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FaitoDayo
April 4th, 2014, 01:37 AM
Well, might as well just introduce myself. I am this kind of weird person in California. Basically everyone thinks I'm gay, but I'm not. Rest assured. Reason for that is that I scream like a girl, I hate sports, I kind of isolate myself, I have mainly female friends, guys hate me, and stuff like that. So... kind of explains why people think I'm gay. So recently, this new student came to my school. My friend introduced me to her. When I met her, I already felt something was a bit off. Just a few days ago, by coincidence, my friend asked her if she liked me. (Which was the thing I was suspecting.) She got really red and apparently at my 6th period class, that other friend told me that "Someone has a crush on you." So... eek. Right now, I like this other person, but you could say that love is dying, as she hates me and I've been trying to avoid her. (Yet I can't, for some reason.) Another guy probably likes her. What do I do? It's not like I don't like her, it's just not happening until I really don't like that other person... Any opinions? To summarize...
Me Likes > Female A | Female A > Hates Me but likes > Male A
Female B Likes > Me | Me Don't really like > Female B

Miserabilia
April 4th, 2014, 01:52 AM
Well.
I can't even give advice on this because I have 0 experience with anyone ever crushing on me lolol but...
Maybe it's time to let go of A, if she doesnt like you than maybe you should give her up

emonerdz
April 4th, 2014, 05:33 AM
Don't understand

Elysium
April 4th, 2014, 06:14 AM
Puberty for Boys :arrow: Relationships and Dating

DiamondsGirl
April 4th, 2014, 06:58 AM
I don't see how you being labelled as gay has anything to do with this?? Or am I misunderstanding stuffs? Honestly in your story I don't see how there are two females.. but based on your mini diagram, I guess I understand what your situation is right now.

With Female B:
just pretend you don't know she likes you. If she confesses, say sorry. Keep it cool.

With Female A:
I know this sounds totally crazy but before that other boy sealed the deal with Female A, you still have a chance. I don't see why would she hate you?

Rallo
April 4th, 2014, 08:33 AM
Well, might as well just introduce myself. I am this kind of weird person in California. Basically everyone thinks I'm gay, but I'm not. Rest assured. Reason for that is that I scream like a girl, I hate sports, I kind of isolate myself, I have mainly female friends, guys hate me, and stuff like that.

I think things are a tad odd at your school..
Usually, if you're in with all the girls and guys hate you, you're considered far from gay, but anyway.. :P


Back on topic..
I would personally say try getting to know Female B?
I've in the past looks at girls and gone "nope, would never date her", then got to know them and they turn out to be really awesome people.

Invisadude
April 4th, 2014, 09:00 AM
This is what I call the circle of love you go round and round until you finally find someone who you like and they like you. I have been in this situation to many to many times not the gay part but the liking someone who doesn't like you but then having someone like you. It honestly sucks

JVTeen
April 4th, 2014, 09:02 AM
Well, might as well just introduce myself. I am this kind of weird person in California. Basically everyone thinks I'm gay, but I'm not. Rest assured. Reason for that is that I scream like a girl, I hate sports, I kind of isolate myself, I have mainly female friends, guys hate me, and stuff like that. So... kind of explains why people think I'm gay. So recently, this new student came to my school. My friend introduced me to her. When I met her, I already felt something was a bit off. Just a few days ago, by coincidence, my friend asked her if she liked me. (Which was the thing I was suspecting.) She got really red and apparently at my 6th period class, that other friend told me that "Someone has a crush on you." So... eek. Right now, I like this other person, but you could say that love is dying, as she hates me and I've been trying to avoid her. (Yet I can't, for some reason.) Another guy probably likes her. What do I do? It's not like I don't like her, it's just not happening until I really don't like that other person... Any opinions? To summarize...
Me Likes > Female A | Female A > Hates Me but likes > Male A
Female B Likes > Me | Me Don't really like > Female B

Im like on the same situation

FaitoDayo
April 4th, 2014, 03:53 PM
Umm, well, that first part was just my introduction of myself and has almost nothing to do with this. Anyways, it's just so complicated.

Dalcourt
April 4th, 2014, 11:36 PM
So well, maybe you should try to find a female C? Someone you like and someone who likes you back??

What sense does it make with female A if she doesn't like you and wants someone else? And what sense does it make with female B if she likes you and you aren't interested??

So really forget about both and look for someone else...Dat simple.

radsniper
April 4th, 2014, 11:46 PM
ok ask female a and if she rejects you then the rejection could make you give up on her letting you move on to female b and if not look for female c

FaitoDayo
April 5th, 2014, 01:12 AM
These are good ideas. Except for some reason, when it comes to love right now...
Female A - Dunno why I can't stop liking her no matter how much I try...
Female B - I guess I kind of like her, but already like Female A more...
And sadly, I'm f**king asian. The Chinese type. Where they force you to be a doctor and not date until you're about 18. Which is when my freaking life will be over!

DiamondsGirl
April 5th, 2014, 02:51 AM
These are good ideas. Except for some reason, when it comes to love right now...
Female A - Dunno why I can't stop liking her no matter how much I try...
Female B - I guess I kind of like her, but already like Female A more...
And sadly, I'm f**king asian. The Chinese type. Where they force you to be a doctor and not date until you're about 18. Which is when my freaking life will be over!

I'm also a "Chinese type" Asian. Ni hao? ;) just because we're born Asian, doesn't mean we have to follow the rules. This is 20th century!

Stronk Serb
April 5th, 2014, 09:19 AM
I'm also a "Chinese type" Asian. Ni hao? ;) just because we're born Asian, doesn't mean we have to follow the rules. This is 20th century!

21st century. I agree with you, dating in your teens>skin colour.

DiamondsGirl
April 5th, 2014, 09:49 AM
right sorry I was stupid today.. XD

ksdnfkfr
April 6th, 2014, 03:42 AM
You'll get over A.
Give B a chance.
Be yourself and not a stereotype.

FaitoDayo
April 6th, 2014, 03:35 PM
I'll figure something out somehow.