sauna or locker room and showers.

[Jericho14]

That's definitely creepy. If that was me, I might as well go to the stall to continue changing

[Bikini Boy]

I have no problem changing but it hasn't happened too often so far.
The comments are really weird though, even if they are supposed to be a compliment!


Agree....I have no problem changing in front of other people but comments like that from an older person, even if they were not meant to be creepy...well, they ARE creepy!

[Adamant]

Not body confident at all and tbh most kids of my age seem to cover up a bit. Dont have compulsory showers after pe in schools here so just not so used to all this nakedness stuff.
Tbh anybody commenting on a strangers junk is weird whatever their age.

[evansk8]

I usually towel-change, or bring my clothes to the shower stall. I've never heard anyone make a comment like that. Really weird.

[kro814]

Towel changing or changing in a stall isn't an option in my pe class. Doing either one really gets ya teased or harassed by classmates. Words like sissy and so forth.

[ska8er]

I have no problem showering or undressing in
front of older guys but if u find it uncomfortable
and guys r making comments I would avoid the
sauna and other closed places if u find u don't
trust them. Shower fast and use a towel or cup
urself in and out of the lockers or showers. Some
guys may just comment as compliments or maybe
even they r uncomfortable and not know how to say
things. If u think they r being rude or creepy then
report them but u r going to find that if u workout at
a gym or do sports where u r going to mingle with
different age boys and men u r going to experience
this.

[gromit]

I really don't see a problem. Be proud of who you are & what you have. Everyone develops differently.

I worked in a footy club in the locker rooms during the school holidays. I was around the players every day. They were aged from 18 to 30. I was 15 & lots of guys commented on my body & gave advise. I didn't have a problem being naked in front of them & didn't have a problem with them being naked. It was the most fun job I ever had.

All guys rib each other and roughhouse in a lockerroom. It's a sacred man space where you can be yourself. Plenty of guys made comments to me about how I was developing & how great was body was. I never took any of it as creepy just because I was so much younger.

One guy used to comment that my legs were sexy, I never took offence but I did blush occasionally, which would elicit more comments but it was all in fun.
I was held down and tickled on my birthday and dragged to the showers by a group of naked men.

Seems to me that some guys are looking for a reason to be creeped out by older men in a locker room setting. If you expect the worst, your gonna get it. If you're worried about older guys hitting on you or touching or looking at you, you're not living your life in a positive way.

If an older guy hit on me, I would think of it as a compliment & I am self-assured enough to be upfront with someone that was acting inappropriately. I have been hit on, flirted with, propositioned & touched. I have never been molested inappropriately. Probably because I'm not constantly suspicious of other guys normal behaviour. Give others the benefit of the doubt.

[Datboi123]

That does seem creepy, but after all it can just be locker room talk.

[gromit]

I went to a hammam in Morocco with my dad & that was a real eye-opener.

You can't go naked as that is not allowed in Muslim countries so you wear your undies to bath. They fill buckets with really hot water and port them over your head. Then you hire a guy to give you a massage & wash you with a scrubber. It's really intense & they wash you everywhere. I mean inside your undies, even your butthole gets scrubbed.

[jamie_n5]

I change in front of all kinds of other guys young and old all the time. It's never bothered me since I have done this since I was little. I have had guys tell me that I have a nice cock and balls a few times. I am proud of who and what I am and take it as a compliment if some looks at my body.

[AustinAw3some]

I don't feel to weird changing in front of older guys that I know. I change in front of my coach in the locker room sometimes but if it was a random guy it would be a little weird but I would probably still do it.

[Chris298]

Honestly if I am at the gym, it is a little uncomfortable changing in front of someone that is a lot younger or older, I don’t like changing in front of pre-pubers or like over 30’s lol... I’m still a little weirded out because when I was like 14 I was showering and this little kid was showering while his dad waited outside the shower steals and I must have had the first “grown-up” penis that the kid saw because he asked his dad why the boy had a beard on his weenie...

[AustinAw3some]

Honestly if I am at the gym, it is a little uncomfortable changing in front of someone that is a lot younger or older, I don’t like changing in front of pre-pubers or like over 30’s lol... I’m still a little weirded out because when I was like 14 I was showering and this little kid was showering while his dad waited outside the shower steals and I must have had the first “grown-up” penis that the kid saw because he asked his dad why the boy had a beard on his weenie...

I'm gonna start calling pubes weenie beards now..

[Chris298]

I'm gonna start calling pubes weenie beards now..

Lol it is pretty funny just wish it didn’t happen to me lol at least there was no one else in the shower at the time, maybe that was a good thing... but on the other hand maybe if it was crowded I wouldn’t have been noticed as much... I think the dad being like right outside the shower just kinda made it weirder too, it was kinda like one of those moments where I just wanted to disappear haha

[Stanley]

I don't really mind being seen naked by anyone so I just change normally lol