Partner count of SO?

[SenorAnon]

Howdy all, just doing a little survey of sorts. For those of you who have a bf or gf:

Have they have sexual partners before you?

How do you feel about it if they had partners?

How many partners before them have you had?

[ska8er]

I had 2 girlfriends one I knew wasn't active
and the second was a player and she was with
a football player while she was with me. Im sure
she was sacking him. I think no matter who u get
into a relationship with u have to wonder if they
had partners before u but u cant ask straight out
if they did and if they had sex.

[SenorAnon]

I had 2 girlfriends one I knew wasn't active
and the second was a player and she was with
a football player while she was with me. Im sure
she was sacking him. I think no matter who u get
into a relationship with u have to wonder if they
had partners before u but u cant ask straight out
if they did and if they had sex.

Oof, like you mean your second gf was cheating on you? Sorry to hear man, infidelity is terrible.

[ska8er]

Oof, like you mean your second gf was cheating on you? Sorry to hear man, infidelity is terrible.

I caught her flirting with the guy and she said she was
fooling with him but I caught them again and I told her
to go and she hooked with him but then He dropped her
and she wanted to come back and I said No that you see
how it can hurt. That was 2 years ago. Ive had two more
girls that were only casual friends. What Im really looking
for now is a sweet guy. I had some interested but they
were a bit childish or little too flaming. I like a straighter
acting guy. :cool:


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[HFrint]

My current GF had I think one other before me. During my gay/curious era) I had my own BF and (my bf was ok with it) I was with three other boys.

[logan2002]

Neither my current ,over 18 months gf or I were virgins when we met. We are friends with the other people we each had sex with before we met each other. Not sure if she knows I had jo, bj buddys, be weird to talk about.

[jamie_n5]

I have done many things with other guys for years. My BF and I both are the only one that we have had anal "intercourse" with and it will remain that way unless for some unforeseen reason we ever split up.

[user-999]

Have they have sexual partners before you? Yes

How do you feel about it if they had partners? Doesn’t really matters to me.

How many partners before them have you had? Don’t know the amount but quite a bit.

[Zika]

I think no matter who u get
into a relationship with u have to wonder if they
had partners before u but u cant ask straight out
if they did and if they had sex.

Why can't you ask? Of course you can. There's nothing wrong with talking about your partner's sexual past. If they don't want to talk about it, that's ok and you can decide if you want to do anything about that.

I've discussed the sexual past of my gf's. I may not always believe them, but I have no problem bringing it up.

[ska8er]

Why can't you ask? Of course you can. There's nothing wrong with talking about your partner's sexual past. If they don't want to talk about it, that's ok and you can decide if you want to do anything about that.

I've discussed the sexual past of my gf's. I may not always believe them, but I have no problem bringing it up.

With a new partner I would ask only if I came
clean bout my past also but someone u have
know for awhile I would not ask. I think u would
know if u had someone who jumps from one
partner to another what kind of history they
have had. IDK-Its the way I see it.

[Zika]

With a new partner I would ask only if I came
clean bout my past also but someone u have
know for awhile I would not ask. I think u would
know if u had someone who jumps from one
partner to another what kind of history they
have had. IDK-Its the way I see it.

I agree. I certainly wouldn't ask a girl about her past if I wasn't willing to tell her about my past. In any case, I don't consider it 'coming clean.' I have nothing to be ashamed of and most girls, unless they use sex to get what they want, have nothing to be ashamed of either.

[Gazebo]

Seems very ridiculous and selfish to me to think any less of your partner just because you aren’t their first significant other

[Zika]

Seems very ridiculous and selfish to me to think any less of your partner just because you aren’t their first significant other

I didn't see where anyone said that in this thread.
Did I miss something?

[Gazebo]

I didn't see where anyone said that in this thread.
Did I miss something?
Nobody in particular said anything. I was more so referencing the second question which says, “How do you feel about it if they had partners?” My statement was directed at this question because I think it’s stupid that anyone would feel any differently about their SO if they had previous partners.